Gemini Woman and Virgo Man Compatibility


Famous Gemini-Virgo Couples: Elizabeth Hurley and Hugh Grant; Courtney Cox Arquette and David Arquette; Helena Bonham Carter and Tim Burton

One thing about this combination, either it will drive you crazy or be the most interesting set of circumstances you’ve ever encountered.  Virgo is one sign that is fast enough to keep up with Gemini, and Gemini, of course, likes to wear many hats for many reasons.  It is not that Virgo is particularly intrigued with this odd behavior.  It is more like Virgos will drive everyone to integrity if they have it at all.

How to Attract a Gemini Woman as a Virgo Man:  You can be sure you’ll have lots of competition for a Gemini woman.  They are so irresistible.  Watch carefully and try to outwit her.   Maybe you can show her something new.  You are both signs that are noted for flirtatiousness so you will have to convince her you are sincere without being boring and you will have to be a shrewd observer if she’s really interested in you or you’re just another fish on the hook.  While it is true that Geminis don’t like to be bored, they actually crave being relaxed and that is something that you can offer her.  You can be a perfect foil for her monkey business.  What a relief it is to be busted!


How to Attract a Virgo Man as a Gemini Woman:  This is a pretty done deal.  First of all, you Gemini women are so irresistible, you can pretty much get whoever you want.  He’s as accomplished a flirt as you are so you can really get outrageous and have a ball!  And he is especially equipped to appreciate your trendiness, sophistication style and up to date manners.  Follow up your evening with a few witty texts the next  day to keep him dancing in your corner.

Degree of Romance:  If the ball really gets rolling, there can be a lot of glamorous, sophisticated romantic entendres.  The delight comes in the witty repartee which you are both very good at it.  This is the kind of classy combination that got so much theater play in the Joan Crawford Bette Davis era.  There is nothing more sexy than an intelligent woman and you give her a good stage to perform on.  She will find your one upsmanship a comforting turn on.

Degree of Passion:  Passion isn’t very much a feature between these two signs.  Both are high strung and nervous, but not inclined to the excesses of fiery passion which they will find exhausting and fake.  Good phone sex goes a lot further with these two than an impulsive rendezvous that could be come out of control.  Email and texting provide great venues as well.

Degree of Friendship:  There can be a whole lot of friendship going on because there are at least five different involved.  There is Virgo and his alter ego, the twins and their alter egos.  That’s six.  Think of a whole wilderness of monkeys to entertain you.

Degree of Marriage:  This might work as a second or third marriage.  It’s hard for these two to settle down and think of child rearing.  But as for shared interest and activities it gets high ranks.  It is especially pleasing to talk about it, then do it, then talk about it, then do it afterwards.


Progression of Relationship:  This relationship is likely to be all over the map.  There is so much time spent trying to sort out ambivalence, flirtation, sincerity…what is her intent?  It may be all over the road at first, but you are a good driver.  If you’re convinced that there is a future, you can build a logical path to success.

Sex:  Getting back to the wilderness of monkeys, curiosity is a big factor here.  Half the time one of the six of you will be looking down saying, “Oh my God, I can’t believe I am doing this.”  For more fun, add mirrors.

When It’s Over:  This could be a real messy unwinding.  For one thing, you can’t stop talking about it: the way it was, the way it could have been, the way it should have been, who did what to whom, etc.  That may actually double the time you’re together.   If it’s really necessary to end it, I suggest the intervention of a third party.  One of you, compes mentis, must insert a counselor or other authority figure to have a clean ending.

Our Rating: 5/10

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60 Responses to Gemini Woman and Virgo Man Compatibility

  • portia says:

    This is so true ….am guspping out of breath …

    LOL….my Ex and i …he is a Virgo and i am the Gemini young lady ……LOL…i cant beleive …..

    U are spot on LalLa

  • nancy says:

    Pretty funny ,huh? Like a barrel full of monkeys. LOL

  • Sara says:

    I have a question, I am a Gemini woman and how come we don’t have higher then an 8 with any sign why is that. The male Gemini has a higher store. Does that mean that we are never really a perfect match with anybody :( . And does it matter if I am on the border of Gemini Tauris. My bday is 22 May.

    I find you information very interesting.

  • Aiesha saleem says:

    I am a gemini woman and my best friend is a virgo. We have been friends for over 15 years. We get along great and we’re thinking of taking it to the next level. But we will always remain close friends no matter what happens. I love him till death.

