This combination works beautifully for a serious relationship. They may be less inclined toward family life than to enjoy the deep aesthetic of each other’s company. Elegant and tasteful, when they combine, imagine Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers dancing across the floor to “I’m in Heaven”. Everything they do will have a touch of perfection and flare. Virgo minds the details while Libra orchestrates the social ambiance.
How to Attract a Virgo Man as a Libra Woman: You’ve gotta be feeling pretty good about yourself to get this off the ground. Chances are you are in touch with your inner beauty and outer radiance to draw such a discriminating gentleman into orbit around you. Here you can use all your grace and charm. Your excellent manners will hit the mark, too. Ask for refinement in the things you do and the places where you meet. You’re the pace setter. He’s kind of shy and self effacing. You’ll get along great.
How to Attract a Libra Woman as a Virgo Man: Show your lovely and flirtatious social skills. Dress nicely in understated elegance
Degree of Romance: Over the top! This is possibly the best combination for romance there is. You two speak the language of love and each appreciates attention to detail and finesse. You are probably the envy of all your married and single friends. Where romance is concerned, you wrote the book.
Degree of Passion: There is no place for a bull in a china shop. How crude. How rude. Leave that to the “unrefined” people.
Degree of Friendship: They share such a common view of life. They each crave peace and harmony. They both recognize melodrama for what it is (a big fat waste of time). They both like to do everything beautifully, tastefully, and are oriented to quality not quantity. Their family crest will be emblazoned “LESS IS MORE.” They both look at the world with equanimity and can trust each other that way. They truly believe there is nothing that can’t be talked out in a civil manner. Each is willing to compromise with an innate sense of what is equitable.
Degree of Marriage: All the way one perfect, precious step at a time. Dot all the i’s and cross all the t’s.
Progression of Relationship: Neat and tidy. Proper increments. First base, second base, third base, home. What a thrill!
Sex: Sex will be like the Kama Sutra or a Japanese Geisha arrangement. Stylized and formal can be kinkier than you’d ever believe. Check it out with a small caveat: no place for amateurs.
When It’s Over: Things will unwind in an orderly fashion after a civilized conversation about what’s best for all concerned.
Our Rating: 10/10

#1 by Snoop on November 24th, 2009
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Spot on! Very good article
#2 by nancy on November 27th, 2009
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Many thanks for the nod in our direction, Snoop!
#3 by Jamz on December 16th, 2009
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Yes, I have a question. So if you could e-mail me with the answer that would be great. I whole heartedly believe in astrology. So, I have been doing a a lot of research on the relationship compatibilty of a libra woman and a virgo man.(me being the libra) Almost every article I have read says that libra and virgo can manage a successful relationship, but it is highly unlikely. The virgo man in my life has been my best friend for years, and I know a lot about his personality and how to maintain harmony in our friendship. So, what I want to ask you is, do you personaly think that because we have been friends for so long it would make it easier to maintain a healthy, happy relationship? If you could e-mail me back that would be greatly appreciated. Thanks. Jamz
#4 by Vineeta on February 9th, 2010
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Hi..Jamz.. I wud say tht virgo men seek perfectionism in every thng they do.. They criticize a lot.. It may annoy u, bt tak it in a positive sense.. If they r criticizing abt smthin, u shd consider it cos they r sayin it rite.. nd if u tak it as their nature thn u wnt hav any problems.. We librans think thru our heart nd virgos r very rational so u cn even tak advantage of d situation agn.. U cn blindly trust him whn u hav to tak a tough decision.. even in relationships he will guide u very well.. he will tel u wat is rite nd wrong nd whn it comes to sensitive issues, u cn tak d lead, cos v r best at it.. If u learn to mak advantage of d differences u both hav thn u cn hav amazin chemistry.. He’s d one who appreciates ur efforts, trust me..! nd every relationship is abt workin on it.. Understandin it.. Infact d guy i lied ws a virgo nd I hv learnt a lot frm him.. I wish i cud get him back in my life agn.. Bt i wasnt tht mature enough to undstnd thse relationships thn. So u bettr hold on to ths virgo guy.. U guys rock!! Enjoy
#5 by Jim on March 27th, 2010
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Very impressive analysis of Virgo man and Libra woman. Its the only write up I’ve seen so far that’s upbeat and positive.
#6 by nancy on March 30th, 2010
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Thanks. Try it. You’ll like it.
#7 by Krissy Poo on May 1st, 2010
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I had a break up with my Virgo boyfriend on Saturday. The article described us down to a T as I read it. I find it so hard to deal with our separation. It wasn’t an ugly one, but more of a mutual one. We were in a long distance relationship but he found it harder to keep up. We were together for 8 months. Best relationship I’ve ever had; short and all the way sweet.
#8 by Nono on May 21st, 2010
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Hi.. Jamz .. Im libran woman currently datin a virgo man.Crazy in luv and my family is crazy abt him ,but I sometimes dont knw where I’m standin with him ,one minute he wants a wife the other he does not evn want 2 consider a serious relationship. I knw he loves me (in a strange way) but sometimes Ijust dont knw what he wants.He does not trust easily and can be very jalous and posessive.
Been 2gether for 6months and one of the best relationships Ive had. Sumthin sayz I shud leave but thats not what I wana do .Please help …
#9 by Amy on May 24th, 2010
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This is not completely true. On the downside he was criticizing and sounded rude…typical Virgo I presume!!and all we did was fight. But yes he did complement me in most ways. We were the envy of all our classmates, but then something happened and he’s been avoiding me and now he’s cold and aloof and reserved, I can’t make him out at all and I can’t make him talk. Do I break up?
