Taurus Woman and Virgo Man Compatibility

Famous Taurus-Virgo Couples:

Michelle Pfeiffer and Michael Keaton, Barbara Streisand and Elliot Gould, Cindy McCain and John McCain, Michael Buble and Luisana Lopilato

Supposedly this is a good combination because both are earth signs. The emphasis would be on daily routine, budget, possessions, careful maintenance (house, yard, pet, car), and achieving comfort in the physical body. That is the theory. In practice, Taurus’ casual approach may never work for the tidy Virgo.

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How to Attract a Virgo Man as a Taurus Woman:

Let me be frank with you. It is hard to attract the Virgo man. This is the one sign that initiates mysteriously from a set of inner criteria known only to him. If he chooses you, you can be sure you passed some heavy screening and you should be very honored — until you begin to suspect that you are supposed to meet these standards 24/7! Let me be even more direct: Virgo men are among the most desirable of the zodiac. If you insist on trying to draw his glance, you had best do it in some original and sophisticated manner because he has seen it all. It is also hard to distinguish at first whether he is flirting or serious — and he is the biggest flirt of all twelve astrology signs. If it turns out he is not teasing, you can be sure that you were carefully selected.

How to Attract a Taurus Woman as a Virgo Man:

You Virgo gentlemen are so good at attracting females we hardly  need to give you any advice, but you are also good at listening so it’s worthwhile to extend this offer.  To attract a Taurus female, you should have a no nonsense, down to earth approach.  She won’t be swayed by a lot of romance or extravagant promises, but you are not inclined toward that anyway.   Aside from just being yourself, the most helpful thing would be for you to try a little harder than you normally would.  Tauruses are very slow, but it’s worth the effort.

Degree of Romance:

Virgos are very chivalrous. They are just as much knights in shining armor as any Leo. They tend to look at ladies as damsels in distress and want to be sensitive and careful with their feelings.  Here’s some advice for the Taurus ladies: sometimes his courtship gets a little absurd, like Don Quixote and Dulcinea, but keep that to yourself  if you want him to be comfortable with you. If any man ever put any woman up on a pedestal, he was a Virgo. Being practical by nature, this may all seem a little unnecessary to you.

Degree of Passion:

Virgos are wary of passion because it is an excess. They prefer to be detailed and precise, putting an appropriate amount of energy where it belongs. They strive to even out their interests over a lifetime rather than engage in a few passionate exchanges. Taurus’ appetite for sex may outpace Virgo’s, but the high quality of each encounter may go a long way towards satisfaction.

Degree of Friendship:

Certainly both signs intend to be sincere and are careful and cautious in their approach to other human beings. This is a good basis for friendship. They are likely to have a lot in common, including a shared interest in budgeting, maintenance, and the details of daily life. They are also able to talk things over in a relaxed manner, which should be a relief to both of them. Virgo can be very patient with Taurus, and she admires his ability to combine the intellectual with the practical.

Degree of Marriage:

This is a good combination for marriage.  Taurus will like the slower pace and the tendency to be conservative. These two are likely to share core values and approach life from the same vantage point. There is an emphasis on material well-being and a willingness to work very hard to get it.

Progression of Relationship:

It is either delightful or horrifying to date a Virgo male. He will either be a virtuoso who puts a girl through a variety of thoughtful and specialized activities or he will be shy and intense to the point of silence.  At that point, he just needs a good prod.  At that time, the famous Taurus patience will come in handy.


This is a good combination for sex since both are earthy and require physical touch to feel loved and appreciated. They are willing to provide this in abundance to the other. Virgo may even consider it his duty. Taurus will respond by providing a steady, sensual experience.

When It’s Over:

Taurus will have to nurse Virgo through his inevitable nervous breakdown if this ever ends. He’ll be fine, of course, it’s just his way of processing the emotions he hasn’t been showing. A Taurus lady is probably very easy to live with, while cohabitation with a Virgo man is likely to be a challenge. I bet that will be the make or break issue in a long term relationship.