  • Jag says:

    possible to have a successful married life?
    I am virgo male might get arranged marriage with gemini woman …

  • charmaine says:

    it is so funny my man is a virgo im a gemini like you said we drive each other crazy but we agree to disagree. we are both flirts but we are very compatible sexually and we have some of the best conversations sure i hate it that im so spontanious and he is a planner but what is the best is i know how he is and wouldnt trade him in for anyone on the most compatible list…. my virgo is my soulmate….a true gemini

  • Cyan says:

    My first bf was a virgo and boy was that messy! It was worse when he wanted me back (he wanted a list of reasons why we couldn’t make it work. ugh). Also, Sara, i.m.o us Gemini ladies don’t get a higher score because we’re never 100% about anything (except being up for anything). Someone who can keep us interested most of the time (it can’t even be an average 70%) would be the best case scenario. That’s just my two cents…

  • jackie says:

    Its crasy reading this ….im a gemini woman currently dating a virgo man. its true, lots of men want me but, hes da only 1 dat i crave right now ….we cant keep our hands of of each other….i love hes deep voice & agressive ways.hope fully it last i really like him, normarly my lovers are like preys i capture then relese when im done…but wit this virgo man is different ….he knows how calm
    my carazed appetite…i never felt this entence connection 2 know other man

  • Han says:

    This is SO spot on… I am a virgo man and I was with a gemini woman and to this day, she was the best. The break up was due to inevitable circumstances, but she will always be the best.

  • Ron says:

    am a virgo male n recently met a gemini woman living in my next lane… it started very quickly between us we said we are frnds buh reacted as if we lovers.. we both broke off within weeks time of our frndship…

  • Anthony says:

    I’m a Virgo Male (September 22, 1984) … and the Gemini women I’ve dated were the absolute worst. It’s weird… it’s like they do & say everything that you want to hear, but in the back of your mind … you know that person is putting on a performance. Like as soon as they get whatever they want out of you, they’ll flip the script. And that’s exactly what happens. They are conniving, liars, and whores. The absolute worst. I will say this… they are good to have as friends. NOTHING more.

  • Dawn says:

    I’m a gemini woman and I can say with diginity that I am not a whore. we like to keep our options open in case one fails us

  • Lisa says:

    Gemini lady and my dad and first two boyfriends were Virgo dudes. I find myself attracted to them a lot. Not sure if it’s a good match or just some “daddy fixation” I have (LOL). Very painful pairing if it doesn’t work. Virgo men seem to be very cold and will hurt you severely without a care about it. Don’t know why I keep falling for Virgo men. Didn’t get along well with my father either….

  • Carly Lynda says:

    A Virgo man broke … *SHATTERED* … my heart!

    A year ago, I met my Virgo fellow and was not at all attracted to him physically. But with time, due to his “Savior-type” nature, i.e. wanting to fix and rescue everything that was wrong around me and in my life, which I hugely appreciated, I fell in love with his mind, HUGE heart and, ultimately, with *HIM*. He brought tremendous emotional and home stability to me, to the point of excitement.

    Ours was not an easy relationship from the start as my Virgo man was full of problems … *EXTREME* and *SERIOUS* problems. He had just come out of a second suicide attempt, was going through an acrimonious divorce, spearheaded a ferocious custody battle for his 2 young kids, the demise of his business due to fraud instigated by his partner, business bankruptcy, depression, sleep apnea, was involved with a multitude of therapists and caregivers for his daughter’s behavioural problems, and, was an emotional eater who weighed a whopping 335 lbs.! All this wrapped in the brain of an ADHD person. Woof! Woof!

    And along came this Gemini girl and her Mother Teresa Complex who would immediately nurture, nurse, rehabilitate and unconditionally love–to a fault–this very emotionally-troubled and sensitive Virgo man. To see him happy and stable was my Priority No. 1. So much so that I literally put my life on hold for him for the entire duration of our 1-year relationship.

    The sex part was nothing to write home about, but the emotional connection and heart-to-heart talks in bed were very gratifying … at first. Intimacy was KING. But with time, the lack of sex and sensuality on the part of Virgo man became a HUGE problem for this Gemini girl, a subject I broached several times with my Virgo fellow, with the utmost sensitivity, objectivity, respect and love. I believe that in my case, Virgo’s sexual dysfunctions stemmed more from his trouble-filled life. Nevertheless, by nature, a Virgo man is NOT affectionate, and I would often have to ask that he kiss me, hug me or cuddle me.

    Virgo man is very attentive during the early stages of the relationship, but his enthusiasm will quickly fizzle out, replacing attention with complacency. Virgo man is also generous to fault with money and with his time, mostly to over-compensate in those areas where he lacks.

    Due to Virgo man’s many ongoing problems, ours quickly became a co-dependent relationship whereby I gave, gave and gave, and he took, took and TOOK. And in the end, my investment, in terms of energy, emotional input, love and devotion, brought me no returns.

