1. Sara jenkins

    I am a Taurus but right on the cusp of Gemini, though I still feel very much a Taurus – very homey, materialistic and love nice things also very practical. I had a relationship for several years on and off with a Libra male.. Strangely his birthday was the same as my mothers and one day ahead of my sisters. I get on really well with them and therefore – wrongly – assumed that we would be a match made in heaven.

    Initially it was. He was incredibly romantic and thoughtful and made me feel as if I was incredibly special. Our sex life also was incredible. We were very inventive and made love all the time! However he was also very possessive and jealous. He could be quite controlling and once took a knife to a skirt of mine which he deemed too provocative.

    He implied that I brought out the worst in him and that the behavior was my fault. Even now I have to remind myself it wasn’t all my fault.. Our relationship was quite volatile and seemed to involve a rollercoaster of breaking up and reconciliation.

    Quite often when we were on a break he would meet another partner and then very obviously flaunt her. This would break my heart as my self esteem was not great back then.. Like I said our best times were truly wonderful, romantic and sexy but the worst were appalling! We lasted three years on and off – mostly on to be fair but we could never have got married – it was like a fairy tale but there was no reality which is what I needed.

    Thank god we never had children as he was so self obsessed I would have been so torn. I have had difficulties with Male Librans being rather flighty and childish as well as sexually charged. I am not sure if this is down to their star sign or perhaps I bring out the worst in them!

    Strangely I have been happily married to a Capricorn for many years now and we have kids and lots of nice stuff in our nice home! Funny that!

  2. Zhu Ming

    I am a Taurus woman and my husband is a Libra. We’ve been married for 3 years now but counting from the time we dated it’s been 8 years in total. Suppose to be 9 if we didn’t break up the first year thinking I was too young then and he wasn’t committed at the time. The first year we met, I’m not sure we were an item but definitely there were chemistry, connection, and a lot of attraction between us. Although (in the first year) he never told me how he feels toward me but his body language said a lot. But for us woman we need to be initiate, assure and some sort of security. He’s the type who was very afraid of talking about his feeling. I wasn’t the pushy type or anything but at the time my girlfriends were deathly worried about me afraid I was going to be play by this Libra man. Our thing lasted only for a month and a half. I was very depressed because I like him a lot. We didn’t see each other until a year later and that’s when we got back together and took our re lationship serious. The first couple years were very tough for us due to family differences and finance. It has been a struggle but we made it through tears, enduring, and patience. Today, we are a happy, loving, peaceful couple.

    I’m sure every relationship is like a rollercoaster we still have our moments when we’re not on the same page. We are so opposite! Our argument is very rare since I am very patience and enduring and he is able to forgive and compromise. Living with a Libra for many years I learned that they don’t show their weak side to those who are not close to him. My husband, coming from a divorced family is not close to his family at all. It is only me who he asks for help. He is very nice, kind, and generous but he will never admit when he’s jealous or controlling.

    Those of you say Libra can’t make up their mind, true, they are very indecisive but if the partner is dominant in making the decision like us Taurean, the Libran will admire us for our decision making. Also to those of you that are afraid Libra is very social-flirty they are only like that when they haven’t find their right mate yet. Once they find their true love they are very committed, caring, understanding and loving.

    We are the perfect pair like two halves find its whole because both of our star is the planet, Venus. It is true, we love fine dining, movies, and wines. We also like hiking, traveling, and we both are center attention of parties lol. We have a great special bond, incredible sex , intense attraction and amazing connection even to this day!

    Myself as a Taurus, I am truly blessed and the luckiest wife in the world to be married to my Libra husband. I don’t think Libra can last long with any other sign other than Taurus. We are meant to be.

    To those of you; any signs, wants to be with a Libra man you need patience and enduring affection. It is hard work but it is well WORTH IT.

  3. Brendan

    “Richard Jaeckel” “Robby Takac” and “Shawn Ashmore” are all married to Taurus, though.

  4. Brendan

    Firstly, I wish someone would ‘moderate’ this website and remove all the annoying, fake, troll comments.

    Secondly, if you analyse famous people, you realise this combination is pretty much always ends.

