Taurus Woman and Aquarius Man Compatibility


Famous Taurus-Aquarius Couples: Uma Thurman and Arpad Brusson; Valerie Bertinelli and Eddie Van Halen; Nora Ephron and Carl Bernstein

I guess it is possible for any two people to get together on some basis, but this is a wild stretch of the astrological imagination. Taurus is so conservative and Aquarius is so out there it is hard to conceive of these two having a single thing in common except their stubbornness. Furthermore, Taurus is interested in money and material well being while Aquarius could care less as long as he has an ideal that he can dedicate his life to.

How to Attract an Aquarius Man as a Taurus Woman:  Show your intelligence and detach from the personal. Focus instead on the issues that surround him. You are probably going to meet him as a member of a group working for a positive goal for the community, so take advantage of those circumstances to create conversation. Aquarius is fanatically loyal, so you should believe in his cause or at least be willing to learn more about it. If you don’t think you can commit to it, you’d better leave him alone.

How to Attract a Taurus Woman as an Aquarius Man:  If you are intersested in a Taurus lady who has her own finances, you have a good shot of wooing her with your glamorous lifestyle.  She spends a lot of time doing simple things like housework, gardening, sewing, paying the bills, cooking, and shaving her legs.  Your causes and vast network of interesting “friends”  can really be attractive to her if she’s got a stable life of her own she can always go back to.  Be respectful of her needs and take the time to explain things to her carefully and you should find that she is willing to join you on some exciting adventures.


Degree of Romance: It is hard to be romantic with an Aquarius because he puts the value on friendship. When he refers to her as “best friend” the lady bull may not understand the complement fully.  This man is not into flowers, candy, handholding or special feelings.  All Aquarians seem to have a time space issue where they crowd as much as they possibly can into each hour of every day.  She has got to be prepared to get up early and go to bed late if you want to keep up with this dynamo. Of course, this leaves little or no time for romance, which he will consider a complete and utter waste of time.

Degree of Passion: Both these signs are capable of intense focus which passes for passion; however, it will be toward, in the case of Taurus, material possessions, and in the case of Aquarius, The Cause. They can lead two separate lives if they get to know each other well enough, and it will be very helpful if Taurus  shows some passion his projects.

Degree of Friendship: This is one sign combination that can have a high degree of genuine friendship (which Aquarians value above everything else). He has a humanitarian streak and code of honor that insists he devote himself to the well-being of his fellow traveling companions on the planet. She will have to extend herself a little. It will help if she can hook up with some people in his network (again, to show support for his cause). Tauruses are not unfriendly but the act of extending herself is not necessarily natural.

Degree of Marriage: These two could stick out a miserable situation for a long, long time because each one is too stubborn to admit they have made a mistake. Please look outside yourself for comment as necessary as to the appropriateness of your liaison. In some cases the façade of a marriage is maintained while Aquarius vacates the premises at every possible occasion and gives Taurus the money to furnish and provide for the home. Tauruses can withstand a lot of loneliness.

Progression of Relationship: This relationship has a lot of pushing and shoving in a psychic sense. Each is bossy and thinks they know how to make progress. Taurus is possessive, and she has a long list of activities and even duties that she expects the Aquarian to do, whereas Aquarius is always interested in closure so he can move on to other things. If he is interested in her, he may try to rope and tie the lady bull so he can get back to the rest of the rodeo.


Sex: Taurus wonders how you can have sex outside your body, where Aquarius invented virtual sex long before the Internet came around. It’s not that Aquarians believe in fantasies, but they are capable of communing with the others in a sort of Vulcan mind merge. The energy connection is satisfying to the Aquarian and substitutes nicely for two bodies meeting. Naturally, this is not going to go over well with the Taurus at all, but then she is perfectly capable of satisfying herself if it comes to that.

