Cancer Woman and Virgo Man Compatibility


Famous Cancer -Virgo Couples:  Rishi Kapoor and Neetu Singh (thanks, AKKU), Lady and the Tr amp.

If you are a Virgo male in a successful relationship with a Cancer female, please contact us and share the scoop because we couldn’t find any famous couples with this combination.

When Virgo and Cancer get together, the stomach and intestines become very important.  These can be triggers to each other’s neurotic fears as the Cancer has an ulcer and the Virgo gets an upset stomach when worried and believe me, one or the other or both of you will always be worried.  Now you do share that in common. No one could understand how neurotic you can be better than someone else who is just as neurotic.  But somehow I think it is wiser to avoid this combination and look for a stronger partner to bring out the best in you.

How to Attract a Cancer Woman as a Virgo Man:  Cancers need a lot of reassurance, so the first thing is don’t approach her unless you are fairly serious about wanting to get to know her better. She’ll start planning the wedding after the first date and will worry her poor little heart sick that she did something wrong if you don’t ever call her again.  Plenty of reassurance along the way and a fatherly demeanor help give her confidence in the sincerity of your feelings for her. If you want to play games, there are 11 other signs to mess with. I personally think it is unfair to mess with a Cancer because of their childlike innocence and the degree to which they can be hurt by game playing.  Granted it is not the most interesting courtship in the world, but you get a high degree of comfort and domestic bliss with a Cancer woman who is feeling secure.


How to Attract a Virgo Man as a Cancer Woman:  You should emphasize your homemaking, cooking and nurturing side. I know it’s out of fashion but a girl’s gotta do what a girl’s gotta do.  He’s discriminating so you have to set yourself aside as Someone Special.  He will appreciate being fussed over and someone who keeps the environment CLEAN and tidy.   Try to enjoy picking flecks of dust off his lap or fluff the pillows on the couch before he sits    down.

Degree of Romance:  There can be a high degree of romance because Cancers are certainly damsels in distress and this can bring you to take out the chivalric code, the one you keep in your pocket at all times.  The more manly you are, the more sweet and demure she becomes until you reach a little bit of heaven thinking, “Ah, this is the way it was always meant to be.  She makes me feel so strong.”  If you really want to win her heart, calm her fears, dry her tears, and reassure her constantly that everything is going to be okay.

Degree of Passion:  Passion is too scary for this pair.

Degree of Friendship:  These two can be fast friends, especially if they are devoted to a pet project, such as selecting a new plant for the garden or a kitchen tool for removing spaghetti from the boiling hot pan.  Each is capable of fixing their attention on the smallest of concerns with the greatest of devotion and they will understand that about each other.

Degree of Marriage:  You will probably be too worried to marry each other because of all the terrible things that could happen, you know?  Be sure to have enough money in the bank and other details taken care of before even considering marriage because otherwise it is too fraught with worry to last very long.


Progression of Relationship:  This relationship will go very slowly with a lot of kissing and making up.  She will think that you don’t mean it and then she will cry and fuss and you will have to take the time to patch it up before moving forward again.  Small tokens of your appreciation are good at these times, something sincere rather than expensive, like a new mouse for her computer or something else that you noticed she needed  but had not gotten around to getting for herself.  You can win her over a lot by this method of progress.

Sex:  Sex can be very comforting with these two signs.  It can become almost an addictive way to release tension.  The Cancer woman is very good for your raw nerves, but she can become motherly.  She will appreciate your sensitivity and gentlemanly approach to this whole touchy area.

When It’s Over:  both of you are clingers and bring it out in each other.  If it’s necessary, do the right thing.  Get it over with like a man and move on.  (Be prepared for an absolute deluge of tears … of course!)

Our Rating:   6/10

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68 Responses to Cancer Woman and Virgo Man Compatibility

  • Belle says:

    Agreed with comments from Arch recently ended relationship with a Virgo. He seemed like a nice guy in the beginning. I was wrong.