    Although our love story started with a BANG, mostly because Virgo man built me up to be the “Magic Bullet” he was always looking for to his family, friends and children, as time went by, our love story stagnated. I sat down with Virgo man on 4 separate occasions during our 1-year relationship wherein I related those areas that were not working out, and he much appreciated my input and the calm demeanour with which I presented my case. However, nothing was ever remedied.

    Ours ended just 5 weeks ago when contrary to my modus operandi of sitting down with Virgo man in person and exposing that which was not working out, I received–AT WORK–an unexpected e-mail asking for a 2-week break to “sort things out”, while also questioning the longevity of our relationship. I LITERALLY F-L-I-P-P-E-D out!!!

    I got this overwhelming sense of betrayal for having sent me a cheap “announcement” e-mail rather than having spoken to me face-to-face, and my anger, resentment and frustration grew stronger and stronger with each passing day. My ill feelings, disappointment and sense of destabilization culminated with 3 scathing letters to Virgo man during the weeks that followed, in the last of which I decreed our official break-up, seeing his nonchalance and silence over the entire matter.

    Since then, the situation degenerated through text messages and phone messages due to Virgo man’s continuous refusal to face the music in person, adding fuel to Gemini girl’s need for answers and, closure.

    I obviously broke-up out of emotions and sheer frustration for not having been able to confront Virgo man face-to-face, despite repeated requests I made both in writing, texting and by phone. A Virgo man will avoid confrontation AT ALL COSTS, which does very little to appease a Gemini girl’s emotional instability, brought about by Virgo man’s own shortcomings.

    I am presently not living our break-up well at all, and much to my surprise, our break-up made me realize that I loved my Virgo man much more than I thought, attributing my latent realization to the fact that I was, for the last 12 months, entrenched in a cyclone of heavy and serious situations and events due to Virgo man’s many ongoing problems.

    Since our break-up, I have written to Virgo man opening up the door to a reconciliation, but Virgo man was hurt at my breaking-up with him, and does not wish to rekindle.

    I am now into the 5th week of our break-up and am experiencing severe insomnia, loss of appetite, separation anxiety disorder (having been abruptly cut out of Virgo man’s life and family, which started with the shock of his initial catalytic e-mail) and am in therapy, for the first time in my life.

    I miss my Virgo Man *TERRIBLY*, and want him back, despite his insensitivity, shortcomings and, judgmental and critical character.

    Wherever he goes, whatever he does … I will be right here waiting for him.

  • princess says:

    I am a gemini woman and i dated three virgos. i had bad experience with them. i can’t stand them. first one , was a complete liar and the last two was an asshole and a complete. I have some family member that are virgo and i get along with them. As far as dating one, to me they are a liar.

  • danielle says:

    The 2 main relationships I had as adult has been with Virgo men…and both ended messy (I’m a Gemini woman). I just met an amazing Guy and unfortunately find out he is also a Virgo…another one bites the dust!!! Not going down that road again!!! Hahaha!

  • Gem says:

    This whole thing kinda throws me off…I’m a Gemini female and my boyfriend is a Virgo. We get along great, unbelievable chemistry and we have fun together! He’s super sweet and has the patience for my Gemini personality lol I hope we’re not doomed!!! :(

  • Darice says:

    I just want to say this i am a gemini female starting to date a virgo male and as far as the compatibility the signs are to lead you in the right direction not to be the determining factor. ultimatly your choices, attitudes and how you handle yourself and the other person in the relationship is what makes or breaks you two. relationships are not all butterlies and fairtales its hard work. if you are willing to put in the time and effort then i believe any relationship has the potental to work just some, you have to work at harder than others, but its all about how much effort you are willing to put into it and if you really think the person is worth it.

  • Aisha says:

    Gemini female and me and my Virgo have been together for about 6 months. He is wonderful! Brilliant, honest, high morals, elegant, quite the gentleman. He estimulates my mind and I make him smile and laugh. We are both in our 40s and have been married before so we have some relationship experience under our belts. I could marry him (he is ready and I’m a little hesitant – we Gemini’s kinda hate being married as much as we need and crave the stability of it) but I see little things that I am trying to figure out if I want to live with. For example, he is critical but doesn’t see it in himself. Also, he really is a homebody, loves studying (he’s pursuing his Ph.D.) and just being at home. I like to go out and do things. He is gracious and kind and he often goes along with me but I can tell he doesn’t need to be out like I do. I also think the way I say one thing now and another thing an hour l;ater is confusing for him. His yes is yes and his no is no. My yes is maybe and my no is maybe. So I see little differences between us. I also suspect if we broke up it would be a dragged out affair for me and cut & dry for him. It’s just how he lives his life – orderly and efficient. I agree with Darice – it really doesn’t matter so much about the compatibility, if you want to be with someone and both of you fee the same way, you’ll do whatever it takes to be with them. I am pretty sure I’m there with him in terms of marriage. My respect for him is tremendous and I feel safe and secure with him if not always emotionally understood. But who but another air sign can possibly understand us Gemini? :-) Good luck to all the gemini/virgo couples out there.