When It’s Over: Most of the fireworks inherent in this combination will come at the end. Taurus has a spectacular temper and Aquarians are able to stomp off on a dime. The willfulness of each sign makes compromise difficult and explosions inevitable. Taurus may think she owns the Aquarian, which is a disaster waiting to happen since you can’t control an Aquarian whatsoever. Any Aquarian worth his salt knows that all he has to do is leave to assert his famous independence. I have an image of a magician handing an empty hat to a bystander who shakes his head saying, “Where did he go? Where did he go?”

Our Rating: 2/10

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60 Responses to Taurus Woman and Aquarius Man Compatibility

  • angel says:

    I’m a taurus woman and I’m talking to an aquarius man. We have always hung out with his friends around. Then just recently We hung out once by ourselves. However, he was playing a video game the whole time online. He kept using phrases such as, “this is all for you”, “I wanna get to know YOU”, and used the term “best friend”. He said he enjoys our time together….
    During our time apart, he rarely ever texts me. I feel like our relationship is of convienence. I suppose he spends most of his free time playing that stupid videoo game. SO I downloaded the gameso I can play with him. lol
    iddk, I guess I’m just totally damaged and don’t want to be led on is all. I like him a lot and he says he likes me but isn’t looking for anything, but me being a taurus, I like relationships and only do things if I know the relationship is going somewhere. so, I guess time will only tell and I’m not good at just going with the flow of things. I like everything when I want it. idk what to do……

  • Peter says:

    @ angel “I want everything when I want it” that right there is why I can’t stand Tauruses, they’re so damn stubborn

  • Christy says:

    This thing summed up my marriage. I am a Taurus women while my husband is an Aquarius. We are both too stubborn to end the marriage, even though it is physically killing us (slowly).

  • Matt N. says:

    I feel that i am opposite when it comes to what the author says about commitment and being touchy feely as i love to cuddle and hold hands etc. I am chivalristic and enjoy pampering her, cooking for her, taking her places going out to dinner etc. I want a relationship with her and have been willing to work on things with her as we have had very similar and very different upbringings at the same time…

    I am an Aquarius male and have been talking to a Taurus women for the past 3 months. Our relationship, which has not ever been made official, has been like that of a roller coaster with amazing highs and a few low’s. We have been intimate a few times and spend a lot of time together, almost everyday it seems since we met over the summer.

    Our age has played a part in a negative way I feel in that I am 7 years older than her & we are both under 30. She was raised with a strong religious background & is very traditional. She admitted at one point in time, that she was attached to me but slowly has been sheltering herself away, emotionally, over the past 3 weeks. I wonder if I have become too attached to her over the few months and am scaring her away by communicating with her too much via texts and phone calls. She does not ignore me and answers when I call.

    She has had a rough past, Ex’s who were abusive, and I feel she is outlandish at times and secretive about who she spends her time with when we are not together. I do not have a problem with any of this as I know it is healthy to have your own life and friends but understand it must be hard for her to overcome her past when it comes to trust and relationships given her most recent breakup.

    I try very hard not to wonder who she is texting or hanging out with when i go to work, which is not that hard when I think about how much time she spends with me when she could easily ignore me and not answer my calls when i call her as she is extremely beautiful and people are always looking at her when we are out in public. I know she gets “hit” on quite often on a daily basis.

    She has told me that she is torn between having a relationship and not having one as I have certain qualities that she loves but at the same time, as mentioned before, we are in different stages of our lives, me being 7 years older than her and both under 30. I fel age is just a number as we get older but she is still in college and enjoys partying with randoms and what not. I have been there, done that so to speak. I sometimes feel as if she has only been hanging out with me because she likes to make me happy and does not want to disappoint but then again maybe I am just over thinking. I have gone out of my way many times to try to make her happy and I know she enjoys the time and memories we have made together.