    I have never been in a relationship with a Taurus lady. However, I have to spend a lot of my time with my boss at work, he’s a Taurus. Even my mum is “Tauries” (figure it out).

    It’s hard to describe, but it’s like Taurus has two eyes, and with one eye they see all the things Libra see, and the other eye… I can honestly say that, of all the star signs Taurus is perhaps, I dunno, the most “self-disciplined” sign and are quite insensitive to ‘wayward’ or perceived ‘eccentric’ behaviour.

    I know it’s a REALLY CAMPY example, but at my job (it’s physical work) I don’t like carrying, um, a ‘heavy stomach’, so if I feel the need, I just go to the toilet. This REALLY pisses my boss off. He’d say something like “Going to the toilet is a waster of time, in that time you could have packed 5 to 10 boxes…” But I feel uncomfortable and I feel it affects my productivity. Also, there is no point me explaining it to my boss, because Taurus is VERY VERY stubborn and they don’t change their mind on <>

    I believe Libra can be the most ‘self-indulgent’ or ‘eccentric’ sun sign. Because, although they say that “Aquarius” is the most eccentric sign, they are co-ruled by restrictive Saturn, and can be very self-disciplined.

    If you look at famous Libra, you can see what I mean “Alistair Crowley” “Timothy Leary” “Jason Alexander (i.e. George Costanza)” “David Lee Roth” “Chevy Chase” “Will Smith” “John Lennon” “Zach Galifianakis” “Gene Autry” “Walter Matthau” “Christopher Lloyd” “Chuck Berry” “Dizzy Gillespie” “Thelonius Monk” “Oscar Wilde” “Evil Knievel” “Groucho Marx” “Mickey Rooney” “Sean William Scott” “Scottie Pippen” “Tony Shalhoub” “Ted Healey” “Larry Fine”

    As you can see, many Libra male celebrities become actors who have no qualm whatsoever to make fools of themselves in front of the camera, or becomming outspoken philanthropists who say the most seemingly rediculous things that very much go against the grain, or musicians who wear silly clothes and play music different to what every one else is playing.

    I imagine standing by such a man would be utmost painful for a self-respecting Taurus woman who would not want to sympathise with such egregious frivolity. She is a fixed sign after all, and no matter how romantic he may be, she won’t put up with that.

    Also, some Taurus ladies at the start of this thread were saying “I’m not only about the money”, well, let’s reverse it, how many of you Taurus ladies out there want to date a man without a stable income, stable career, and follows pointless ‘pie-in-the-sky’ dreams? Or, worse, someone who is unemployed or doesn’t have decent career prospects? Not that all Libra is like that at all, but many of us prefer to ‘follow our heart’ and ‘believe in our dreams’ which is territory a thoroughly practical Taurus is not interested in.

    If you say that you need a man with a solid career focus, that makes sense, but that would wound the heart of a romantic idealist like a Libra Man, thinking to himself “She’s only in it for the money?” which is how He will see it.

    Most likely bound to end in failure. I could name quite a few successful Libra Man Capricorn woman couples off the top of my head, but Libra Man Taurus woman couples, ha ha, maybe if his birthday is on cusp of Virgo…

  5. oneyla

    I am Taurus woman, and the guy I started dating is a Libra. We’ve been talking for a month now, so we’ll see how things go. I have to say that he is very sociable, and I am not, so that might be a problem right there. But I will give it a try.
    I have never dated a Libra man before, and I am 30+ years old. I’ve always dated Aries(my favorite), Virgos, Leo men(though they never love me back).

  6. Emma

    I must say I totally agree with you on this, friendship has to be that mould that will hold any possible shaky tremors together, without that friendship foundation its useless, amazing sex is great but friendship last forever….how important is that sexual attraction in comparison to deep friendship… I believe friendship is that particular type of investment where we’ll learn to communicate and understand each other on a more profound level, where its based on respect, trust, honesty, fun and our similar values and those are the essenses that makes for a long term romantic relationship amazingly successful.