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  1. lindsey baileyMay 15, 2017 at 5:49 pm

    All Taurus women deserve a great big hug for their patience.

    Seeing as their Virgo men are probably not there to give you one.

    I will say one thing for my Virgo man. That is he is the first man I’ve ever had in my life that is more man than me!

    I like that HUGE! I’m hardheaded and can handle most anything life throws my way on my own. For me to ask for help is a disgrace to my nature. Move aside, I can do everything for you too. Virgo loves being pampered, food woes him into submission, always talk to your Virgo when he’s had a full meal and if you can when he’s not tired.

    If that’s possible with his 70 hour work week.

    I met my guy in a bar, a bar I did not like. I was so out of there and upon leaving I saw him. That was 11 years ago. Little did I know the roller coaster ride from hell I was about to get on.

    Crazy Train….

    That first night I met him, we talked and I told him he could drive me home, which amused me because I never leave anywhere with a stranger. On the way to the car I ran behind another to throw up, bad draft ! He looked at me and said (and I remember this to this day) “Well maybe something is telling you to stay away from me if I make you that sick”

    I should have listened then. He walked me to the door and we passed numbers and that was that. Kind of.. this went on for more then 3 months. And it rattled my soul in bewilderment. Was he ever going to make a move? Needless to say he kept returning and we did a lot of talking and laughing, but my self esteem was dive bombing everytime he left without so much has a hand shake. So I shut it down and so did he.

    Nothing for months. Then voila! At my door and in the house and just caring on talking fast and than grabs me and slaps a big one on my lips. Then we off to the races, but all in slow motion which for this Taurus was very different. It was, how shall I say like a reincarnation. And that was that.

    A Taurus women who does life all by herself generally only requires this level of intimacy, but Virgo will teach her

    all about herself in ways she never thought possible.

    Many very hard lessons, including any form of rejection or abandonment issues she may have. You see a Taurus loves the act of love. She than must face her inner demons to realize that she is still being loved for her all.

    So I embraced him for his friendship during the dry times

    and of course going about my life alone is a zero struggle until I was finding my self doubting his love and always thinking about every ort of any moment we had together.

    Until finally I blew, most women who have left long long ago. And when a Taurus blows it’s like a snow plow in a hot hell. Needless to say Virgo got in a few words and was out the door in probably fear for his personal safety.

    He called once in a while. Nothing new, and that was all he had to give. I eventually just stopped answering his calls, what may have been easy for him, was actually destroying me, I didn’t realize it at first, but when I realized my frustration, I let it be.

    3 years later, and he’s on the door step. It was like 3 years had dissolved into 3 minutes. Like a time warp I was wrapped into him and he into me. But the party dissolved into old habits and faded to black. This went on and off for 6 more years. The best thing is that I’ve learned to say my peace, me myself, enjoy the moment and leave well enough alone. Anyone may think that I am just playing by his rules, but actually I’m quite different and I like this

    more assured self that I have become. Our relationship has matured like a fine wine, an acceptance and forgiveness.

    We’ve lived our lives independently which we both admire.

    Virgo is the Zen of Astrology. A friend a lover and someone that may never be there for the moment but when the moment strikes it’ll be etched into their souls for eternity.

    It is when Taurus the Strong allows her guard to drop and be taught a different path she becomes a whole person.

    She knows the lessons she needs, she’s incredibly smart.

    If any Taurus is brave enough to come out of her pasture and walk in the sandy bare landscapes with a Virgo, she will be shown how to paint her own landscape.

    If you think for a moment, if your Virgo was to die tomorrow what would you be feeling, you’d realize that you’d be more crushed than when he runs away for those seemingly tortuous moments, and eventually you will see them as just that, seemingly, for it will be only as a Zen master may say. I second in ones life.

    Best wishes and kisses and love to all Virgo and Taurus.

    Humanity never looked so good.

    • Lindsey I can only say my Virgo husband of 34 years passed away more than a year ago – that was the greatest heartache, after many tears I know that only a Virgo is for me a Taurus a perfect match, I miss him dearly. He was the most caring man my best friend and lover, not always the most demonstrative but he loves me till his dying day. Now I was lucky again and another Virgo crosses my path. No other sign can ever take such good care of his love than a Virgo. Taurus ladies go find your Virgo man. He is the perfect match.