    I want this relationship to work and have done what I can to please her but sometimes I feel as if our relationship may never become official or that we may just end up friends in the end given her past and time needed to come back around. Even though she has separated her self emotionally over the past 3 weeks, we still spend time together almost everyday which tells me, she still wants sometime out of this… no?

    as i write this at work.. she texts me and its 1am.. she was going out with friends partying tonight… coincidence?? IDK you tell me…

    ~Matt

  • Yvonne says:

    the aquarious i know… well he cheated on me and his current gf with each other. i know is hard to understand… but with all my life experience what i can say is that the few aquarious i have had the plesure of meeting are assholes till they turn 25 or so… i mean… they are inmature and all they want is sex… well maybe that is guys in general.lol. although it took me 4years to get to know him… and get over him…now i can say… that even though i am not 100 percent over him… i am really close to getting over him… and all this aquarious boy turned out to b was the biggest mistake in my life. I hope he and his gf all the happiness… and hopefully i dont bump into him in the future… bc to this day… i still hate him and love him… i hate his betrayal… i hate… everything that has to do with him. I know this is not related at all to what people are saying in this horoscope thing right now… but i just needed to get this out… to feel better.

  • Yolanda says:

    I am a taurus woman and I married aquarius man . From what I read aquarians are suppose to be loyal and commited. I dont think this is true cuz my aquarius husband cheated on me continously and even while I was pregnant ! With diff women . Even got another girl preganat while he had a preganat wife already. Anyways I am a single mother now even thoufh legally we are still married he hasnt shown he hasnt come around for me or his son its going on two yeRs and he still being a dirtbag out there cheating and lying sad but true

  • Alaysha says:

    Call me crazy but I do not fully agree with this. I am a Taurus woman and I am dating an Aquarius man and our relationship is great. He truly is my bestfriend and I could not have asked for anyone better. Out of all the relationships I’ve been in this is by far the best one yet. I have dated man who are “supposedly compatible” to me and I was miserable in that relationship. Until I met the man I am dating now and I honestly know why it never worked out with anyone else. Of course like any relationship we have our differences but I would not call it something that we are both to stubborn about to admit we are wrong or break up. I just call that not giving up on your relationship so easy and working through your problems. Our three biggest thing are communication, respect, and honesty. I believe without those you cant have a relationship, of course with trust added in there but that is a given. You also can not based your relationship off of all these zodiac signs and readings because love is love and what the heart wants is what the heart wants. It shouldn’t matter what some people say on a website is should matter what you say and how you feel. I love my Aquarius man and we happen to be the worst compatibly couple if that made sense lol. But the point I am trying to make is we are proof that these two signs can date and be great together. Hope everyone just finds true love one day no matter who they are suppose to be compatible with but because they truly love that person.

  • Torri says:

    I’m a Taurus woman and I’m talking to a Aquarius man. At times he annoys and harasses me but I think it’s just because he really loves me. And partly because I feel as if he’s lonely and he just wants companionship. He told me he’s been hurt and he wants something real and that will last.I don’t really know how to feel about him. I guess he’s just growing on me. I mean sometimes I like him but that’s only when I haven’t talked to him. I guess I’m just compatible with his actions thus far and it’s almost like I expect it. So when I don’t get a gm text or gn text I feel abandoned. Idk I hope that made sense. But on the other hand our relationship is more like on the lines of him wanting to be with me more then the other way around. Like he complains to me about not spending enough time together and not talking enough. And I’m more like we don’t have to talk and be together all the time. I mean he’s super clingy towards me. And plus he’s 26 and I’m 19 so we share difference in maturity. Like he wants marriage and kids and I don’t really care to much for that right now. Like I just want to have fun and enjoy my youth. But sometimes I don’t feel like he has trust for me because he’s been hurt so many times. He is always accusing me of being with other guys. Smh we’ve been talking for 3 weeks and it’s this crazy so I don’t know what to do and really where to go with this relationship????

