Taurus Woman and Scorpio Man Compatibility

Famous Taurus-Scorpio Couples:

Uma Thurman and Ethan Hawke; Jessica Lange and Sam Shepard; Penelope Cruz and Matthew McConaughey; Candice Bergen and Louis Malle; Laci and Scott Peterson

This combination has the reputation of being the sexiest one around. Steadfast Taurus can be the perfect complement to Scorpio intensity, and Scorpio’s ability to undermine everything he touches will mean the expansion of her usual boundaries — in all areas of life.

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How to Attract a Scorpio Man as a Taurus Woman:

Every Scorpio is deep down inside looking to seduce a new partner. You must act a bit naïve and stay very still while he stalks you. It will help, too, if you act a bit overpowered by his intensity and overwhelmed by his personal power. By the way, it probably won’t require much acting on your part. Are you sure you’re up for this?

How to Attract a Taurus Woman as a Scorpio Man:

Every Taurus woman is suseptible to a complex psyhe, and boy do you have one.  It won’t take much of an effort to seduce her with your dark magnetism and a whiff of danger.  Whatever it is you’re thinking, whisper it in her ear.  If it gets that far, show off some of your sexual sophistication.  That will have her eating of your hand for quite a while.

Degree of Romance:

Romance and courtship are unnecessary steps to the consummation of this relationship, at least from Scorpio’s perspective. These men are not known for having any finesse or romantic inclinations. If it’s romance she’s looking for, a Leo or Libra may be a better partner?  This relationship is about bonding, sharing resources, intimacy, and exploring the unknown. It may not be romantic, but it will certainly be momentous.

Degree of Passion:

The degree of passion in this relationship may register on the nearest Richter scale, all provided by Scorpio while Taurus remains relatively unfazed. Believe it or not this is a good combination because too much passion can be too much of a good thing.

Degree of Friendship:

Scorpios are not noted for seeking friendship. They are lone wolves who stray from the pack. They do prefer to mate for life, though, and they are known for their loyalty. If he is with her, he probably considers her his best friend. It just won’t feel that way to her.  Taurus, if you want friends, get some girlfriends.

Degree of Marriage:

This relationship is highly likely to produce a marriage bond that could be irrevocable. Both partners take love and intimacy very seriously and consider flirting or even small transgressions as a betrayal.  Taurus is just downright possessive and probably thinks he doesn’t have the right to share what’s hers with others.  He feels things about 1,000,000 times more deeply than everyone else. That’s how sensitive he is to her every thought. He would like to control her mind, as well as her actions and thinks he is entitled to.

Progression of Relationship:

Each partner will take possession of the other – each in his own way – from the beginning or there will be no relationship. There is a tendency to block out the rest of the world during the initial bonding process. Privacy is imperative. Each partner is testing heavily for loyalty, reliability, sincerity, depth, and commitment. This is an intense process that goes on more or less in the dark. Friends, if any, and relatives will be added after the testing period is over.


Sex is so important in this relationship, it is almost a sine qua non. Each partner selected the other on the basis of sexual attraction and they go about testing the strength of this attraction immediately. Sex is used as an emotional bonding mechanism as well as a social activity and entertainment. A long time can be spent getting to know each other sexually before the relationship branches out into other areas. Since they both have that need in common, it’s a real plus.

When It’s Over:

This relationship tends to end like a third act of a Verdi opera – with bodies thrown all over the stage. The fundamental basis of the relationship is all or nothing at all. When it’s over, Taurus strips Scorpio of his possessions, and he may strip her of composure and self-esteem.  Needless to say, the ending can be brutal. Ultimatums are taken in dead earnest and should never be offered unless it’s a last resort. The tendency of each partner is to wipe the other one out in retaliation for a betrayal of trust.

