Comments on: Virgo Man and Libra Woman Compatibility

By: Virgo Steve

Virgo Steve — Sun, 29 Apr 2012 09:50:34 +0000

Ok I am a Virgo male (sep 9) and she is a libra woman (oct 11)
And in the beginning she was head over heals for me and I had no feelings for her at all… I jus
Helped her with her problems she had and showed her attention…
Then I kinda started flirting with her (that was bound to happen)
And she caught more and more feelings for me day by day. One say she said
“I love you” and that flattered me but, I didnt love her and exlained to her In a nice way
Why I didn’t feel the same but appreciated how she felt about me. That kinda hurt her but I made her feel better
After that one day she told me she wrote two poems about me and I got kinda excited… But when she
Read them it scared me away a little because she said ” I can’t live without you I’m going to love you forever no matter
What you are my rock” I loved to hear that but… She know I didn’t feel the same so I kinda stopped contacting her for a month and started again she said she was hurt because I ignored her I apologized and stuff I asked her if she still loved me she said no… That kinda hurt but , I could see why I kinda did her dirty… And she started treating me different and I started to miss the old her… Then something happened and I helped her with the problem and then she said I love you goodnight… I was surprised and the next day I asked her I thought you said you don’t love me she said I will always love you no matter what don’t believe me if I say I don’t… I got juiced and said ok few months later she said she had a boyfriend and claims she doesn’t love me anymore and starting to confuse me can anyone help????

By: virgoC

virgoC — Thu, 05 Apr 2012 04:11:51 +0000

Libra ladies, I’m a Virgo male and would like some advice.

My Libra ex-girlfriend and I broke up 2 months ago. Three weeks ago she called me sounding sad, and since that night we have hung out a few times and talked through a lot of emotions. She texted me a week after our initial contact saying she’s been thinking about me and misses me. We hung out last week and I expressed how much I still care for her and how I would like to go on a no-pressure real date. She agreed to my plans, but now she is being distant. I have no expectations of this date, other than I want it to be good and relaxed. I feel she is putting up walls now.

What could I do or say to make this beautiful Libra warm up to me again?> I know she still has feelings for me but she is fighting them.

By: asavirgo

asavirgo — Tue, 03 Apr 2012 13:50:48 +0000

We just met btw but I just know there’s something different about her than other women I’ve been with, thank you all

By: asavirgo

asavirgo — Tue, 03 Apr 2012 13:15:25 +0000

Ok so im a Virgo male thats highly interested in a Libra woman I recently met. She says she is interested and would like to see me again but I have a problem getting her to talk with me. Is she just playing with me or is she interested? Should I move on? Or keep at it. I’ve already noticed many things and for some reason I cant get her off my brain. I believe that if I can make her mine I can make her the happiest woman alive. I dont call or text a lot being a Virgo I dont like to feel like im annoying, but I do text her good morning everyday, n a some small conversation but my heart is crying out for more but I dont know how to express that without the possibility of chasing her off. What do I do?

By: MzLadii2u

MzLadii2u — Tue, 27 Mar 2012 04:53:27 +0000

@sudarshan my advice is to ask her then tell her how u feel thru something artistic …..we love flattery and the right attention with respect n class…… just be yourself and let your heart lead the way WE LOVE HONESTY BTW

By: MzLadii2u

MzLadii2u — Tue, 27 Mar 2012 04:47:36 +0000

So I’ve been talking to a Virgo man n I must say I’m in awe …he’s such a man n that is soooo attractive to me. I told him and expressed it with the Libra charm he ddnt really say much ….I wnt to know how will I know when he’s ready to open up and express whatever it is he needs to say?

By: sudarshan

sudarshan — Sun, 25 Mar 2012 20:04:27 +0000

Hi all, I’m a virgo man and am in love with a libra woman who is almost my age. I’ve just met her twice a couple of years back and then never met, although we’ve been in touch through facebook or email. I really want her to be my girlfriend and a partner for life. I’ve recently tried to meet her up but couldn’t each time I try. I just don’t want to disturb her often and persuade her to meet me. So Libra girls, please help me out. How should I propose my love to her? How will I know if she presently has a boyfriend or not?