  • Eva blue says:

    Had three Aquarian bfs in my life. They are attracted to me only when I acted like a player. When I show my true self they got shock. Aquarians love cheeky mind but when I fall in love I become too heavy….. I sometimes feel myself as heavy and emotional ball bag as well. I get so nervous and worried when I am dating because I think that If I speak too much it might bore the hell out of the other person. It is so stressful and hard to have good time when I am with someone I like. All my Aquarian friends are great; I treat them like a business partners. They try to hang out with me more but I push them away as I do not want to be closer. These men are sweet, soft like feather, makes fireworks around you but my instinct always say ” Peter Pan is from wonderland”. Even If I really want them, I rather keep them as my peter pans, the beautiful spirits, dancing togather in the fireworks once in a while.

  • Lisa Smith says:

    I have been in a relationship with an Aquarius man for over 19 years, within the first few months he showed signs of his wondering eye, he would often leave me to go talk to his “girl” friends, he was always constantly surrounded by women who he claimed were just friends. More on that issue later. First and foremost, Aquarian men make great friends but you should never go beyond that, in a friendship there is give and take, and Aquarian men will give and give and take very little (in return) when they are in a friendship. However in a relationship they do the opposite; they take and take and give back very little, you end of feeling really depleted and exhausted having to deal with all of their problems and drama which they constantly surround themselves with. The little bit of affection and attention they do end up giving you in a relationship helps to maintain the status-quo but there is no great love story or passion to be had. They are not soul-mates and can not be in sync with what you want our of life or who you are as a person, you end up feeling very alone and isolated even when you both are in the same room. One thing that is at the heart of the problem is that as a Taurus woman you will want stable, honest, faithful and good people to surround herself with, however an Aquarian man is the opposite, he will actually seek out the most broken, the most unstable, the most crazy, the people who constantly create and crave conflict, the people with low self-esteem and who are usually the misfits; who don’t understand how to interact with normal society or act with normal behaviors. These people are the ones who no matter what refuse to be stable adults because they would rather act like children and call themselves “unique” and “special” they are usually the parasites of society getting financial support from family members or living with a lot of debt to maintain the illusion that all their crazy behavior actually pays off. These are the people the Aquarian man want to help, to fix, to support, these people make the Aquarian man feel needed and loved. So if you are a stable, hardworking, emotionally stable Taurus woman then expect that you will be lonely because your Aquarius man needs a project, he wants to be fixer, he wants to go out and share his knowledge and expertise on everything, and even if he can’t help he wants to be there for “emotional” support. It could be your birthday, it could be Christmas day, a child’s birthday, it can be your 10th year Anniversary, his phone is always turned on to the highest ringer volume, he will refuse to turn it off, he will take that phone call, and he will leave you if someone asks for his “help” even though they have other friends, he will feel the need to respond and he will jump into action. Even in the middle of lovemaking, he will leave you to go and help a “friend” and if you protest, fight or argue then expect that he will shut down and refuse to talk to you or be nice to you for the next couple of days until you apologize for not letting him go and help a friend.