  • momo says:

    i know all too well about virgo men. My big brother is a virgo and beleive me when i say that this the partnership between these two signs are quite good. My brother fights and says things that hurt me but i just do the same. But he is very funny though. I date an aquarius man and he is amazing. But all i’m saying is that if you get on with a virgo-go through with it.

  • fallon says:

    gemini woman checking in…. my virgo boyfriend was everything i ever dreamed of for the first two months then he turned into a snooping manipulative egotistical evil bastard and im glad i got away from him before he killed me… he was so controlling and i was about to go to a domestic violence shelter… i might still have to go if he doesnt stop stalking me…. HELL NO TO VIRGO MEN
    HELL NO!!!!!
    HELL NO!!!!!!!!!!
    HEEEEEELLLLLLLL NOOOOOOO!!!!!!

  • Chris says:

    I’m a Virgo male and was seeing a Gemini woman (dunno if some of you go off the chinese signs but I’m an ox and she’s a horse)which were very typical of our signs, me being innocent cautious honest etc and her being a free spirit and split personality, going off what someone else said Gemini women do seem like promiscuous people (or as she put it whores) lol I wouldn’t go as far as whores but id give it a maybe for some but I guess it’s just in their nature…. Well inevitably we broke up, she was the most beautiful girl I had ever seen in my life we had a relationship for about 4 months I could never get her to commit to being my girlfriend at all, she kept saying were too different etc I can’t see myself growing old with you, I want a man that can sweep me off my feet etc, I’m not sure about other male virgos but I’m just not over romantic I was honest with her a lot and she just kept losing interest and straying but we were seeing each other for about 4 months and more than friends for longer than that it was pretty quick getting into it I kept making mistakes and she would keep losing interest but even now eventho the break up was harsh and she got a boyfriend after 2 days of splitting with me I’d have her back any time but we are different people and I guess have different goals in life me wanting to settle down and her wanting to spread her wings etc…… We are still great mates though we left it till after a month basically we split cause of an argument and she found a new boyfriend that’s admittedly a lot more of what she wanted but it was basically differences and we were drunk etc I k ow she had a lot of loose morals too like drugs etc and Im not into that but would just live with it tbh I guess if I met another Gemini I mIght be wary but they are amazing women just winds me up how they can be so flirty and go from one man to the next

  • Dim says:

    You forgot Queen Victoria and Prince Albert! :)

  • Lindsey says:

    I’m a gemini female and me and this virgo male have been kinda flirting for months now and we are like best friends as well and we both know we kinda like eachother and its like something ive never felt before. His name is Steven btw. I usually dont get along with virgos from the start but me and him just connected from day 1 of knowing eachother =) so ive kinda got a love hate relationship with them

  • BABE says:

    I am a gemini and my first LOVE was a VIRGO- he was a great lover a great boyfriend and i was in a relationship with him for 3 yrs… we were opposite- he was a neat freak wanted everything perfect and was tooo controlling and demanding!! he wanted sumthing serious and i was serious until i got tired and went out to play! he would wait for me outside my house and caught me with another guy… it was my fault why the relationship got screwed up and when i tried to work things out he never ever wanted me back change his number and lost contact!!

  • ROSE says:

    I AM A GEMINI WOMAN,I RECENTLY MET A VIRGO GUY, HE WAS A GENTLEMEN THE FIRST DAY WE MET OPENING DOORS FOR ME ETC. .SO FAR I LIKE HIM, BUT HE IS SO CONFIDENT ITS SCARY..LOL..AND HE ALWAYS TALKS ABOUT PERFECTION, AND HOW HE LIKES HIS WOMAN TO BE PERFECT EVEN THOUGH HE KNOWS NO ONE IS PERFECT.THATS KINDA SCARES ME, MAKES ME FEEL LIKE NOT WANTING TO CONTINUE TALKING TO HIM.AM FAR FROM PERFECT, I NEVER KNO WHAT I WANT.BUT LETS SEE HOW IT GOES

  • smiley says:

    I’m a Gemini women and I’m with a Virgo man. We have been getting into it every now and then, we stop speaking last year for 6months and then he calls me out of the blue to tell me he miss me and I went for it. Now that we are speaking I feel that we have had 3 little occasions where I don’t agree on how he’s treating me. We recently stop speaking for two weeks, and I called the shop where he work at to see if he can cut my boys head, and he was gladly to speak with me. I heard it in his voice. And the next day we had sex, all over again. But I told myself TODAY 4/10/11 that I have to break it off from him. He only see me on Mon tue wed and thur. Never the weekends he will call me to ck on me. Am I wrong. So today was the day I’m going to tell him, hopefully I won’t break down. But I will miss him a lot. He was great company..and I’m going to go by the Barber shop today to give him his belongs and tell him why. And keep it moving. Am I wrong?