By: Omari Gadlin

Omari Gadlin — Fri, 23 Mar 2012 06:35:32 +0000

Damn I really agree with all of the woman posters us Virgo men are great, easy to get along with, perfectionist, needy lol we love affection and attention, can be critical and outspoken sometimes hurting someones feelings in the process but other than that we are the best no doubt any single ladies looking for a great Virgo Man as a friend or a great guy to talk to let me know you can add me as a friend on Facebook email omarigadlin@gmail.com

By: Libralove

Libralove — Fri, 16 Mar 2012 10:19:59 +0000

Hi, I met a Virgo on internet, we chatted and he invited me to go for drinks and dancing. We had such chemistry and both had lots of fun and laughter. After that night I always invited him for drinks etc. I would sms “join me for a drink”, and I would wait 2hours for him to respond “ok”! We have been out 3 or 4 times and always had very deep intellectual conversations (basically I know nothing of his personal life and vice versa), shows me we both very analytical people! I told him last time we went out that from now on if he wants to go out he needs to make the first move. I have not seen him now for 5 months, but every now and then he still sends me msg and questions weather im single etc. I feel something, please can someone tell me what he is up to. I saw on fb today that a ex girlfriend posted a picture of the two of them taken in 2010 on his wall, but just 2 days ago we had an intense conversation texting. Please help!

By: virgoblu

virgoblu — Thu, 15 Mar 2012 18:18:54 +0000

Libragirl75, Virgo men oftentimes have a hard time making the first move. It sounds like you and your crush have been spending plenty of time together, and it is a good sign he keeps showing up and that he fixed your car. He is probably shy and running through all the what-ifs in his mind. If he keeps coming around and you find him checking you out, I guarantee he is thinking about you regularly.

So I would say with this guy, you need to tell him how you feel. Don’t go over the top which might scare him away. But try to be subtle and ask him to do an activity alone. Make it more like a casual date and see how he reacts. If that goes well, I would flat out tell him you’d like to go on a real date next time. Good luck!

By: Megan Cartwright

Megan Cartwright — Fri, 09 Mar 2012 01:19:19 +0000

My virgo man is a perfectionist. But i dont know what he sees in me. im a libra gal(lady) and know him since i was sixteen but then we were jus tfriends and he was dating someone really popular, a cheerleader type. We went off to college…and met years later when he came back for our high school reunion. he started looking at me differently wants to go out with me now. sure we had a common background coming from where we did but really i dont see myself as much of anything.. no name job in the supermkt, used ol’ car, no house. i evenmoved back into my parents house. i help out once in a while on the farm(we own one) when we run short of hands or im out of work. would i be interesting to someone who really was so high and mighty once? somebody help me what virgoes like.

By: Libragirl75

Libragirl75 — Sun, 04 Mar 2012 23:26:15 +0000

@virgoblackonblack

Your comment made me smile. I see a lot of stuff that fits the virgo I fell for…

By: Libragirl75

Libragirl75 — Sun, 04 Mar 2012 23:21:33 +0000

I’m a libra woman, and around 4 months ago, I met this virgo man at a party and he has been on my mind day and night ever since – I’m falling in love. He was the first man in a long time who could make me laugh all night. I knew I wanted to see him again so I first added him on facebook, and then I arranged through a mutual friend to meet again.

He stated that his friend is very privat and doesn’t think we get him to go out. But he did show, and we talked all night. I catched him looking at me when he thought I didn’t see. He drove me home that night and called me a couple days later because he wanted to see me again. My heart jumped out of my chest. But these virgo guys are a tough nut to crack, at the beginning we couldn’t even talk on the phone long, it was awkward.

There was a lot of tension, and I almost felt like I’m a teenager again. Ever since that he slowly opened up to me. Right now we are just friends, but we have contact every week, and spend every other weekend together with friends to play cards, usually at my house. Whenever we are together we are like magnets, people notice, so far he bares to look in my eyes and smiles at me, which he couldn’t do before.

But that is, after I threw all of my best charme and my prettiest smiles at him. He also fixed my car, and that day, he stared at me again. He tells me stuff about his work, I met his friends..BUT

Here it is..BUT:

HE IS NOT MAKING A DARN MOVE ON ME. Nothing, maybe our hands touch slighly and we smile at each other but that is it!! Last time we met, he was the last one at my house, and yet he went home, just smiled at me when he left. I will not tell him or make a move. He confuses the hell out of me. Does he just want to be friends? I know there is something, we are falling for each other, but I’m getting impatient, and I don’t want to ruin anything.

Virgo men, PLEASE HELP me. Any advice for one lonely libra, who has forver fallen for this virgo who is not making a move. I’m not used to this..LOL

By: Marc

Marc — Fri, 02 Mar 2012 01:42:54 +0000

Love my Libra woman…

By: virgoblu

virgoblu — Thu, 09 Feb 2012 19:41:39 +0000

I am a double Virgo man (sun and rising) and recently broke up with my Libra girlfriend of nearly two years. It’s been very hard. When I first met her the attraction between us was off the charts. I always loved her affectionate and warm emotional side, and we would spend hours talking over nice meals and wine. I also loved her ability to bounce around life without much worry. That was refreshing as us Virgos tend to worry about every little detail, and always try to be prepared for the future.