    If you think this is great and you really want a “good” guy who is really “loyal” to his friends and family, keep one thing in mind, this one thing that will drive you absolutely crazy for the entire time you are with an Aquarian man, the people who he calls “friends” and “family” are never friends to him. He is sacrificing time with you, time to build up your relationship, time to build your love, your life together is often on hold, for people who would not return the favors they receive so easily from him. They are never loyal to him, they don’t treat him with respect, they don’t value his attention, they are takers and that’s all they do is take from him. The people who claim that Aquarian men are great in a relationship, are usually the nut bags who create conflict and drama on a constant basis in their lives, they need constant saving, they are the takers not the givers in society. For example, these people often get into fights with family members, friends, people at work(assuming they have a job), they are always going out, they can never stay home(because home is just too boring for them), their house is always under construction or is in disarray, they live “high on the hog” or are always trying to keep up with their neighbors or friends who are wealthier than they are. These people are blood suckers, time suckers, energy drainers and drama queens. Then to replenish a sense of balance back into his life; to input some sense of normalcy and kindness, an Aquarian man will seek out the comfort and attention from you; a Taurus woman. So when those blood suckers are done draining his energy, he will seek you out and be nice to you because now it’s up to you to be there for him; to make sure his life is in order; cooking his food, cleaning the house, doing laundry, taking care of the kids, paying his bills etc. However when you want or rather need to be taken care of, when it’s time for him to listen to your problems, to make sure you are happy, guess what? He is gone again! He has what he needs to go out an help another one of his so-called “friends/family” and you are left alone waiting for his sorry ass, hoping that he will actually spend time caring about what is going on in your life. And when he does give you the time of day, it is only because he isn’t being pulled away by someone else; he has nothing better to do, so he will be like okay I guess I can help you because no one else wants me right now. I am being dead serious, this is how an Aquarian mind works. He goes from person to person, he can never sit still. And the only reason he is with you is because he is using you to solve his problems; maintain the house, cooking, pay bills etc, so he will play nice and pretend to be your friend but he isn’t really. He is not being there with you because he wants to be, he is there because he gets something back or he has no where else he has to be. If you don’t create drama for him or create problems for him to solve, then guess what? He becomes your blood sucker, your energy drainer. He brings other people’s problems into your relationship, he will be moody, non-responsive, unhappy, he will refuse to talk to you because his family is sad so he can’t enjoy life. There is no equal give and take in this union, he can be trained to do his laundry if you say no because he needs it for work or to go out and be friends, but it isn’t because you two are sharing the work load. He is quite comfortable with you doing Everything. If you ask him to do something and he doesn’t want to do it because he is reading his favorite blog or watching a show(which he can pause) he will give you attitude and the silent treatment because he will see it as you are ruining his day. He literally wants you to be the 1950s wife who does the cooking, cleaning, kids, groceries, everything…while he sits in front of the screen and relaxes. The only caveat is if he sees you are in pain or you complain long enough he will help but it is never constant, you can’t rely on him. He is absent-minded and honestly after a while you just end up doing it yourself, it’s easier that way and you won’t have to deal with his mood swings.

    That’s another thing, he is often so moody that the slightest thing will set him off; if your voice is raised, if you are annoyed, if you are having a bad day and he feels that he is being criticized, like somehow you are blaming him for your bad day, when in all honesty you are just venting. An Aquarian man is very temperamental (erratic) meaning every interaction has to be on his level, if he is calm then you have to be calm, if he is mad you can’t be more mad or he will just walk out and leave. He wants interaction only on his terms, however with his friends he puts up with all kinds of bullshit but with you he has to be shown respect and courtesy at all times. I am being dead serious, his friends and family members can disrespect him time after time, they can treat him like dirt and he will have nothing but nice things to say about them, he will love them and be there for them, he will be their doormat. However if you “disrespect” him once (call him an idiot for leaving you alone on your birthday) then he will start seeing you differently and not want to be with you until you apologize to him for making him feel bad.