  • Ami says:

    I am a Gemini female dating a Virgo male. We get along great, I keep things exciting and in just one hug he can calm me down. We are not all liars it whores as one man said. Anyone in any sign can be coniving, a liar, and a whore. Same goes for Virgo males. It’s on the person not the sign. Anyways our relationship is awesome, fun, down to earth, and the sex is passionate and great!

  • Serge says:

    I am a Virgo man and I am not crazy or obsessive. Yes, it’s true we do like things tidy or clean, but I believe as a couple one should notice what ticks the other off,and the other should try to do things to avoid what the other person dislikes.

    That’s just simple attention to your partner’s happiness and common courtesy. Yet, this is an issue not because of you sign, but because of the consideration you demonstrate for your partner. These are the little things that add up over time to become mountains in a future argument. So, why not give that little extra to your partners and avoid all the problems you Gemini women are writing about.

    Most women forget that a man just wants his women to “respect” him, and his likes.(such as having a clean house) That is the equivalent to a woman needing romantic gestures and attention to feel your partners “love”, and ladies you all know that that “LOVE” is what you like to feel to be more connected to your partner. When that becomes an issue you can see how the foundation of your relationship starts cracking which leads to other issues and distancing from your partner.

    So, Gemini women take a good assessment of what you have in your man and ask your self if it is worth taking those extra steps to make him happy, this in turn can work in your favor,so that you can grow a relationship instead of fighting.

    All relationships require a give and take and unlike most of the Virgo’s i have read about here I am very passionate, romantic and love to show affection. I love having our intimate time and I am just scratching my head wondering why there is a lack of intimacy from these Virgo’s. I just don’t get it. There is no better place in the world where i would rather be than entangled with my women underneath the sheets period.

    One thing that I feel that we Virgo’s do have in common is that when we do feel the respect from our partners we feel like giving anything and everything to them. So take note ladies just a little insight from a Virgo.

  • Intrigued by Mr. Cool says:

    I am Gemini woman who has been swept off her feet by one hell of a Virgo man. After weeks of non-verbal flirting on the bus & train, we finally exchanged numbers. This was completely out of the norm for me…generally speaking from a dating standpoint, I rarely find a man interesting enough to talk to for more than a few weeks, much less lose my character for. And I have done some unusual things in my adulthood for this man…like giving it up the first night, coordinating my schedule as to ride the train/bus together, texting all day…high school sh*t. Conversations are wonderful; he is very considerate, mature, well-mannered, focused, responsible and passionate. On a less perinent note he is a fantastic lover, fine as hell, stylish and fit. Neither one of us picture a serious relationship in the near future but we both are go-with-the-flow types, so we both feel whatever happens happens…as long as we remain cool. When we talk he makes me rethink my views and opinions…sometimes he even adjusts them! I have a messed up background – abandoned by my mother, neglected, abused and molested by my father, treated as a burden by the rest of my family, latch-key kid, teased all my life until my anger took over and I became violent as hell, searched for love in the wrong places as a highschooler (mildly promiscuous in my eyes but all who I’ve shared this info say my # is nothing – guess it depends on who you’re talking to

  • Intrigued by Mr. Cool says:

    I am a Gemini woman who has been swept off her feet by one hell of a Virgo man. After weeks of non-verbal flirting on the bus and train (not to mention an accidental/on purpose bump on my part), we finally exchanged numbers. This was completely out of the norm for me…generally speaking from a dating standpoint, I rarely find a man interesting enough to look at for more than a few minutes, much less lose my character for. And I have done some unusual things for this man…like giving it up the first night, coordinating my schedule as to ride the train/bus together, texting/talking every day since the exchange, sending freaky pics…high school sh*t. Conversations are wonderful; he is very considerate, mature, well-mannered, focused, responsible and passionate. On a less peritnent note he is a fantastic lover, fine as hell, stylish and fit. Neither one of us picture a serious relationship in the near future (as he is currently a “stallion running wild” and I have to develop the willingness to pursue it) but we both are go-with-the-flow types, so we feel whatever happens happens…as long as we remain cool. When we talk he makes me rethink my views and opinions…sometimes he even adjusts them! I have a messed up background – abandoned by my mother, neglected, abused and molested by my father, treated as a burden by the rest of my family, latch-key kid, teased all my life until my anger took over and I became violent as hell, searched for love in all the wrong places as a highschooler (mildly promiscuous in my eyes but all who I’ve shared this info with say my total is nothing – guess it depends on who you’re talking to), and to top it all off I have an especially akward living situation. All of this he knows and he says it’s no big deal (hence my nickname for him as Mr. Cool) – and his actions show it! Even though I am so far from a relationship, he can probably change my mind if he wants to. My only fear in dealing with him is that I’m going to fall totally in love and I’ll want for something more. I’ve never had these types of feelings for any man – never been in love, no real or serious relationships – so you can understand why I’m so freaked out by him. Since I’ve never been in love I don’t know how I’ll react if I do fall for him and this never grows into anything more. My plan is to stick with the plan – continue to get to know him and see what happens. I expect nothing will blossom from this, so if it does it will be a pleasant surprise. If not, then I won’t have to be disappointed. For a man to capture my attention like he has is so unbelievably rare I can’t resist simply walking away and not finding out why. I can’t get him off my mind – what a terribly wonderful feeling, lol. Pray for me!