  2. stephanie taureanApril 12, 2017 at 6:28 pm

    m female taurus, searching for my virgo man. April 26 1991

    • they never leave! I have two and I’m a sandwich every day of my life, but I love it, because each man satisfies me in a different way. you want loyalty and a lil trust issues ( that can patiently be resolved, then you are ready and honey they are everywhere

  3. Brie LarssonJanuary 16, 2017 at 6:34 pm

    I’ve been dealing with a Virgo man for, oh…, I guess 15 years. We were in college when first met, and we immediately connected. No surprise: I’m a Taurus. What should also come as no surprise is the fact that I took the initiative in the sex department and managed to totally freak him out. I didn’t understand (then) how my sexual confidence could generate this kind of a response from someone who was at least interested enough to ask me out several times.

    We were off and on for a number of years. He always grew distant after any particularly intense sexual/emotional encounter. It was like he’d pull away as soon as we got comfortable enough to really connect and enjoy one another. In response, I’d become frustrated, demanding, dramatic… In other words, I’d unwittingly drive him away. But he’d always come back after a few months. It was like he couldn’t stand to be away from me, but also totally uncomfortable with me. For me, the connection and attraction was overwhelming and impossible to suppress. I was always willing to give it another try.

    Eventually, though, I made a commitment to another man — a Pieces with whom I consistently share immense joy and laughter. The decision to abandon the romantic relationship with the Virgo was traumatic, but I was still young and lacking the perspective that comes with age. I had become convinced that the Virgo just wasn’t that into me. The Virgo and I remained friends for a couple years, and then one day, while we were working on a project together, he abruptly asked me to leave, to go home. At first, I was incredulous. It was so sudden and (seemingly) unprovoked. When I realized he was serious, I was distraught. He ceased all communication with me for several years.

    After a few cross-country moves, he reconnected with me via an email that included (only) a picture of me at my wedding. When we moved on to words, there was some initial arguing (over a period of about six months), but we eventually renewed our friendship. He said that he regretted how he had behaved toward me in the past. For several years, I didn’t really understand what that meant.

    Five years ago, we ended up living in opposite corners of the same state. We began visiting each other semi-annually, became friends with one another’s partners, deepened our connection. The attraction has deepened as well. I came to realize that pretty much everything in the past that I saw as disinterest, selfishness, or cruelty in the Virgo was actually the result of his fear of his feelings about me and his frustration with my inability to understand and respect them. When I developed the self-esteem to see myself as a worthwhile human being, I was able to stop ignoring the obvious fact that this isn’t a case of unrequited infatuation. As my self-confidence has grown, so has my confidence in the Virgo and in my relationship with him — and this has clearly led to him being increasingly playful with me.

    This is all very frustrating, of course, but it is also something wonderful. In some ways, we’re at an impasse because neither one of us is interested in dissolving our existing partnerships with others. In other ways, though, our love for one another brings us tremendous pleasure and comfort. What’s really amazing is how our partners respect for this thing between us and how we respect each other’s partners’ roles in our lives. And this is probably the most certain indication of the depth of the love and commitment present.

    This is all to say, patience and self-confidence are a must when dealing with Virgo men. Showing them your trust and confidence in them (in spite of their skittishness and emotional reserve) is key in getting them to feel loved. Don’t give up prematurely on Virgo men. There a lot going on there that they don’t share — often because they don’t know how. The saying “still waters run deep” couldn’t be more true about Virgo men.