  7. Ryan

    Iam a Libra-Man married to a Taurus-Women for the past 10yrs and have been with her a total of 12yrs. We got married young she was 23 and I was 27.. We kinda rushed things along.We had a child together within a year plus she had a son in a previous relationship which I’ve been in his life since he was 6months old so I see him as my own..So long story short there was not really a time that was just her and I figuring each other out so we have had a lot of turmoil over the years but still fought threw it..It now though has come back to bite us though she about a month ago wanted to leave and I never so it coming until it was almost too late Luckly I caught on and we are working on it..We are basically starting over and working on the friendship of our marriage which we never got a chance to do in the beginning. Over all I Love my Taurus wife and despite the turmoil and the ups and downs I couldn’t imagine life without her and my kids..People I think don’t realize there is no such thing as a absolute perfect marriage no matter what sign you are with its about who you are as an individual..

  8. taurus girl

    Charmer, charmer, charmer, is the big word for Libra men. I a taurus woman was married to a Libra man and dated one years later. I have to say bedroom stuff is great with a Libra man they definitely give a taurus woman affection and rec it back. Messy and lazy in home chores, yes. Wondering eyes and flirtatious, critical, undecisive at times, yes for both of the Libras I was with. Of course some things are based on a persons character and how they were raised so no 2 people are the same. One was more commitment oriented than the other, one was such a charmer he had me fooled. For the most part I think our signs are compatible if they did not have weird upbringings.

  9. kelly

    i was reading the discription of Libra here and started thinking that sounds just like the love of my life that passed away way too young. I doubled checked his bday and yes he was a libra. I have met a man that is all the things discribed here and now I am wondering will he be the second love of my life. I am 30 years older now and think I may just have better realationship skills and just might be able to make it work with this silver tounge libra. And when it comes to the money issues mention over and over here. I am not worried about how much money he makes, I have my own.. but with that said he has to be able to support himself or I am gone with a flick of my tail.

  10. Vet_al

    As a taurus woman my libra guy is my rock. i hang onto his back. he is my ship in stormy waters is vik. libras see both sides of the pic. i see my ship ploughing through steadily though. should i set him free and go back to the bough?

  11. Maggie

    To Caligirl, it was a game to him and he won. But I suggest u read this book called “Venus and mars on a date”. Once you read it you will understand how the whole stupid game routine. You need to do your part and pretend you don’t care and then he’ll come back. Pretend you don’t care and don’t put him up so high (their ego). This goes to all the women, never make feel too high up there cause then it goes to their heads and then they become A-hos

  12. CaliGirl

    Oh the charm, oh the charm! I met a Libra man, first one that I had spent time with and after the first date I was not impressed at all. His charm felt cheesy to me but on advice from friends I gave him a second chance which went better but I was honest and told him that even though he had taken me on a dream date that ended up in looking over the Pacific Ocean with a full moon that I didn’t feel that it was genuine and that there would be no physical/romantic contact until I felt a genuine connection. This seemed to impress him to no end and made me feel much more comfortable. By the third date something clicked and it was fireworks. By the end of a month spent getting to know each other my heart fell for him and he all of a sudden was too busy to spend any time for me. Text sure and sweet phone calls sure but always too busy with work and golf and family and it seemed that the only person he could say no to was me! I feel duped by a charmer and he got a taste of my Taurus temper which has produced a wall of silence by him even though he received an award winning apology from me. Do I just move on? I would like to think I would get the chance to spend more time with this charmer but would like to know if they have a tendency to cut things swiftly?

  13. Tamiko

    @Harriet i agree. i dont know if its a tarus thing or just a female thing but when i am depressed a round of fressh air helps. nothing like a long walk to clear your mind and refresh the soul. sometimes i even drag my libra husband to it. they say water (or the sound of it)soothes the soul. maybe i have somethin pisces in me idk? thats when nothing can be so bad..after all theres always tomorrow and tomorrow is another day.

  14. Harriet

    Taurus woman here. Were slow to get it sometimes but Libra man will tell you. When its stifling and depressing a vacation is the best thing. Whatever..if you dont want to spend big bucks. Take in lots of air and kkeep in step with him all the time. and keep up wth him if his stride is big than yours. he must adjust his to slow down with your pace. thats when this will work. both have to work together and adjus their pace this is not a race life is not a race.