    Also, there is no meeting of minds. An Aquarian man will go out of his way to disagree with anything and everything you have to say. In the beginning of the relationship when he is on his best behavior he doesn’t show his true personality as being stubborn, judgmental, egotistical, vain, self-obsessed and argumentative. Instead he comes across as being kind, easy-going, non-judgmental, giving and generous. He is very deceptive and only shows you the best because honestly he wants to you to like him. In the beginning years of the relationship you will think you are really lucky to find such a wonderful and sensitive man who loves his family and is truly good on the inside. When problems arise he promises to change his ways and begs for forgiveness. If he did something wrong to hurt you then he is sorry and he won’t do it again and of-course he does it again and you forgive him because he has a way with words. He says things like I love you so much, you are my life, I am sorry, I have never been in love before I am learning. You as the Taurus woman are so trusting and are always willing to give 2nd, 3rd, 4th chances because you are so kind hearted and good (possibly naive to the ways of men) that you forgive him because he seems really geniune; he will actually cry in front of you and beg forgiveness. However when you live with an Aquarian man only then do you see the true person. You see the demanding nature where you have to cook and clean the house for him and for his friends so they can come over. Even though they just spent all week together having lunch, talking on the phone, now you have to be the good wife and cook and entertain his friends and family when all you want to do is re-charge your batteries in the safety and comfort of your home. You honestly start feeling like his live-in servant. You don’t want to have sex with him because you get to see how unstable, moody, disrespectful, vain, egotistical, judgmental and argumentative he truly is. But by the time you finally realize no more talking or arguing can fix this relationship, when he stops showing his nice side all together and their is more bitterness than happiness, when you want out, you realize that you are now old, with kids, have just given the best years of your life to a man who doesn’t respect you and what you do for him. And you get mad at yourself because deep in your heart you knew you should not have forgiven him when he left you the second time to go be with someone else because he is such a “good” person and that is what good people do. You get angry at yourself and then you accept your faith, you realize that you are in this mess because you believed all of his LIES: of him wanting to change, of him being truly and deeply in love with you, of you being his best friend, and of being his one and only true love. You wake up from the stupor of you believing his bullshit because you have a very logical mind as a Taurus woman and the inconsistencies can’t be explained away and you can’t hide from it anymore, you made the Biggest mistake of you life: being with an Aquarian man. And even if you have a good day, all he needs is to get a phone call and he is gone, he has no loyalty and no devotion and in essence no love for you, he can’t because he is tied to other people who he considers his family and his friends. He is not tied to you. Reason, logic, loyalty, true love does not come in play when it comes to his family or his friends because he wants to be the best son, the best sibling, the best friend, the best co-worker etc. and being the best husband and father are usually the last things on his very long list. As a Taurus woman we only have a select few people who have earned our love and respect but for an Aquarian man, everyone becomes his friend and everyone deserves his loyalty, time and attention if they want it.

    Lastly an Aquarian man is extremely vain. He wears a mask of being a good person, so in the public, he is seen as a hero. He likes that description and works very hard to maintain his outside fake personality, only when you live with him do you see that he is flawed, sensitive, moody and he has to be constantly entertained. In the middle of watching a tv show, he will be on the phone reading news or texting. Every beep the phone makes he rushes to see what is happening, even while driving if the phone is ringing he wants to pick it up and I’m like you can call them back later, he gets grumpy, moody and refuses to hold a conversation with me until after he has responded to the call, only then will he be sort of okay again. His says it “might be important” and my thing is: it’s illegal, dangerous and it is never important. He is in constant fear that one day he will miss that all important call. I truly believe in his head he thinks he is some type of superhero who answers the call and who comes to everyone’s rescue. When dating him, I never saw any of this hero saving mentality or any of his personality flaws, he kept it well hidden and was usually on his best behavior trying to impress me and the little fights we would have I could forgive because I honestly thought he wanted to change. Now that we live together, I see he doesn’t want to change. He just wants me to sit around and wait for him. He sees me as holding him back from being there for his family and friends. I am left doing everything while he gets to go out and enjoy life. He wants to save the people who he “loves” or who he considers a friend and sometimes that includes me and other times (many other times) it doesn’t. In addition to all our other problems, I never feel that he gets me. He always has to keep busy doing something. One thing that is totally true is that as a Taurus woman I am firmly grounded to reality and as an Aquarian man his head is always in the clouds. He likes to live in a world of fantasy: these people who he considers friends and family who do nothing for him, who disrespect him, who ignores him, who uses him for what he can give to them: money, time, his work expertise, he lives in a bubble where he thinks they care for him, even when time and time again they are mean and selfish. He is really like the wind he goes wherever he wants and gets mad if you hold him back from doing what he wants, when he wants. And as a Taurus woman I am like a tree providing shelter, shade, food to others, I am loyal, grounded, real; what you see is what you get. He was not real, he has been a huge disappointment to my life and now I am stuck here because like the tree I have put in roots and have built my life up on this hill where his wind blows. The reason I wrote all of this today is to save one Taurus woman from making the same mistake I did years ago. I had read above that someone said it’s been great dating my Aquarian man, he is so different than other people they were “suppose” to be a compatible sign with, all I want to say is do not fall for that fake persona. Do not get lured into a relationship with an Aquarian man, they are not being themselves, do not get stuck like I did, do no think you can change them, they will never change, do not think that it is nice that they are so loyal to their friends and family, that is going to bite you in the ass when you are home alone with the kids and he off saving other people. An Aquarian man cannot be happy, he will always be distracted by someone else, he is drawn to drama and conflict. An Aquarian man likes to think of himself as a fixer, as a judge, as a source of knowledge so he will always stick his nose in other people’s business. He cannot and will not ever let people go, he has a low self esteem and has to be included in every thing. He needs and seeks the approval and validation from other people such as friends, family and co-workers. He is not sure of himself and is not confident, he is usually faking it. An Aquarian man is usually introverted, shy, moody, grumpy, extremely volatile with an explosive anger, their fake persona that they have crafted over the years, comes off as confident, self-assured, logical, nice, friendly, approachable and in control. You only see the real Aquarian when you live with them. Their parents, siblings, friends they all think he is the greatest person, they have never seen the real him, he has never shown them who he really is, he always gives them the best. As a Taurus woman it usually takes a lot to rile us up but when we do, watch out, then we want to make back up however with an Aquarian male, it takes Very Little to make him angry and he Stays angry for a very long time, he does not want to make back up. He just wants to leave. My point is don’t be fooled into falling for an Aquarian man, don’t have kids with him or you will be stuck, live with him for a year or two without kids or even pets and you will see the true man surface, no one can pretend all the time, you need to live with them in order to see them for who they really are because Aquarians are highly deceptive and cunning.