Our Rating: 7/10

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  1. Magical but you ust be patient taurus have a bad habitt of wanting to get to know there spouses ineer eotoins and scorpio keep them well hidden under lock in key may take a while to get use to this but in the end u will find out that thats the reason you 2 fell in love

  2. Dejah ReneeOctober 7, 2011 at 4:38 pm

    i’m a Taurus woman and my boyfriend is a Scorpio and the sex is GREAT ! and our relationship is so loving and tender. we have been together since 12/26/10 and its been growing strong ever since. i couldn’t ask for a better man.

  3. I’m talking to a Scorpio guy and its true, you do feel an intense connection with them. 😛 But you don’t knw where it came from…

  4. …. Well I Want a Particular Scorpio !

  5. I want Scorpio Hot Fire

  6. me=taurusMay 1, 2011 at 11:28 pm

    taurus taurus taurus taurus,
    what the hell are you.. insane??
    i’ve been reading a lot on scorpio and taurus, and observing some scorpio men in my life.
    i’m not saying this just becaue i got burned once (although i did) but you can’t even for a sec. consider this relationship…I’M SERIOUS….U have nooo idea what you’re getting yourself into. it’s so much more than just the most passionate, mindblowing,all consuming relationship, that’s the hook, if you go for it, u pretty much sold your soul to the devil.
    i know it’s all tempting, but you really gotta fight it!! i don’t know one relationship that lasted. look at all the comments, it’s all intense beginings and nasty divroses, or friend with benifit senarios.
    i’m not saying this is a hard relationship, i’m saying it’s an impossible one. i’m a stranger, so i understand if you want to tune me out, but u WILL regret it, i’m willing to bet anything on it. you are guarnanteed to be broken beyond repair.

    he is never nice, and when he is that’s when you need to be worried the most.
    i know most of you won’t listen to me, but when he uses you up and dumps you like trash, my heart will still got out to you.

    if you do decide to ignore me just remember never to confuse the intensity of his emotions with the intensity of his love. they’re always intense, get over yourself, it’s not you that’s cauzing him to feel that way.

  7. im a Taurus woman been with a Scorpio for 3years i always seen him as a friend till i kissed him it went well for a long time ladies its not worth it they are lazy rude and unemployed and good for nothing trouble makers and abusing and its sickening . but u fall so quick for them u feel bad for them i would leave mine but ur scared they will find u Lol…..

  8. Scary read!! I have been having a strictly physical relationship with a Scorpio man the last 3 months…I am Aquarius with Taurus rising and I am definitely more Taurus than Aquarius when it comes to love & relationships. This is the frst time I have ever been involved with a Scorp…the description, so far, is dead on. He pursued me heavily the first few weeks via phone and then told me sweetly he didn’t think it could work between us due to our completely different schedules. That hooked me! I basically told him I wanted sex from him and so we started an affair. The sex is awesome. We role play and see each other a couple times a month. He is one of the most secretive men I have ever met, yet I get the feeling he wants more but is making sure I am trustworthy. he likes me to take charge everywhere but in bed. I am so enjoying this man…

  9. @cem if it makes u happy id do it just watch out for pisces

  10. No luck with scorpios ever!! But it seems they keep finding me. My sons father was a scorpio but such a different type. Lazy. The relationship was boring and unpleaseing at least for me. I just didn’t want him near me anymore. Broke it of with him and what did he do? Emptied the contents of our bank account and left fast. Left his kid with no money to survive.. mind you I never did a grimey thing to this man. So what did I do. Exactly what this says I whiped his ass out. Burned his entire wardrobe bought an lcd tv on one of hiscredit cards, manipulated his move to another state cut up all his id’s, filed sole custody against him, won then filed child support. Now 3 yrs later he’s in the whole about 15k. Can’t even drive bc agency revoked his license. Hmmmm anywayz.

    My next scorp is driving me nuts on for about a yr now and still haven’t established a “relationship” wich is important to a taur woman to know where we stand, the sex is amazing but leaves me feeling empty like that’s all so I started doing the same back to him fk him then leave him. That seems to get more response than trying to cuddle. He constantly asks me if I’m seeing anyone else bc through suspicion he’s now possessive….. but u can’t be possessive of something u really don’t have. When I try to end things we end up in an all out war and its almost more safe to continue what we do now rather than cut things off. This guy is sucking the life out of me killing my self esteem but I can’t seEm to escape this razor grip he’s got on me! FRUSTRATING!