  • Strong says:

    I am currently going through a situation that scares me to death… i am a gemini woman not dating because i dont want to call it that . but been friends with a Virgo man for about 5 years .what brought us closer was the death of his cousin his passing will be a year in november … who actually introduced us . may he RIP… eventually we started hanging out more and more . he is a gentleman , smart, funny,clean , knows what he wants . he just graduated with his bachelors. but then he joined the national guard. to make his resume better. the day before he left is when we first kissed. and it was the most perfect ive ever felt in my life. the only reason i didnt want to have anything beyond our friendship is because he doesnt know a big event from my past . in the year we stopped talking as much . i got married. with a evil human being aqua man . he actaully fractured my nose cheated on me because he was a over possessive jealous jerk. i was never unfaithful to him. ive been fighting to get a divorce but this man wants to screw me over i have done some modeling so he thinks i have all kinds of money after we seperated its been a year. i make my own money which only gets me through my everyday life. ive been on my own since 18. my virgo man knows about my family and how controlling they are so he understands that. the thing is i feel like i really have found my soulmate in every way. he has eased all the pain ive felt throughout all these years… i dont know how to tell him about this situation. he really wants to come back and build a strong relationship with me. but me having this in my head doesn’t allow me to give him the chance . i know how it feels to be lied to or manipulated so i dont want to do this to him. i just dont know when the right time is. i dont have have intention of being married any time soon but i feel that if we do start this intimate relationship since he is older and pretty much set he will want things that i cant really give him right now. even sexually i am hurt from the past relationship. i really just want to begin a new life and be happy. i just dont know how he will take this. he is arabic so i know in his culture and with his family when u marry its the greatest honor to the family and all. He has already accepted that i havent even finished my AA because i am an immigrant im trying to fix my status. ive only finished my beauty school but even if i havent gotten the same opportunity as others i am a fighter. he is 4 years older than me. so as you can see he is like an angel to me i respect him and love him so much .if someone can guide me it would surely help. i also dont want him to think that i just jump around to the next best thing. i really have suffered and i really just want to be happy.

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  • Aditya says:

    Virgo man / Gemini woman couple -> Warren and Susan Buffett

  • Emelin says:

    I’m a Gemini Woman Dating a Virgo man..Before I met this guy, he used to be the Ladies man,every girl was on him just as much as he was on them ! That used to annoy me , but knowing the type of girl I am ; I did what I had to do in order to get what I wanted :) & That is such a fact..! We drive eachother CRAZY..See the thing is that I can be a flirt, yes of course ..But thats when I’m single. For some reason I feel im commited to him, therefore theres no need to flirt.

    In the beggining of our relationship, he was the one that was doing all the flirting around and got Random girls number when im not around.. ( thinkin I wont catch him..its true that we gemini have a quick mind..Most of the time i’m riqht cause’ I make pretend I see him, or anything that would pop in to my head i would say to try to find out the truth..& he’ll fall riqht into my trap.. He will always start confessing.) Are’nt they supposed to be Loyal?..Also I have the gemini jealousy side in me too ,but I act like I dont care..I noticed That he changed his acts around after the 3rd time messing up on me.

    I guess it all depends in how you build & make of your relationship..Cause’ HONESTLY i’ll tell you right now ..He’s not doing anything like before,we always together & he has a GREAT heart .. I did a great work making him have a 360′ in such little time. Now we have 2 years,im happy he shares his emotions with me & isnt even shy I even live with him,we have our ups & downs ; but the ups defenitely always seem to beat the downs . I love him (even though he thinks i dont)& I know he loves me too<3

    * Emelinnx3

  • Deanna says:

    I am a Gemini woman and my man is Virgo. I am 9 yrs older then him he is 32 me 41. We have been together 6 yrs. I can tell you from the moment I touched him the sparks were flying and they still do. He is loving, funny, giving and sexy as hell. He is a slob at home, a perfectionist at work and in bed. He is the most intelligent man I have ever met and we can talk for hours. This man is the love of my life, I am faithful and truly never want another man to ever touch me. I do flirt but I have been married to two Scorpios 8 yrs each in the past and my ex husbands have nothing on this man. I would not change a thing about him well maybe that he thinks he is right all the time lol We never fight we have had some serious debates but we talk most things through. This man is almost a God to me and to tell you the truth he loves me intensely and makes me feel loved, desired and always wanted!!!