But after a while, her jealous side came out we began fighting over the same issues over and over. She could not handle me doing things without her, even having a quick drink with friends. I felt that as a major slash against my independent Virgo nature and I felt as though I shouldn’t need to explain myself for wanting to do things sometimes without her. She could also get very emotional and irrational at times, and my cold Virgo responses to that never helped the situation. I just had a hard time coddling her emotions if I felt they weren’t rational, as I live completely in my head and think about everything, rather than feel everything the way she did. She also expected me to understand her emotions without talking to me, meanwhile I needed her to express her feelings vocally. She would talk for a while, then back to the way we were again which ended up in arguments.

In the end, I felt the breakup was necessary as the little fights happened more frequently. I couldn’t get passed her jealous side, and I envisioned that always being there in the future if we were to move in together and someday get married. I felt I earned her trust over and over and she should be OK with my independence.

So for you Libra females, give your Virgo mate space. Talk to him and ask him questions. We are often very deep individuals, who will not show our true selves to just anyone. Challenge your man especially intellectually, and keep the relationship interesting and honest. Also, understand that a Virgo man loves to serve, so thank him when he does all the little things for you. He likes to be appreciated for those things, especially when he is doing them for you. That is one of the biggest ways he expresses his love.

I have learned a lot about Libras and what they expect in a relationship, and I would not hesitate to date a Libra again. They are beautiful and affectionate females who can help warm the sometimes cold Virgo. Also note, she was an Ox and I am a Dragon in Chinese Astrology. They are not a good match, and the Ox probably pushed her jealousy more than her Libra traits.

By: Mz LibraVirgo

Mz LibraVirgo — Wed, 08 Feb 2012 22:29:21 +0000

@Jessica stavro
AMEN honey! You can learn alot from Virgo men and sometimes they come off as trying to be your father but in reality they are just so wise beyond there years! It is so ture when they say Libra’s and Virgo’s offen get so caught up into each other that they can spend lots of time shut off from the world just the two of them!

By: Jessica stavro

Jessica stavro — Fri, 27 Jan 2012 00:56:57 +0000

Libras can learn from*

By: Jessica stavro

Jessica stavro — Fri, 27 Jan 2012 00:53:37 +0000

I am a libra woman going out with a Virgo man for 5 years. Being that we started dating when I was 17 years old now 22, ive practically done all my maturing and growing up with him. I can say, being in a relationship with a Virgo man…you’ll learn something everyday. They are a very intellectual sign and I believe it’s this trail that makes my Virgo boyfriend very philosophical and likely to teach you new life lessons and have great ways of telling you things about yourself that they observe (they are very observant). Being a libra, we all know they are people pleasers, Virgo’s are not into that, they wants your true feelings and this is a trait lives can learn from. One thing that has always kept our relationship so strong is mutual respect. Libra’s appreciate balance, I am very much like that. We have had our problems and arguments but we each know how keep each other interested, and we both have a same humor and being able to always laugh with him is one of the many reasons I fell in love with him in the first place. If you’re a libra woman dating a libra man, understand you are going out with the most understanding, intelligent, and intuitive person. Show them you’re always willing to open you’re mind to new lessons and perspectives.

By: Virgo Mann

Virgo Mann — Fri, 27 Jan 2012 00:33:08 +0000

I was a Young Virgo going out with a Leo girl (psycho). We woul break up and go back out all the time throughout high school and freshman year of college. I met this libra girl one day and I knew instantly that she was the love of my life. Yea it was complicated with my current girlfriend and virgos are not ones to make impulse decisions. After hanging out as friends with this libra( behind my Leo girlfriends back), I knew she was the one I wanted. I was open about my feelings towards this libra. But she would never let me know outright how she felt about me. It was a constant chase. After a bout a year of being friends, we finally kissed.. Best kiss of my life. We’ve been going out for 5 years now and I can’t imagine my life without her. Even now, the sex still gets enter everytime.
Yes virgos can be annoying in that we won’t answer your questions about how hot u look and how much we love you. Just know that a real Virgo won’t waste your time. I we are in a full fledged relationship with u, chanes are we love you, even if we don’t express it with words. We’d rather show you than tell you. The one thing about libras that Irks me is that they try to think about the perfect thing to say or do at a specific time or look to answer a Virgo’s question with what the libra thinks the Virgo wants To hear. You must e honest with virgos at all times and they will understand. Virgos may be cocky and seem self centered, but it’s because we KNOW we are intellectually superior to most of their peers. To keep a virgo happy, stroke our ego every so often by saying how much better/smarter we are than other guys. As long as a Virgo feels he is the most important thing in your life. We will be loyal and faithful forever

By: halo

halo — Tue, 24 Jan 2012 15:02:07 +0000

I usually hate virgo’s lol lol. But omg I’ve met the most divine virgo. I’m libra and have a scorpio moon; and he’s got a pisces moon. I just knew it – from the first connection we had. There’s a delicious attraction there, a real mutual desire. I’m a little concerned as he’s second decan and I’m first decan, but what they hey, I’m enjoying it!