    Now here comes a new guy waltzing in confident and sexy and seemingly wanting to take care of me….. he’s charming and outgoing and willing to put effort into makin me smile… what’s wrong? He’s a scorpio… I’m ccompletely discouraged! I keep turning him down in fear of being in the same past situations.

    I think I’m ready to move on to a different sign u think!?

  11. I’m a taurus girl and this is the second time around with a scorpio man. The first time I got burnt so bad. He was a liar, but he was also caring and loving. This time around I find myself in love again with a true Scorpio. He say he loves me back but he will go days without calling me. We are not in a relationship were friends with benefits. He told me I wasnt ready and I only like the idea of him. Im started to think that is true. If its love or lust. The sex is off the charts. I use to just call him for sex now I call him cause I miss him too. I see myself marrying him cause he is the idepa husband. We have so much in common. He even tells me that I would be the perfect women if I stop bitchn, and that he would make me wifey. He just recently ask for space cause he going through some things but im scared if I do that ill lose him.

  12. whoa. my sister should find a scorpio man.

  13. Canadianlioness1 :
    Is it REALLY that intense dating a Scorpio? I mean come on. How much is this influenced by the descriptions of the Taurus/Scorpio relationships that you read on the net? I am a Taurus with Aquarius Moon and Venus in Gemini. I have not dated a Scorpio before, but come one. I’m a little skeptical here.

    chick i havent dated one either but i had a fight with my best friend one time and it was crazy scary intense i mean like i fought back but in the end it was over a misunderstanding but dont be a skeptic cause its rly that intense

  14. im a taurus chick never gotten with a scorpio i want to bad but the only scorpio dude i know is my best friend and im not into especially like that but hes a great friend and easy to get along with

  15. Canadianlioness1March 8, 2011 at 9:29 pm

    Oops I meant “come on” instead “come one”

  16. Canadianlioness1March 8, 2011 at 9:20 pm

    Is it REALLY that intense dating a Scorpio? I mean come on. How much is this influenced by the descriptions of the Taurus/Scorpio relationships that you read on the net? I am a Taurus with Aquarius Moon and Venus in Gemini. I have not dated a Scorpio before, but come one. I’m a little skeptical here.

  17. Hello 🙂
    Well I’m a Taurus woman and I’m not technically involved with a Scorpio man, but I really want to be. He is just so sexy and intriguing, I just can’t stand it! My story is that one day I was at a store with my friend and my she was telling me that this Scorpio man could just not keep his eyes off of me! I’m not going to lie, I liked the attention ;). So my question that I would like yall to answer for me is, should I try and pursue him?