  • Kate says:

    I am a gemini. He is a virgo. We have been married for 28 years. There have been many ups and downs of our signs together. The first half was me being a young gemini, which is quite different from being a gemini now. We are eight years apart, he is older. I came from a shit background. So he was my hero. He loved being my hero. But I also exausted him at times being a gemini. Or lets just say a challenge. Virgo’s like a challenge.

    For sure, if they love you, they will show it by being of service (five love languages) to you. Cleaning, running errands,taking care of you or the household when ill , helping out etc. Love to wine and dine you(will try to speak your order for you to be efficiant and the man)(I tell him when to do it now, besides 100% of the time he knows what I will order or knows what I won’t like, believe me)(we laugh about it now, only after I brought it to his attention) and have fun with you. Very attentive and loving men, when not telling you that you are wrong or why isn’t this done this way etc. I guess you would call that nick picking. Serge, is right on that one of figure it out what works for you both. If something drives him nuts, be aware of it. Same with him with you. That being said, Gemini’s do speak up. Pissy at times. Since emotionally he isn’t connected to talk it out, It is just rough at times. They feel badgered. We want to talk, they don’t. Get to the point he says.

    For us, I have to say, they don’t do well when the children are young. My guy kept busy working and such(sports) during that time frame to cope. Let’s just say this mom was not pleased. More when they are teens. He is the one that is leader when they become teens. It is too chatic for them when babies and young. Financially for sure. Phycially and Mentally they are great at times, Others not so much. Emotionally, forget it.

    Be aware that being a “service man” and an “affirmation man” though that it can come across as controlling, trying to change you, get you to do what he thinks you ought to do, get you to second guess your own decision making. Very critical at times and not a good listener to your side of things. Yet, he will lift you up and make you feel loved and desired.

    That being said, Serge , above hit it the head. These men need to feel respected. Be sure to praise them over and over. Thank him and mean it. Remember our superficialness. Fill his bucket. He will melt for you. You will feel loved. I in turn, make sure our home is clean, things are in order, make meals consistantly, etc. to make him feel loved and serviced.

    But understand at times you are not fullfilled or that you were heard. He can’t be everything to you. Especially emotionally at times, go to your girlfriends for that.

    For me I am physical touch and quality time. Now he knows that after all these years. I need balance. I don’t care if he goes to hockey games and football games and boys night out (for years). Just have balance. Take me out, take time, foot rubs, small talk, etc.

    As far as physical touch in the bedroom, I can’t get enough.Always ready and willing. I think I have turned him down a couple of times in our marriage. As far as I can tell gemini’s have high sex drives. Virgo’s may have it at the get go, but for us, it has waned on his end. He is pretty much same old stuff. I try to get it moving at times, but he likes it the way it is. Gemini’s like change, variety, excitement. His age? yes. Virgo, though for the most part really don’t feel this is high on thier list. He has told me that too in the last few years. This is where for better or worse comes in. It is hard. No fullfilling me at all at times and it is sad to me. Gemini’s have issues with flirting and being faithful. I have been my whole marriage and will continue. But, don’t think I don’t think about it.

    So now, if he knows he isn’t up to it, he offers me a foot rub. Or if he hurt me in some way verbally or emotionally he gives me a foot rub. I love footrubs. That has saved our marriage. That and lots of I’m sorry. We always make up and forgive.

    We feed off each other. Good and bad. Love each other and keep going. Virgo’s are very loyal. Once they find the love of their life that is it. I love that about him. He is rock solid. Even when I wanted to end it, he was rock solid. I am grateful for that. Gemini’s need that in the long run, for the long haul. I have learned to take his negatives and think of all the positives and love him even more.

    What does 5 love languages have to do with our signs?
    We both took the test. I couldn’t believe how close the similarities were.

  • obie3 says:

    i,m a virgo bloke,she is the most delictabable gemini woman i’ve seen.problem is she seems very distant to me and when i get talking she gets very silent,but then she gets flirty,smiling and being all cute around me,hot n cold .my analytical side ,becaus we virgos analyize everything,we are the engineers of the zodiac , tells me there a game being played here .it is exactly what drives virgos crazy,ambuiguity on her part .trying to draw near to her vis a vis but she.s aloof and analy retentive,a charge virgo has to wear alot for no good reason,we just got standards and expect some inteligent treatment of them.any way to crack this shell
    any good ideas on this-a gemini rabbit is my target.