  15. Maggie

    Thank you and Happy belated birthday to you too and I knew it wasn’t over!!!! 😉

  16. CRS

    Hello and Happy Belated Birthday to you!! I had a great one and btw he and I spent it together. And we’re back together again LMAO. Feels so silly typing this LOL but it’s true!! I will definitely check out the book you mentioned above. Thanks for everything and good luck with this relationship rollercoaster we happen to be on! 😉

  17. Maggie

    you know I can’t even count how many times we broke up and in the begining he would try to reconcile or it would be me trying to reconcile our relationship. If you read that book I mentioned above it says the relationship is always hot n cold and insecurities always emerges in both parties. Every time I think its really the end of our relationship it never really is. So nowhere days when we break up or the threat of breaking up emerges I just don’t take it seriously. About that book, you don’t have to buy it. Go to google and type in “sparkling thought taurus III libra II” and click on the first one. By the way I’m wishing you a Happy Birthday and I hope everything goes good for you, mine is actually tomorrow, I’m getting old “sigh”

  18. CRS

    Update… We broke up last week. The trust issues did it in, mostly on my end. But we had plans to go out of town this weekend for my birthday and I just asked him if he would like to still go and he said yes. I guess this will be our last hoorah before we start going out separate ways. The good thing about it all is that he insisted on me saying that we would hang out post-breakup. Initially, I didn’t want to but he’s someone I definitely can’t quit cold turkey. There goes that charm AGAIN!! LMBO!! :-]

  19. Maggie

    but anyways thank you CRS for sharing that, I was starting to think there were no other couples out there who share the same week as us lol.

  20. Maggie

    To # 26 When we started dating I didn’t want him at all at first but he was extremly persistent and very charming which eventually won me over. He immediately started telling everyone we were together (even before I accepted him as my bf) I use to give him all the space that he wanted too. Until one horrible day I went through his phone while he was asleep. I found out he was talking this particular ex and he had a long list of ex-girlfriends. I broke it off but then we got back together. To be honest I wasn’t miss innocent myself either, he eventually found out that I was talking to old ex-kicks of mine and he took it pretty hard too. To make a very long story short of an almost 5 year relationship we still love each other and still want to be with each other. although we really need to work on our trust levels. We have had ugly fights before (that has escalated very high) other than that we really do consider each other best friends. We can have long conversations about anything and we enjoy each others company.

  21. CRS

    To #23 I’m also born the week of May 11-18 and my bf born the week of October 3-10. We started out very slow I didn’t want a relationship at the time and some how some way after months of spending time with eachother we fell into a relationship. I met his family and friends kind of early on which really shocked me, we always go out and have a good time. He really tries to do things that I tell him I would like to do. He’s very considerate and for the most part has a great memory. One thing that makes me leery of him is his friendship with his ex. I’m confident that there is nothing going on between them but I’m not so sure of how long he will hold out on the possibility of falling for her again. I’ve asked him and of course he denies it but that little voice in my gut commands me to wonder. As a Taurus however I give him a lot of space, I don’t need to talk to him all the time and when we do spend time with eachother about twice a week we usually have a good time with one another. Libras can sometimes have a dangerous amount of charm, that word couldn’t describe them better. So be careful of it or you’ll feel like someone has sprinkled some kind of magical dust on you, when they decide to use it… and they use it quite often. And they definitely have a wandering eye so beware of that too. It’s almost as if they can’t help themselves.

  22. MIAH

    Well Ladies ! I have been in a relationship with a Libran male for 4 years. It has not been easy i tell you. I do not want to start off sounding pessimistic. But the truth is the truth. In the first place, moments in time was easy and adventurous there was nothing we did not do that crossed our minds. In and out of days and weeks, into the months, his non committal attitude is what pissed me off more and more. His innate insatiable appetite for female friends and going places never ended. Although he works his butt of until he can not anymore, he comes straight home from work all the time. But lies started to talk and movements began to move and then next thing you knew I was always crying war tears. But sex always made it better, though that was our healer and our way of apologizing to one another. He is naturally charming, great appetite for good place to eat and go have a good time, very educated and tactful with diplomacy embedded. Now at this point we are hanging on by a thread, and we are trying. I want to have faith we will marry like he promises as I hear a lot of those. He is protective and encouraging and loves my child as his own. Libran men are overall good people with good just hearts and love to have fun, but they are incapable of settling down when at a young age and they will want to always be free no matter what you do or how good of a woman you are they love variety in everything from women to knowledge. though if a libra has fallen in love with someone deeply and thinks she is the ONE, HE IS LOYAL AND FAITHFUL AND LOVING