  18. I am a 42 yo Taurus woman and my boyfriend is a 52 yo Scorpio man. We are both first decans, and we both have moon in Taurus. I am Scorpio rising; he is Virgo. We have been together 2 years. I have found the decants within the sun sign as well as the moon, rising, mars and Venus make a really big difference in the dyad.
    My two closest friends are Scorpio women.
    To me, the Taurus woman/Scorpio man relationship IS the myth of Hades and Persephone. Each one has what the other secretly wishes they had; each seeks to take possession of the other in an effort to transmute these qualities. This man will intuitively perceive (almost immediately) exactly who you are and what you need. And if allowed, a Scorpio man will seek to control you completely (Do not confuse this with leadership). The description Ms. Fenn wrote is bang-on; this relationship will be momentous but not romantic. In the evolved Scorpio man you have finally found a man who will not be dominated Taurus!
    I would like to echo and highly recommend the comment from the previous poster warning to make certain you are involved with an EVOLVED scorpio. And even if you choose an evolved one, be prepared for what the darkest days and moods can bring out in him. Also be prepared for what these states will bring out in you Taurus woman! (judgment, coldness, principled fury etc).
    These people bring transformation into your life, yes but rest assured that it is via destruction. They can also bring healing that is mystical, miraculous and life-altering (I do not exaggerate) and that cannot be compared to any other way of healing. You will bring out the depths of all of each other’s gifts (dark and light). Your patience, tenderness and solidly calm nature will bring healing to his warring soul and possibly launch him into all he can become.
    The phases of courtship worked in our relationship exactly as Ms. Fenn describes. A bit of advice: just like another poster, I determined early on that I wanted this man and kept a very, very open hand. I knew that if he stayed, it would be because I let go of the progress and outcome and not because I manipulated my way. I did the counter-intuitive thing and left it all very much up to God, Fate etc. I am very glad I did. I knew he would not toy with me and that if things did not work out between us, it was for the best. This man understands your need for complete loyalty and fidelity- let him take a little while to decide if he can give it to you! If not, move on.
    Every aspect of the relationship is transformative; not easy for either one of you. Be certain, Taurus that this is really what you need and want in your life. Do not take this as a red-flag challenge but as a bit of spy-like intel from others who have lived in this country: once you go there, you can never come back and it will not all be passion and orgasms. Scorpio man can be the most self absorbed and egocentric beings around… which leads to plenty of lonely times. He will also always be about the business of trying to educate you (aka knows it all) and is usually right- not always a good thing for your confidence and bordering on “wing clipping” aka control. If you want romantic companionship- go back to Capricorn or Cancer (also great, great sex partners). But if you are ready for the karmic consequences of Transformative love, be your gal-next-door, honest, kind, cheery, bedroom submissive/horny self…he will love you with all of his fiery, icy soul.

  19. for the first time in my life I’m writing a comment about my private life. so unusual. I’m taurus and the man I think I can’t live without – scorpio. everything I red here is so true! we know each other since 2007 and there always was ‘something’. just wanted to say, he’s great :d but he’s always playing with me and it’s strange that I like it, but sometimes it’s unbearable to stay calm. I’ve feeling that I can’t hide anything from him and I’m not trying to hide anymore, but, can anyone of you, girls, who have a successful relationship with scorpios, how to make them a bit gentle? 🙂

  20. MITZY :

    Type your comment here

    dude y r u yelling

  21. Taurus TeenJanuary 13, 2011 at 1:56 am

    Dear Scorpio Guy,
    …….I Hope Yuh Break yur neck ASSHOLE…….
    That Is all 🙂

  22. I am also a Taurus woman and ive dealing with my scorpio for almost 16 months. This reading has helped me a lot. I gave him the upper hand and we haven’t had any problems. We take loyalty and honesty very seriously. I pray that we progress because the ending seems scary.

  23. at last i just want to say, if u hav respect, luv for that man n trust in him…..n he is also able to giv a similar response, go for it girl……else the things r in danger…….:)

  24. cont. @Kandace try to understand the necessary components needed to turn a relationship into a marriage…..do u trust him, luv him n if u do, is it equal from his side too???????? just passion n security doesn’t conclude marriage; in fact even a friendship or a relationship

  25. @Kandace………….r u nuts…….damn u……..sick girl why do u want to marry him, just for bloody security…………..u can hire a security guard if u want that……….whatever don’t be fool…….marriage is a very different thing n for a gud n successful marriage u should find a similar type…………:) passion is just like an ice which will melt sooner or later……….. n u r a earthy girl, so think wisely n practically………..n apply logic like libran’s….:)

  26. I have been with a scorpio man for about 7 months. I’ve known him for years but he was in a relationship at the time so I didn’t give in to his subtle persuits. As a taurus female I am very posessive and I want my man to only be mine. As soon as he caught his gf cheating he text’d me saying “I caught her cheating!” Needless to say we were together shortly after and our relationship has been so intense. We are definite opposites though. He is they bad boy type and I am the girl next door type. However we balance each other out and we are so passionate. I definitely want to marry him because he gives me security in the relationship.