#10 by Tracy on May 28th, 2010
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Be patient with him. I find that with Virgo’s if you let them be and even share your feelings by letting him know exactly how much he means to you and why you love him, it may boost his confidence to “let you in.” I have been friends with a virgo male (I’m a Libra woman) for years. We knew from the time we met that there had been a mutual connection, but it slowly grew and we both got to a point to trust enough to express our love. Then we went through a hard time of me not understanding how he expressed love and how selective he was about it. Whenever in doubt, I can think of the kind things he has done, said or even noticed about me and then I “know” that he loves me and that we were born to be together. Patience is the key in dealing with your virgo man, but I believe it is worth it. I feel blessed to have been chosen by this man because I know how discriminating and worisome a relationship can be for him. He motivates me to be better and I do the same for him. If you are patient and listen more, he “will” talk and you will enjoy “listening” to what he says. I started a journal and document the things that he says to me. When I am patient and listen to him, he can talk for days on end. Whenever I am down or he is “working” and away from me, I read my journal and I remember why we are in love….I wish you the best. I think a balanced Libra woman is the best a Virgo man could ever ask for. Go for it! At least you’ll be able to say that you gave it your all. Isn’t true love worth the sacrifice?
#11 by Libragal on June 16th, 2010
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Libra girls stay away!!!!
I was with a virgo man for five and a half years, we got married six months ago, and now he is divorcing me! He became very jealous, possessive, untrusting and resentful to the point of harassment (e.g., calling me twenty times when I’d go out alone [because he never wanted to do anything] even though he knew where I was, reading my emails, and being pushy about sex, which is funny because our sex life was really bad in terms of frequency and overall quality). We ended up separating for a month and a half because I told him I needed space to finish school without all his harassment. Now he is divorcing me because he says he is tired of waiting for me, wants to get on with his life, and that he doesn’t care about me anymore!
I spent four years changing who I was to make him happy, and then one month after the wedding he tells me that he wants to start making decisions for himself and by himself. Then he accuses me of not being committed to the relationship.
They are (okay, to be fair… mine was) all talk and no action. He would say whatever you he thought I wanted to hear, and then not act on it; plus I would have to get him to say something in the first place! They don’t volunteer themselves. I’d say, “why don’t you tell me you love me, without me asking you?” He’d say, “I do love you”… whatever!!!
For us Libras, these guys are way too selfish. They may do stuff that makes you think, “oh–look how generous he is”, but really they only do those things because they expect something in return. I guess if you don’t mind that, then to each her own. But please be warned–my heart is broken because my soon-to-be ex-husband decided to protect his pennies over his marriage, and the human being he claimed to love!!!
#12 by MaraSolo on August 8th, 2010
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ive been datinq my virgo guy for awhile now & so far its been pretty well & refreshinq. virgos male or female are interestinq ppl to be around. b4 we got together we were and still to this day are great friends. yes we’ve had disagreements and so forth but breakinq up is really the last thinq on our minds. i mean yeah sometimes its good read horoscopes etc. but virgo male or not, its not about the sign, its about honesty and trust which is almost one & the same then love can come 2nd. i know it can be hardvto fiqure them out when they become distant but its ur decision if u wanna be there for them or leave them & leave them feelinq more lost & confused…the virgos that ive met are hard on theirselves and always askinq for someone elses opinion (in my case) so will we actually ever unfortunately break-up idk but ima give it my all but if thats not good enough I’ll be there for him.
#13 by Amy on August 17th, 2010
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The first guy I was with was a Virgo. The most recent one was a Virgo …they’re alwasy chasing after me…they make me fall in love and then break my heart with cold ruthlessness. I have never cried half so much or felt half as wretched in any other relationship with any other zodiac. The worst part is if another Virgo guy was to walk into my life, I’d probably risk everything, take little heed of the warning bells inside my head, bury the past and start over. The relationship I had with a Virgo was beautiful, enchanting, classic, typical fairytale romance. The problem is when I wake up from this dream and I’m an old hag of a witch in disguise and hes a dragon instead of prince charming and breathes “spiteful words” instead of fire!
#14 by Alea on August 19th, 2010
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the relationship i am currently in is one with a virgo man . we’ve been seeing eachother for almost a year . in the beginning the relationship was all good . my mother is a virgo and almost all of my best friends have or are virgos . so for the most part i understand them . a lot of people say they are coldhearted and mean but i think they are just misunderstood . they dont open up easily and they dont give their heart to just anyone . so when my virgo guy opened up to me about ALL his insecurities he had both with himself and his life, i knew i was something special . they are not the types to tell you a million and one times how they love you and miss you . but when they do just know its sincere . its funny because im a libra which makes me a hopeless romantic . and when we first started seeing eachother i red that virgos are not romantics at all . but ive found my virgo partner to be the most affectionate man ive ever been with [ outa Libra, Cancer, Taurus, and Scorpio ] i can say that the relationship has had its downsides . when he goes days and even weeks without speaking to me . his Me VS The World attitude . they were all problems i had with him . but instead of letting it go i told him so we can work on it . i can honestly say that this is the best relationship ive ever been in . we clicked not just physically but emotionally and spiritually . i knew he was something special when i didnt have my typical libra mind frame of having others on the side just in case . i love him soooooooo much and i want this to work …
#15 by GirlNextDoor on August 23rd, 2010
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WHAT!!! Libra and virgo match?!?!?!…this should be interesting
They just so earthy
#16 by GirlNextDoor on August 23rd, 2010
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WHAT!!! Libra and virgo match?!?!?!…this should be interesting
Virgo’s are just too grounded – I don’t know. But I’m a libra on cusp of scorpio – just too dramatic