  23. Maggie

    Mellie :
    I’m a Taurus woman who just started dating a Libra man about a month ago. I’m not sure if he’s real yet. He’s too good to me, so I’m not sure if that’s a facade. I fall for the charmers and kick myself in the butt when they break my heart. He said he cannot remember the last time he was this excited about a woman in front of me to his friend. I think maybe he can be too critical and he definitely has high expectations and demands. He is not messy at all like Libra’s tend to be. Very much a perfectionist, very ambitions and impressively successful (bonus!). He loves my wits, intelligence and my giggle. No games between us. As a Taurus woman I can never get enough of someone I truly care about, so I know to let him make all the moves, relationship wise. The last thing I want to do to my amazing Libran is to make him feel smothered or pressured.Thoughts?

    Type your comment here
    That sounds true for me too. I’m a taurus girl and I easily fall for charming men, like my guy totally win me over with his charms and I hate to smother him in any way.

  24. Maggie

    That sounds kinda true in general. I’m a taurus woman dating a libra man, we’ve been together for almost 5 years and I’ll tell ya, our relationship is absolutely hot-n-cold. When we first started dating I wasn’t at all trying to get a man with money. Money doesn’t buy love but it sure does help out in the long run (especially in this economy). I’m actually really deep into this book called the “secret languges of relationships” and its the best astrology book out there. Everybody should look into it. It goes by the person’s week of birth. I’ve been very curious about something for a long time now, are there any couples out there that one of you (whether your a man or woman) is born between May 11-18 and your partner is born between october 3-10. I want to know if these couples with the same week as my partner and myself have similiar experiences and personality traits as us and if the relationship lasted a long time. Basically, I want to hear insight.

  25. Mellie

    I’m a Taurus woman who just started dating a Libra man about a month ago. I’m not sure if he’s real yet. He’s too good to me, so I’m not sure if that’s a facade. I fall for the charmers and kick myself in the butt when they break my heart. He said he cannot remember the last time he was this excited about a woman in front of me to his friend. I think maybe he can be too critical and he definitely has high expectations and demands. He is not messy at all like Libra’s tend to be. Very much a perfectionist, very ambitions and impressively successful (bonus!). He loves my wits, intelligence and my giggle. No games between us. As a Taurus woman I can never get enough of someone I truly care about, so I know to let him make all the moves, relationship wise. The last thing I want to do to my amazing Libran is to make him feel smothered or pressured.

  26. Maria H.

    Im a Taurus woman and most of the men i’m INSTANTLY attracted to are Libra men! We have such a hot sexual chemistry, it’s unbelievable. It’s when we try to get down to a relationship that we have the issue. I can’t live without them in bed, but I can’t live with them anywhere else! LOL!

  27. Adreanna

    ive never personally wanted to attract a libra they r easy to get but u kinda dont want to but there great friends ive been with some libra guys theyre cool buut not wat i want but great friends as i said

  28. vien

    im taurean female n have previous relationship with libras man. i found him very interesting and informative, but through problems and different views, we have decided to split up.

    this doesn’t mean we’re compatible, we will succeed to the end. it’s a way around.

    at least, that’s my opinion.. good luck to others.

  29. Tee

    after reading some of these comments, here’s my two cents:

    taureans, steer clear from libras, male or female. their revolving-door attitudes make them excellent mental patients, and perfect partners perhaps only to those who wish to explore the depth of their shizoid behavior, or those who desire beautiful objects void of any real substance. libra is the only non-living sign of the zodiac, but they sure can imitate emotions when it soothes their vanity…

    as for taureans and money, I don’t know any taurean who is obsessed with it, even though we are gifted in realizing its value. I’ve seen capricorns and pisces, scorpios and even virgos (!), not to mention leos who would go as far as beg, borrow, steal, or even prostitute themselves for money or any kind of luxury. taureans, on the other hand, work damn hard to get it.