  27. As a taurus chick my experience so far wit scorp guys has been interesting. The first time around it didn’t really take off the ground becoz both of us were young and lacked the maturity to just hang in there for a bit. This time around I’m making sure that we don’t rush and take it slow and easy. He’s very patient with me and I love that about him and he’s very understanding too.

  28. I have been with a scorpio man for the past year and it has been a complete nightmare. The only reason I haven’t left his pathetic ass for good is beacuse he recreates the traumatic relationship I had with my father growing up. We are also both sex addicts that feed into eachother’s sickness….so sweet. This man has been verbally, emotionally and physically abusive (only a scorpio would physically attack a woman and claim it was in “self defense”). So for the conclusion…if you are a taurus female and you give in to the magnetic connection we have to scorpios, make sure you are getting involved with and EVOLVED scorpio. If he is unevolved (like mine), he will only bring misery to your life. I can’t wait to get into therapy so I can finally get the strength to leave mine for good!

  29. i just want to cry, it hurts so bad.
    (taurus girl here)

  30. I’m a taurus woman and I met my Scorpio male 2 yrs ago, I instantly felt a connection and also like a “warning-this guy is dangerous” feeling, so I didn’t mess with him.
    A year later we bumped into each other, I was looking for an appartment and he was the landlord, but even then I didn’t fall for his “magic spell”, to make it even worse, he’s from a powerful, notorious and wealthy family, so you can just imagine what that does to his attitude.
    I bumped into him again, but this time he persisted (I think he was off with his GF in their on-off relationship, they also have a kid together), and I just could not resist… he’s everything I’m looking for, powerfull, wealthy, hard worker, sort of a bad boy, but with a heart of gold… we had sex right away, and he treats me nice like a friend, but we don’t go on dates.. I just don’t know where I stand with him right now, and asking him does not seem like an option

  31. I’m a taurus, and I dated a scorpio man…we broke up over four years ago and I still have images of us when we were togather..he rocked my world and ways I never could have never imaged. GOD!! When he looks at me NOW, I want to fall weak, but I know he’s up to something…There’s a fire between scorpios and taurus’ and I didn’t understand it until we ended on a real bad note. But GOD hte pasion he brings into my life is so surreal..I’m glad I had that fire experience I se many of you are referring to.

  32. @shannon Maybe he is near the cusp of Libra.

  33. I met a Scorpio man online. And he is nothing like the sign. He is a “YES” man. He is the type that I the Taurus woman would walk over and control. Which I don’t want.

  34. First Decan BullAugust 12, 2010 at 7:21 pm

    Sex between the two signs is addictive, obsessive, and unexplainable. I am a Taurus female, and my sexual encounters with my favorite Scorpio were intense, and deeply satisfying. I’m very sensual, so I am conscious at every stage we’re in, the need to please him by licking and sucking his lips, licking his fingers, kissing his stomach, and etc. He still insisted on dominating me emotionally and sexually. This scorpio held my hands, put his other arm around me while whispering in my ear simultaneously. He’s very well endowed. Yes, it’s a power struggle between us two, but so worth it!

  35. My ex-fiance was a Scorpio. It was passionate and tender. The breakup was INTENSE. 15 years later I am still haunted by it.

  36. C.S.NaganurJuly 30, 2010 at 9:25 am

    I am scorpio with leo moon & my wife Taurean with virgo moon. It really got over like a third act of a Verdi opera – with bodies thrown all over the stage. The enimity spread like rapid fire. Needless to say, the end was brutal, ruthless, shed deadliest hatred on each other. Hard to guess to a relationship standing for over 23years, had to face this type of an end.

  37. how true does this ring. im the scorpio in my relationship. i have noticed how i attract women . they seem powerless almost.. my gf and i were banging each other within minutes of meeting and have stayed together for quite some time. and the jealous streaks we get when others make a move on us is insane.