  • natk says:

    Disagree not all males virgo’s are egoist… i am in a 12 year marriage with a Cancer… anybody can self improve the basic’s are there for a great man… I am one of the most loving men i know LOL” but people tell me that all the time” its alot of work to get to this level i will admit but it is possible.. on the other hand i will be the first to admit this has been my down fall.. I don’t like hurting people and becasue of this i have been together with the same women for 15 years just to keep form hurting her… I recently met an old classmate who is a capricorn women and look out i have never been a wonderer and now i am so madly in love with her i can;t even breathe ….. if you are a single virgo male please do yourself a favor and find someone else or you will be faced with the same decision i am now… everybody has slight differences form there sign thats what makes us human but these should be used as guidelines atleast to avoid hurt and turmoil…. Even though you may be happy on the outside you will suffer great pain and turmoil on the inside with seemingly only one way out and its gonna hurt everyone… My 2 cents

  • leigh says:

    Cancer women use EXTREME caution if a virgo shows interest. They come on all heroic and concerned and make you think they are such great guys. BEWARE, because they aren’t as devoted as you, they prefer work over play, and they think it is their god given right to criticize you, and it is BRUTAL. Which chafes at a cancer’s heightened sensitivity. Most virgo’s I know aren’t monogamous, they will tell you they are, but they are deceitful players. They enjoy projects, and if you become theirs, look out, because it will be a striping to the core and remodeling and then they won’t like how you turned out. STAY AWAY from this sign, there are such better signs that VALUE you for you. Keep them as friends and find soul mates that aren’t them!

  • Bethany says:

    Ive Been Reading All The Comments And You Cant Stereotype A relationship between two people based on your experiences , everyone is differnt and i dont believe that every virgo guy is the same and other signs likewise.
    My Advice To Anyone Thinking Of Being In A Relationship With A Virgo Male is To Go For It, Follow Your Heart. Sure You MIGHT Get Hurt But You Have As Much Chance Of Getting Hurt in that Relationship As Any Other.
    Do What You Think Is Best Because I Know Id Never Be Able To Live With The Regret

  • Danette says:

    I am a Cancer woman and I have been in love with a Virgo man since I was in the eighth grade!! that was nineteen years ago. I had the biggest crush on this guy for the longest time. We have just recently connected on Facebook. This weekend I finally met up with my eight grade crush and we had dinner. I listened very carefully to whatever he talked about including his past relationships. He has never married. Has a young son and he talked about his son’s mother. Mentioned that she is a virgo and that the both of them know they cannot be in a relationship together. He mentioned she gets all crazy when she know they cannot be in a relationship he says because they are too much alike. But you know, as I was sitting there at dinner, all those feelings I had for him since the eighth grade all came rushing back. I think he is still with his son mother for convent purposes but one thing I know, if he ever needed me, I would be there for him!

  • malata says:

    8 out of 10 !!!

  • Kiara says:

    Rishi Kapoor and Neetu Singh are the cutest couple. though im not a fan of this astrological combo, when I see the two of them I go all awww-ish :) )))

  • ray says:

    Lol arch and belle are right, im a virgo man going out with a cancer woman. We call it being honest actually, we dont really intend to hurt but the truth does hurt.

  • ray says:

    reading all the comments i just feel its so right, maybe i have to change myself even though im a virgo

  • Rock says:

    I am a cancer woman who dated a virgo man more than 25 years ago. The connection I had with this man spiritually, emotionally and mentally should have never been interrupted. Since that time he nor myself have been able to get that connection with our current mate. If you ever find someone you connect with on this level please don’t make the same mistake we did. What looks good is not always good for you. Stay with your soul mate once you find him or her and love life. Virgo and Cancer are soul mates for life.

  • Van Farley says:

    I am really surprised how people think what signs are compatible with each other, what people do not understand is that you just not only use the western signs to determine compatiblitily, you have to determine the chinese signs too. The western and chinese signs must match perfectly to find the one you love and if you do this, the love will last forever.

  • winterlover says:

    I’m a cancer female(18) n he’s a virgo male(34). We love each other alot but we jus can’t seem to get along. The sex between us is…OMG. He is very caring but when he’s angry he gets highly critical and says alot of hurtful things. Me being the typical cancer girl would get hurt n shy away(he hates that). We stopped tlk numerous times but couldn’t live without each other so we alwayz came baq. The thing wid him is dat he’s highly possessive n insecure. He can flirt with as many girls as he wants but I can’t be seen flirtin with other guys. The last time we stopped tlk twas cause he’d thought n was accusing me of sleeping ’round with other guys (which I don’t do bcuz I’ve nvr felt 4 anyone the way I feel for him n also bcuz I love him too much to tek such risks). He got soooo angry n started moving strange wid me. No matter how much I told him it wasn’t true he jus didn’t believe. I was tired of the on/off relationship we were hvin so I jus started to ignore him(which I’m very gud at). Realizing that, he tried tlkin to me again but I was too angry n confused to even bother. He finally deactivated his account on fb n now I’m hearin dat he’s in a new relationship. IDK want to do bcuz I stil love him. I don’t think I cud ever get ova him cuz I’ve tried many times b4 n it didn’t work. I’m datin other guys but they jus don’t seem to match up. All I see or think about is him. I’m sex deprived and lonely bcuz I want noone else. I mean I’d give anything to get ova him but if I can’t then I must hve him or else I feel like imma die:(

  • winterlover says:

    winterlover :

    I’m a cancer female(18) n he’s a virgo male(34). We love each other alot but we jus can’t seem to get along. The sex between us is…OMG. He is very caring but when he’s angry he gets highly critical and says alot of hurtful things. Me being the typical cancer girl would get hurt n shy away(he hates that). We stopped tlk numerous times but couldn’t live without each other so we alwayz came baq. The thing wid him is dat he’s highly possessive n insecure. He can flirt with as many girls as he wants but I can’t be seen flirtin with other guys. The last time we stopped tlk twas cause he’d thought n was accusing me of sleeping ’round with other guys (which I don’t do bcuz I’ve nvr felt 4 anyone the way I feel for him n also bcuz I love him too much to tek such risks). He got soooo angry n started moving strange wid me. No matter how much I told him it wasn’t true he jus didn’t believe. I was tired of the on/off relationship we were hvin so I jus started to ignore him(which I’m very gud at). Realizing that, he tried tlkin to me again but I was too angry n confused to even bother. He finally deactivated his account on fb n now I’m hearin dat he’s in a new relationship. IDK wat to do bcuz I stil love him. I don’t think I cud ever get ova him cuz I’ve tried many times b4 n it didn’t work. I’m datin other guys but they jus don’t seem to match up. All I see or think about is him. I’m sex deprived and lonely bcuz I want noone else. I mean I’d give anything to get ova him but if I can’t then I must hve him or else I feel like imma die:(

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  • Marc says:

    had two cancer exs, good combo for a virgo I think…I screwed it up in both cases

  • carey says:

    my situation is unique,,,shes from india(6/29) and im black(9/22)..we first met at a hotel we both worked at.It started out as friendly texting until i told her all of a sudden , i loved her.Im positive she was taken aback and shocked by the comment, who wouldnt.Her culture doesnt take in kindly my race(black)..i have read all the comments about black men/indian women relationships on the web….most were negative to say the least..We actually went out for drinks after work one day and talked for hours, even though she said she was married…but in name only, so she could stay and work in this country..He was caucasian….We never slepted togeather even though i boasted the sex would have been great,,,but mostly we teased one another..She invited me up to her hotel room one morning after a overnite shift and we talked on the bed…it was never sexual, because i think she was confused about how she truly felt about me.I kissed her twice on the forehead out of respect cause she was still living with someone else and told her i loved her again and she responded the same.Before we went out for drinks.. i had the strangest sensation..i was waiting on her, and my insides vibrated like never before….almost like when ur in the deepest love and in the pit of ur stomach u feel the sensation as well as ur veins…It was almost as my spirit was telling me, this is ur soulmate…i never expirenced that sensation before….i was 46 at the time and she was 25…She admitted to me that she had a girlfriend once , and i just thought it was normal cause most women have girlfriends to relay their feelings too…but this other girl, she attended a all girl school with in india..Cancer is also sign that can go both ways(hence-george michael)or just straight up gay..Im not sure if she was confused about what she was feeling with me and her girlfriend at the time.Most girls who attend all-girls school usually have their first sexual expirence(kissing,petting)with the same sex,its natural….She constantly stayed on my mind and im sure i was remained on hers to this day…I still continue to text her today, but she doesnt respond…i guess she moved on..maybe i should as well…;(

  • gabriel says:

    @ carey, yes you should, but remember not responding and ignoring doesn’t mean that she/he has moved on, maybe they got struct on somewhere and their focus is on that and meanwhile they want good and happiness for the other person :)

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