  4. Im a 17yr taurus girl…. Had my heart broken by a virgo… N it took me a long time to get over it… We were never together but we talked but he wasnt serious with me. Its been almost an year since i lasted talked to him… One thing he was after he told me i was ez i wanted to tell him ur a jackass… I was new ro relationships… Still am cuz i never had a bf or kissed b4 so i really didnt know how to do things but he was a butt head… He just wanted to get into girls pants… Even after he told me a whole bunch of mean stuff… I still couldnt get rid of my feelings for him… I literally cried my eyeballs out… But now my heart is a little harder n i wasnt in a rlsp. (Tlkd for 4 yrs). I already have a problem with talking to people i don’t know cuz talkibg to other ppl is hard… But i took the risk when i first saw him n chased after him ( n im not a chaser.. So that was different but i rlly wanted him) and he lead me on for 4 yrs n after that i grew heart broken and months after that… Im just talking to ppl even less and it just bothers me how my friends be talking about their relationships with their bfs… N im the sone whose been single all my life… N stuff makes me jealous cuz i don’t have nobody… So i dobt care to hear avout relationships or nothing… (Hope i dont sound selfish… I poured my heart into this)

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  9. TaurusGIRL_BAE=VIRGO_LifeJanuary 19, 2016 at 5:36 am

    I am all about astrology and I like this guy he’s a Virgo and I did the stupid thing that all the girls cliche movies do and told him he was like “okay thank you” and it broke my heart and my friend got mad that i liked him and said she liked him and I was like “YOUR A GEMINI OKAY!!! I’M A TAURUS WE BELONG TOGETHER NOT YOU TWO!!!” I really like him but I don’t know how to get his attention please HELP!!!

  10. TaurusQueen96November 15, 2015 at 6:14 am

    Oh yes this is sooo true ^^ now let me tell you my story
    I’m a taurus girl and now started relationship with virgo guy. To be honest i was really hunting for virgos XD and this day has come. Everything happened at my cousins birthday party… I know almost every guy friend of my cousin and we’ve been friends since very childhood.. he was like my bro in the begining and we always had fun together so uhh… When we became older i kinda started to look at him as a guy but never admitted it. he’s very handsome and sweet but when i realized that i really liked him he was already in a relationship… So at the party we spent more time sitting together and talking and then i started to talk about relationships and i found out that he was free :3 but he was the first who confessed to me with a kiss. It was so romantic. We were outside just two of us on a fresh air and he suddenly came up to me and kissed me. I was sooo confused and shocked. He also became confused because of my face expression 😀 but after that day when we talked about what happened he told me he had been liking me for a long time. And now we’re in a risky relationship because non of our friends should find out that we’re together for now :3 i hope they’ll understand and support our relationship when the time comes ^^ and about what’s written above is actually true we attract each other and have many things in common he always makes me smile and that’s all i wanted for so long ^^ i hope everything will be alright in our relationship and to you all taurus&virgo couples.. Good luck to you ❤ ❤ ❤

  11. I’m a Gemini girl but I fell hard for a Virgo guy. I don’t know but I’m hoping that love can prevail for us. In my understanding, It would be really hard to lose a Virgo guy you love so much and it can hurt bad. So for you shy Taurus girls if you love a Virgo guy good luck with this man and I really hope he’s the man for you in every way. My advice to you is have the confidence to seduce/ be with this man and instead of becoming shy decide to let him in. <3

  12. Well i was in relationship with virgo man for four years ..Both lived diffrent towns , commuted backwards and forwards , he ended relationship ship saying no longer viable to much expense spent on travelling , hes totaly broke my heart , he was very selfish in ways that i found very hurtfull , I was the Bread winner in this relationship ..i just miss him so much , we still have remained friends , i just dont know what to do as id love us to be a couple as we were when we 1st got to together ….

  13. Currently, I’m crushing on a young Virgo man. I’m a Taurus woman who is still creating herself. I am almost twenty one so i guess they say these are my years of being selfish. I think he’s really peculiar. one minute he wants to keep our conversation going, other times i feel he strays away. often, i feel he doesn’t know what he wants. He flirts without even noticing that he does it. He plays dumb all the time like he doesn’t know what I’m talking about but he approaches me the way I used to approach men. Keep them wanting more but making it seem like we’re not interested in that person. It’s like a defense mechanism. I’ve even given him a pet name so, it’s kinda like i know i really like him. I don’t really know how to approach him because I believe he likes to adore me from a distance and not engage in any conversation? Most of the time, he’s with his convenient friends and they are always hanging out, whereas me, I’m the comfy old woman sitting in the comfort of her own room letting my life prosper. I don’t know if i want to take the first move and go on a date with him but i feel he already has his eyes on someone else so i can only just hope!