  38. I am a taurus woman and i love a scorpio man very very much. I have loved him since high school when he kissed me on my cheek we dated briefly but i messed it up with my insecurity, no matter what we always seem to come back to each other in way or another. I dont know what to do I love him i truly do but he i dont know how he feels about me we live in 2 different states but we keep in contact with each other. I dont know what to do i feel so drawn to him almost as if i know he my soulmate but…… i dont know…….

  39. IrislilyroseJune 27, 2010 at 5:09 pm

    I am in love with a Scorpio man. I am a Taurus woman… We connected almost ten years ago and life caused distance. But just recently he came back into my life. We will soon meet again. This time I pray nothing stops the connection…. I have loved him all these years. I don’t know what will happen but I do know that nobody has taken his place he has always been that one man that made me feel like a queen. What a man!!

  40. taurean aquarius lassJune 8, 2010 at 1:29 am

    I am a female Taurus with Aquarius moon sign. My lover who passed on eight years ago was an amazing, vibrant and warm hearted Scorpio with an aquarius moon sign. So full of life and abundant love and with his infinite joy for me being in his life. He embraced me and lifted me up high into the aether as if he were from another plane of existence. This relationship was truly meant to be, as it also was meant to end when the universe took him away from me via his death eight years ago. 

    He was intense (with the good and bad aspects of this trait) and so passionate about life and his love for me. One moment that stands out is when I fell asleep at his friends house and apparently he was paying out compliments to me in my sleep – he truly loved me exactly how I was.  

    He had an innocent and child-like heart, was playful and extremely sexy in mind, body, heart and soul. 

    I do wonder though if my Taurean strength would have eventually been to his detriment, due to his intense and sensitive nature, if our relationship honeymoon period has ended. 

    Sweet J, you were such an inspiration and a spiritual fire in my soul

  41. There’s this guy I like I’m a Taurus he’s a Scorpio and there’s alway this weird feeling between us we talk alot and I think he likes me but I’m not sure is there anyway I can tell if he does forsure without asking?

  42. my first love was a scorpio man with a moon in taurus. im a taurus woman with a pisces moon. it lasted for several years but we were forced to break up because of our family differences. im a pakistani asain and so was he. its bin a few years now and during our split ive met a cancerian man who im on and off with at the moment but nothing compares to that experience. traumatising i still think about him

  43. beautiful taurasApril 18, 2010 at 5:35 pm

    First love was a scorpio, I’m a tauras. We seem to not be able to get over one another…wonder why? Lol..20 years back. And still think of him…when we see each other well there is something unspeakable there….no words need to even be said.

  44. JazzboScoprioApril 1, 2010 at 12:29 pm

    I am a scorpio male 24 and I have always fallen for tarauses I actually just had one today tell me I make her jealous, jealous all the time… she does the same to me… I can’t believe she opened up to me.. It’s took a whole year and one boyfriend but who knows? We shall see… I;m already looking in the future back at the past baby


  46. VanillabeanFebruary 2, 2010 at 3:18 am

    I am a Taurus who has been on and off with a Scorpio man for over 2 yrs now! At first we looked like just friends with benefits, but it felt like so much more. We never really had a title and i never pushed for it even tho I wanted to! I gave him his space and let him control the relationship! 7 months into our “togetherness” he was telling me he loved me and didnt want me with anyone else! It’s just been going up from there! Let him call the shots and don’t pressure him about anything! Give him the up most respect and let him know you are all his!! He wants all the power and control! Once he feels he can trust you, he will fullfil your every desire! It really is worth the patients and devotion! My Scorpio adores me like no other man ever has!!

  47. i’m tuarus in relationship with a scopio man and i love him i want to maried him can you tell me all about my relationship with him his day the birth is 11-15-1965 and my is 5-4-1967 i realy want this to work so what do i have to do ?

  48. yes. it is exactly as said above.. i had an “almost” scorpio friend, and our relation went like that, now it is coming to an end, thank God it is not exploding, for i am trying my best not to reach that level…

  49. Wow that’s powerful. I can feel it all the way over here.

  50. so …true….almost as it was for us…such a shame the end was like that too…..but it s like it will never be really over….it will be in the back of my mind forever…..

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