  • skyflu28 says:

    I am a Virgo man and I have dated many Gemini women. Out of all the signs I love them the most. It’s never a dull moment with Gemini’s; because they are everything I am not. People think that dating a sign that is compatible may very well be the way to go; but let me tell you this is not true. Yes it will work; but it will be boring. I have dated other earth signs and have never been more bored. They say that Taurus and Capricorn are my most compatible, but I have been engaged to a Taurus and have dated a Capricorn… It went fine, but there was something missing… The FUN. The last Gemini women I had she was all over the place, but that’s what a shy, introverted Virgo man like myself needs. I mean I went dancing, to the fair, and the art festival just to say the least; but these things I would have never done without an outgoing sign like Gemini. I have to say that I miss my last Gemini girlfriend and it’s been like 8 months; but as for my ex fiance? well I told you it was boring.They were always attracted to my mind and chivalry I was always attracted to her frugal and carelessness. Anyone who says this pair could not work then that’s fine; but these two signs are mutable signs; so they have more in common than you think.

  • daeja says:

    Ha funny i had a on hold virgo bf and im the gemini

  • The Virgonian says:

    Degree of Friendship: There can be a whole lot of friendship going on because there are at least five different involved. There is Virgo and his alter ego, the twins and their alter egos. That’s six. Think of a whole wilderness of monkeys to entertain you.

    You have that pegged right on the mark. Never a dull moment, that’s for sure.

    Sex: Getting back to the wilderness of monkeys, curiosity is a big factor here. Half the time one of the six of you will be looking down saying, “Oh my God, I can’t believe I am doing this.” For more fun, add mirrors.

    So very true. Mirrors included

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  • Monica smith says:

    Anthony :

    I’m a Virgo Male (September 22, 1984) … and the Gemini women I’ve dated were the absolute worst. It’s weird… it’s like they do & say everything that you want to hear, but in the back of your mind … you know that person is putting on a performance. Like as soon as they get whatever they want out of you, they’ll flip the script. And that’s exactly what happens. They are conniving, liars, and whores. The absolute worst. I will say this… they are good to have as friends. NOTHING more.

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  • Monica smith says:

    ANTHONY?? NO YOU DIDNT JUST CLASSIFY ALLLL OF US GEMINI WOMEN INTO SAME CLASS AS UR EX WHORE? WE ARE ALL DIFFERENT,,,,WAT U DESCRIBED AS UR GEMINI? I HAD SAME THING HAPPEN TO ME BY A VIRGO BF OF 41 MONTHS! HE WAS A DOGG, LIAR, CHEATER, USER,,,,BUT I DONT CLASSIFY ALL MEN LIKE HIM,,HES JUST ONE OF THE DOGGS THAT NEED TO BE PUT TO SLEEP,,, EUTHANIZED!!

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  • gemini baby says:

    i am a gemini and iam currently talkin to a virgo man we have been talkin for about 9 months i met him threw a friend even tho he can be very critical observer ect its something about him that really turns me on im really feeling him but i kno we are just friends he is very flirtatious i can be also but i hope later on in life we can be together he is a good person if not i hope we can remain friends but i really like him

  • Sherry says:

    I am with a Virgo we get along great just we bump heads we able work things out.but we get along very well it just how u understand the Virgo I find I’m more attracted to Virgo ten any zodiac sign.virgo very compian with Gemini I found out.i have to say I fall in Love virgos but I’m gay of all things.u be perfect match if ur welling to put ur difference aside u will be.

  • Sara says:

    I am a Gemini woman and my boyfriend is a Virgo Male. I have never been so in love in my life. My Virgo boyfriend is a home body, and yes I am more social, but always seem to find a happy middle ground. He is caring, respectful and interesting.
    I’m sometimes childish and a joker, but I think that drives him wild in a good way. He loves taking care of me, and I love it when he actually needs my help, that I take care of him. I feel that even though it says we are not supposed to match, that I have never been so in love in my entire life. I would say that I have never gotten along better with any other person. I have been with my Virgo for 2 years now, and I would not trade him for anything.

  • folawe says:

    i am a virgo male ‘TRYING’ to date a gemini female. From all parameters, she’s head over heels for me but she doesn’t know what she wants. She’s very indecisive and that could be pretty much annoying. I broke up the friendship aspect with her since shhe behaved like we dont share the same goal towards that but she came around a few days later saying she’s tired of fighting of which i was not fighting with her. She’s just immature and i don’t wanna believe all gemini females are like that but WOULD NEVER take chances with any either coz they might be terrible pple depending on their person

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