  14. I am talking with a virgo, he is five years older than me, when we met I sent the younglady to ask about him, she gave him my number, when I went to say good bye to them, he said that I am the one he is interested in talking with. So, we kind of clicked from the start

  15. Hi Taurusgirlie,
    I am a Virgo male and I am in love with a Taurus woman. I know I love her very much, I love to take care of her, cuddle with her, listen to her issues and she did mention a couple of times that I have this soothing effect on her so no matter how angry she might be, I seem to know exactly how to diffuse the situation and even make her laugh. I feel deep in my heart I want to grow old with her. But yet i have mentioned marriage but never really seiously asked her to marry me. I think being a virgo we are too critical about everything and situation and other people as well. We like to make sure that our decision does not affect anyone else negatively in any way. You mentioned that you are from different ethnic backgrounds and that might play a critical role in the decision making because he is thinking in his head all the possible ways this decision can go wrong and affect the beautiful relationship that you have. You also mentioned that you are both working and even if he isn’t making that much money it doesn’t matter…..but the fact is, it does….he wants to make sure that he tends, cares and nurtures for you. He want you to be totally reliant on him. This does not mean that you should be his slave….he would not like it that much but you make accept the fact that he is the man, he is the head of the family and of the house and hence he’s in charge and emotionally support him.trust me he will not once make you feel like you are a slave. He loves you because you are a strong and level headed woman. But your strength and easy going nature can scare him as well. A billion thoughts go through a virgo’s mind and hence he can be worried or tensed but you wouldn’t be bothered about it as you are more easy going, this will make him feel as to why are you indifferent to his feelings. So just hold his hand be close to him and tell him you are always there for him through thick and through thin. Do make time to listen to him just as he is a good listener and avoid giving him your evaluation of the situation but be there as a loving ‘wife’ and comfort him and automatically he will face the situation with renewed courage and you earn more points with him. Give him your view on the subject usually when he asks you, because we virgos have a very good solution for every problem and would love to always feel that way. He learns a lot from the past as well so. He is just making sure 🙂 don’t worry…….we virgos (atleast a majority) can’t sleep in peace if we have wronged their partner in anyway.

  16. I met a Virgo man about 4 months ago for a brief moment I am a Taurus woman I was told by friends that he was free. I was already attracted to him. I approached him and gave him my number. He just called me for the first time we had a nice afternoon date full of wonderful conversation. I can honestly say based on what you guys have said about the Virgo man is very true I picked up on his ways in our first date. There was a spark and I sure can’t wait until he calls again. Thanks for the heads up the Virgo man taking his time because it’s so true…..

  17. InLoveWithAVirgoMaleOctober 21, 2011 at 2:28 am

    OMG this is so true. I am going out with a Virgo now and everything that was said describes him to a tee.

  18. i know you taurus girls love security and need to feel secure, but believe me us virgo men are the same! we are just scared of the pressure that comes with it. i think we prefer an unspoken security but i promise it is just as deep as the demonstrated one you crave. you just have to find the balance i suppose!

  19. just be careful. I am also a virgo man and am deeply in love with a taurus woman, almost three years… us virgos definately believe it is not broke do not fix it. and we also despise pressure. so just let him take his time and don’t doubt that he loves you. whatever you do don’t pressure him it might scare him and you may create doubt in the relationship-just my opinion.