    perhaps all of you meant that taureans search for ‘quality’ when seeking a partner? something that will last long and prove to be trustworthy? someone who will want to build a life beside them? who isn’t afraid of actually *participating* in a relationship? of taking responsibility for their actions and decisions?

    yeah, well, if you identify value with money, I guess all of us taureans are only looking for it. in our ideas, dreams, partners, love, our philosophy is value. 😉

  30. mila

    I’m a pisces woman wth a libra man, and can say the libra man is far from lacking in the sex department, most just need a good mate to stimulate them
    And pisces women have no interest in money lol our minds are elsewhere

  31. Thìckmamì

    Im a taurus and i aint all about money, i dont care bout how much money a guy has, i like to provide for myself

  32. Belinda

    I am a Taurus woman who WAS dating a Libra man. I found that male libra’s still require their freedom. My ex-libra would stay at my place for a good four nights straight out of the week, then at the last minute or “on the day of” he will tell me he can’t come see me, although, he would pick the obvious nights out of the week to say that, for example, Tuesday-day off……Friday and at times Saturday nights. I wouldn’t text nor call him at all, but I did once and he woudnt respond until the next day?? Libra men aren’t very committed, at least not this Libra man; I’m sure not all Libra men are like this

  33. laura

    i’m a taurus women and im with a libra man and we get along great.
    i don’t agree with the comment that taurus women are money hungry because i’m very independent i was befor i met him and i will be if he leave. My libra man is very opinionated about the things i wear and he shops with me but i love that about him but we do get misunderstand each other at times but nothing a couple of hour can’t fix i’m very happy a good luck all taurus and libras

  34. Poetic Mindz Provoke

    Yes, us Taurus women love luxury and aquring things but we are damn independent and are resourceful women. In my journey of relationships I have been always pursued or intrigued by Libra men and Cancer it’s always been a Cancer and Libra back and forth but I am with a Libra now and we have a son on the way and we plan on the big M so good luck with the Taurus and Libra relationships.

  35. Mega T.

    My libran guy is great but sometimes he gets carried away with his creative abilities (which are formidable I must admit). I have no problem with his space needs. It’s when when he distances himself and is still communicating 🙂 …. appreciate the efffort but the communication is fuzzy. It’s like talking through water. That’s a novel way of doing things. And I love fantasy too. So while I can understand when he gets me wrong and why, sometimes what I hear is just plain worrisome. And I am not sure he gets that.
    As Charlie Brown would say Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaargh! Or maybe morse code underwater…..hmmmm.

  36. Emily

    i dont like how it says a libra man needs to pull out his wallet to win a taurus woman. it really depends on how the taurus grew up. because my mind ended up being set to really not caring. a man doesnt need to buy me anything at all to win my love, because i grew up getting along with the parent that makes less money because they would actually talk to me. the parent that bought me things made me feel bad because we wernt on good ties socially. Taurus’ arnt all about liking men with money..

  37. Andy

    Myself being a Libra man and my girlfriend a Taurus I have to state how accurate I find the way Taurus’ gravitate towards money and they will flat out deny it but it is defintly there! Do not make mistakes on your budget that is for sure, she will go looking for the money. Other then issues about money I find we are a great match and have a child on the way.

  38. julian

    am a Taurus women and yeah money plays a part in me staying with a man, am a successful women very independent and my Libra man is too we make a perfect couple.

  39. Cher

    Taurus women are not money-hungry. Libra women and Pisces women are all about a man’s money. 🙂 We Taurus women accumulate our OWN resources…try again.

  40. bg

    Depends on the case…. this sign is a baby sign too….very needy…dont hear it from the taurus, but it takes a financially set woman and a bomb in bed man to make it work….for a libra, to a taurus, well, it isnt easy to accomplish

  41. Venus

    Throughout the last 4 years I’ve found myself being attracted to Libra men….all of the relationships that I’ve initiated with them have been unsuccesful…yet I’m still drawn and still intrigued to figure them out…

    …If my compatibility as a Taurean woman with a Libra man is a 5/10 then why have I been so fixated on working things with men of that sign?

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