    As Taurus women we are kind, giving, loving, devoted, trusting and are the most loyal people, after close to 20 years of being with this Aquarian man I can honestly say we have had some good times not great (never great) but we have had the worst of times, real bad times where he refused to listen to reason, we have gone into debt because of him, we have lived in bad areas, have had to be unhappy for a very long time because of his poor decisions and constant fighting, he has broken up and threaten to abandon me and the kids when I was extremely ill. I will admit, I like the fake person he pretends to be, that is the person I fell in love with, I see that person maybe twice a week if other people and work doesn’t stress him out, he can’t handle stress, usually he takes it out on me, like why can’t I do more to make his life easier. I can’t change my life or my circumstances and I have learned to ignore all the bad and only focus on the good, I have had to in order to not go insane living with this man. His coldness and lack of empathy still astounds me to this day, given the fact that the moment someone else has a problem he is ready to rush in an save them but I have realized it’s because he wants their respect and approval and he knows that I am stuck here with him and I will never cheat or abandon him. I am truly committed even though he is not. So all I can say is don’t be fooled by an Aquarian man, look beyond his fake personality because what you see is definitely Not what you are going to get. If you are willing to give up huge parts of yourself and your sanity then maybe you can survive the way I have, taking it day by day and by trying very hard to not get into arguments; letting a lot of things go, then it can work but that is a huge price to pay and you will be lonely in the end because he just doesn’t understand you and he can’t relate to you on your level. Everything ends up being a conflict because the two of you just don’t fit, he is used to being fake and you are used to being real, he wants to be everyone savior and you want to built a life and a family together, you want him home he wants to go out, at the core, you two are different and your differences will rip you apart. Constant conflict and strife are inevitable in this pairing, don’t suffer through it, even when you think it is better, he has usually been lying and hiding things behind your back. These two signs are completely opposite and incompatible. I truly feel the only times when we are truly happy is when I am being what he wants and he is pretending to be what I want. And that is no way to live unless you have to. And hopefully you won’t have to, get out while you still can. Find someone who is truly worth your devotion, love, time, trust, compassion and loyalty. Don’t waste one moment of your energy trying to make a relationship work when the foundation is built on sand.

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