  20. TaurusgirlieAugust 30, 2011 at 8:51 pm

    I have been with my Virgo for over 4 years now and we have a beautiful baby girl together. I have just recently started to read about our compatibility and I am finally realizing why we attract each other and why we clash! We are your typical “opposites attract” love story. He is a blue-collar, man’s man, from the wrong side of town White Male and I’m a white-collar, girly girl, from the suburbs African American Woman. We met when I was 14 and he was 19. My mom worked at his mom’s beauty shop and one day I went with her to pay her booth rental. When I knocked at the door, the most gorgeous man (I was 14 so 19 was a man to me lol) answered the door. It was totally love at first sight! Of course we were too young to do anything so we would always just be friendly with each other and say “hi”. Well I finally became old enough to hang out at the parties that his mom would throw and he approached me. We both were totally into each other as we noticed that we weren’t kids anymore! I can’t really explain how insane the attraction was and still is! Unfortunately, nothing could happen because we both were dating other people. Another year past and at another party we were notified by friends and family that the other was single. We sat and talked the whole night! That was one of the things I love about my Virgo, he’s very attentive and he made me feel like I was the only person in the room. The way he looks at me (still to this day) makes me weak! But, typical Virgo, it took him two weeks to call me! I’m not the type of girl to fuss over a man and freak out about things like that, I had even when on a couple of dates prior to having my magical night with him. Then one day he called! We went on the best date ever in life (Had the best sex ever in life!) and have been together ever since!
    We have so much fun together whether we are just relaxing at home, or partying with friends. We have that same sense of humor and both have a love of food and music. Of course we have our problems (I refuse to back down in fights and always think I’m right and he can be very critical and when pissed off say hurtful things) we’ve also had issues with the disappearing act. If he knows that I’m angry with him or if I want to talk about serious issues (our goals as a couple, marriage, and finances) he’ll either come home late, or sometimes not at all! I’m pretty patient and very strong (Ok, and stubborn!) so I go on about my day as if everything is fine and that really bothers him. He’s totally use to women falling over him and jumping for his attention (Which he is super handsome I can see why women would do that!) He eventually comes home, puts on the romantic charm (flowers, dinner, love notes, make-up sex) that makes a Taurus girl weak, and we talk out our problems. Because I’m a strong and Easygoing Taurus, I can handle the constant critical views on everything(it makes me laugh) , the chattiness( I love to listen), the self-doubt ( I love to boost him up!), and the disappearing act (because I know he is super loyal and honest with me and not out cheating, plus sometimes I like the “me” time!)

    My issue is we have been together for 4 years and still no ring! My Virgo takes forever to do everything (getting ready, even ordering food on certain days this can be amusing or irritating) but we love each other so much I just don’t get it. I’m wondering if it has to do with his job and not making the money he should. But I love him and don’t care about that because I make my own money. Financially, yes we could do better, but I’m so in love with him I want to make us official. Any suggestions on how to get my Virgo to pop the question without pushing him away?

  21. BeenthereneverdonethatAugust 17, 2011 at 3:52 am

    Man, It’s been years since I’ve seen this guy ( the virgo that got away). For some reason after all this time hes just crossed my mind. He’s been on my mind for months. I don’t know why. But it’s too late now. I have to move on. I always like him because he always treated me with respect. He got me too. I was very shy and for some reason he never misinterpreted that shyness for rudeness. He understood that was just the way I acted.

  22. BeenthereneverdonethatAugust 17, 2011 at 3:48 am

    I sat back and watch my Virgo. Though I did not fit into his exact mold or standards. I did what I could. I was always neatly groomed, smelled good, I was polite, I was smart…..I guess lol. I was subtle. It’s easy to figure them out. But alas, we were never meant to be. After years of using subtle attraction………….when I finally got him. And he was attracted to me, I ditched him for some other guy who was a jerk. Oh yeah…….you can’t be loud and rude with a Virgo, but you DO have to take the first step. They are use to women asking them out. They don’t chase too much. You have to take the initiative. Otherwise you’ll be waiting a year and a half for him to notice you.

  23. BeenthereneverdonethatAugust 17, 2011 at 3:42 am

    Oh and believe what you read. They have a set of standards in their head and they will sit back and watch you carefully before they make a move. Move wisely because the slightest offense could chase them away…….like cursing, being overly flirtatious, loud, rude. Again Virgo men are very old fashioned when it comes to picking their mate. They like a wholesome girl. Sure their maybe exceptions to the rule but at the end of the day that is what they like!

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