By: David

David — Mon, 23 Jan 2012 14:17:39 +0000

I’m a Virgo man that has found myself interested in a Libra woman. You Libras would be oh so proud of her. I can’t tell from day to day if she’s interested or not.
I have found myself in relationships with Cancer women bc it’s easy to see where they’re coming from but it always ends ugly. I’m not use to the chase it’s dumbfounding yet exhilarating. Any advise would be appreciated.

To any of you having issues with a Virgo man, the best advice I can give you is to embrace everything about him and be honest. Dont be scared to ask him questions, he’d love to share his knowledge.

Example of embracing everything about him: I write poetry but the last Cancer I was with had no interest in it or trying to understand it. Between that and her being with other men I was done.

By: virgoblackonblack

virgoblackonblack — Wed, 18 Jan 2012 14:48:00 +0000

I’m a virgo male. I don’t know why I’m writing on this website, but I’ve been reading on the previous comments considering virgo males acting cold and nonchalant in their relationship with a libran, well it’s because they are cheating on you.

I just want to make it known, any relationship fluctuations made by a virgo male only happens when we have EXTRAcurricullar activites in our lives. Yes it is bad for the relationship. Why do we stick to our old flames and the past ? Because we’re loyal and it seems that the storybook romance always have an everlasting ending, and if the virgo male has that connection with his previous mates, then he will claim to his word. No matter how involved in the current relationship he is, that’s just how we are.

Now to get past that point of us not having other people in our lives, … We have to be absolutely in love with you. Do you know how hard it is for us to even look at you for a second ? You Librans, Leos, Piscess, Aquariuses, are all meek to our legendary rep. Why do we even bother with you… Then it hits me. You Librans are soo flirtatious. Why are you talking to me like this ? Oh, I genuinely kind of adore this little platonic conversation you’re pulling off. Cute.

Then mix in the daily schedules of a Virgo life mixed in a Libran’s and sooner or later, these two will be like magnets in a room full of people. Us virgos can’t help when you dress so exquisite and charming. We would love to compliment on you guys 100% of the time, but we have to witheld ourselves, or else we’d be just another stupid pisces. Ew.

Anyways, Virgos, dont cheat on your Librans. If you have previous relationships, put them in a fire right now, and let the dust blow into the sky never to be mentioned again, cus I think once you find something special, no matter what A virgo will always put his 1001% in it.

Love-

By: Cal

Cal — Sun, 08 Jan 2012 06:12:18 +0000

I’m a Virgo man and met my first real love, a Libra woman many years ago. We fell in love almost instantly, literally, by the end of the day we were in love, and it lasted for about 2 1/2 years. It was the most amazing time of my life, I’ve never felt as loved as I was with her and never felt like I could love that strongly again. We never fought, when we disagreed, we discussed it and solved the problem right away. We were the envy of all our friends, as the article said. We could talk to each other about anything and everything and we did. It was like, with each passing day, we fell more in love with each other. Our entire relationship was one of mutual trust, respect and support when the other needed it. She was my whole world and I was hers. In fact, the only reason the relationship didn’t last any longer than it did was because she passed away otherwise I believe we would still be together. So, my Virgo-Libra experience was exactly what the article said it would be.

By: Social65

Social65 — Fri, 30 Dec 2011 11:40:32 +0000

I’m a Libra woman. Had I known how Virgo men react to arguments I’d probably would’ve picked a different battle. I thought ending the argument and backing off him for a few days was right way to handle situation. Instead of calming down he broke up with me. I don’t know how to get him back.

By: Marc

Marc — Sun, 20 Nov 2011 23:58:02 +0000

Libraaa : Hey!! Can someone tell me just how to deal with a Virgo man? What are the tricks to get the ball back in your court after an argument? Do you ignore him? Be his friend?! I’m curious, btw his bday is on Sept 22, so he is on the cusps of Virgo/Libra-thanks if you can help:)!! May peace be unto all!

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By: francesca

francesca — Sun, 20 Nov 2011 23:21:06 +0000

10/10???? Please! Virgos are awful! They’re sooo critical and full of self-pity. A total bummer for a light, airy, charming Libra girl. Virgo is my least favorite sign next to Scorpio. Unless you have some compatible earth or water heavily influencing your chart (moon or rising), forget it–you’ll feel bummed out all the time. I’d give this maybe a 4/10.