Virgo Man and Pisces Woman Compatibility

Famous Virgo-Pisces Couples: Richard Gere and Cindy Crawford, Trisha Yearwood and Garth Brooks

Virgo man and Pisces woman is one of the most challenging combinations in the zodiac.  The attraction can be very strong, but for all the wrong reasons.  As you know, the Virgo-Pisces Axis has to do with mental health and pycho-soma (mind-body) connections.  Further, Virgo is the sign that is associated with order and correctness while Pisces is associated with chaos and Dionysian frenzy of the emotions.  Lastly, there is a tendency in young marriages for men to project all of their emotional issues on to the woman they choose.  Virgo is actually defending against chaos which means he is vulnerable to emotional upset and disorders because nowhere in life is there order except that which is imposed.  Pisces lives in a world of natural chaos and is typically happy there, but if and when a Virgo man who is uptight or one-dimensional (a common characteristic) chooses a Pisces women because she is somewhat out-of-control and drifting in a sea of emotion, they can polarize badly.  A common archetype would be Socrates and his wife Xantippe.  The more rational and logical Socrates became, or tried to become, the crazier and wilder Xantippe became, until she became the epitome of the shrieking, hysterical woman.  Not every Virgo man and Pisces woman will play this out but the name of the game can be “Who’s Got the Mental Illness?”

How to Attract a Pisces Woman as a Virgo Man: Offer to fix everything you notice is wrong — her car, her budget, her job, her relationship with her mother.  Be a little bit remote but gentlemanly.  Show your natural kindness.  Be very, very, very patient when she is late, loses her way, loses her car keys, doesn’t remember where she parked her car, forgets what day of the week it is … you get my drift.  In return, this lovely lady will be the epitome of romance.  Just handle her tenderly.

How to Attract a Virgo Man as a Pisces Woman:  Well for one thing you can be as helpless and hopeless as you really are.  It also helps to have a desperate problem — even a life-threatening one — such as a fatal illness.  Think of the opera La Boheme.  Of course I’m exaggerating to make a point.  The Virgo man will make you think that he wants everything to be perfect but what he really wants is something he can fix. He is gallant and old-fashioned and romantic to the core.  Play your cards accordingly.    Virgos do have a thing about chastity; mostly their own, so of course they’re attracted to people who don’t have any.  Liz Greene pegged it — “reforming the whore” — so you might want to consider assuming this vice if you have it not.  Really, Pisces, we all know that you’re in love with everybody and in this relationship it works to be yourself.

Degree of Romance: There is a great deal of romance here but it’s hard to keep it on the up-and-up.  For example, it is romantic to yearn for someone impossible to have.  It is romantic to want to heal someone who is desperately ill.  It is romantic to benefact someone whose life has spiraled out-of-control.  But this is perhaps not the best use of the energy.  I recommend that the couple in this combination try very hard to always take off their rose-colored glasses and see what is really going on … under the guise of romance.

Degree of Passion: This relationship can get really out of control, which might look like passion, but is more like a Night on Bald Mountain.  Many a Wagnerian opera comes to mind.  At the end of a Verdi there may be bodies all over, but that’s a whole lot better than souls.

Degree of Friendship:  Friendship?  Spending a day with these two is like going to Whitecastle with  Harold and Kumar.  They may be friends because they are the only people who can understand each other.  Weirdness abounds.

Degree of Marriage:  Well, opposites attract.  If they do marry, Pisces will be able to be a clinging vine to a resolute Virgo who helps her with everything.  I’m not sure this healthy.

Progression of Relationship:  It gets worse.  Like evolution, this begins at the bottom of the sea and then something washes up on the shore, but really … should fish grow legs?

Sex: Think about it.

When It’s Over:  This is one of the hardest relationships there is to disentangle.  There will be endless charges and discharges, both people playing victim, both focusing on all the wrong issues, both procrastinators, deniers, and avoiders.  The unwinding of the relationship will probably last longer than the relationship itself, but oh the agony and the ecstary.

Our Rating:    f~g <> f-g = o(g)

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66 Responses to Virgo Man and Pisces Woman Compatibility

  • Dmitri31 says:

    Not again…dear god no for sure. I barely left with my virgo sanity intact.

  • Amber says:

    That is my virgo and I to a T! we are literally complete opposites. My bday and his are mirrors 3/19-9/13

  • Lateesha says:

    yeah…something like that smh.

  • autumn says:

    im a pisces girl and im with a virgo guy. first PERSON (not just guy) i’ve ever met and spent almost every single day together since the first day we met. something was definitely different when he asked me if he could take me out after just one night. we certainly clicked. at first we had no problems just wanted to please each other and i was under the imnpression it’d always be that way. now we live together just after a couple months and its great. i love coming home to him and same for him. the only downfall is as ive read and it is true his practicality and my nonchalant attitude towards things. he often doesnt show emotion although i know how hes feeling. i sometimes have to pry it out of him and he doesnt like that. but im not going to ignore him if i think something is wrong. what helps more than anything is when we talk about something and figure out whats wrong and both offer solutions. it may not always work but in the end we are so in love with each other and so passionate we overcome any problem that comes our way. we have a mutual everlasting love for one another. we are pretty young but were not stupid or ignornant. its fun and wonderful having him in my life. sometimes challenging but worth it!

  • Aditya says:

    What does an asymptotic rating denote here ?

  • VirgoNY says:

    iam a virgo dude from ny and i live with my pisces girlfriend and her family for the last 3 years we have 5 year son and it hell we have been together off and on mostly on for 8 years i met her in high school we were in love crazy and im not gonna lie i type dogged her but for most part i justifbly did what i did and it came out that she cheated!!so now i dont trust her she lies all the time shes secertive she acts like she always has something to hide ,and i kno my worth and what i can acheive in life and im trying my hardest in the sitution the only reason why i live with her is because she wouldnt move to houston with me so being the best father that i want to be so i moved in with her and her family ,we argue all the time either about trust or secerts she always trys to be my mother and i hate that Sh*t iam a grown she babys my son crazy i really dont have any say so untill get irritated and take charge im gonna take responsibilty and say that i do get out of control and scream at her and say hurtful stuff but she drives it outta me iam in no way shape or form a violent person but i dont like to be played with and she try’s me all the time and sex is another story we started off having sex everyday now she has no sex drive and i know its not my appearance i am a good looking handsome guy i have to bring it up and make the 1st attemp to have sex and im tried of putting my pride on line when she not intrested and its hard for me to undertsand why she has no sex drive when she cheated and had sex with the next man ?? idk but anyways i always had the option of movin back to htown and its been three years and its kind of getting worse ..i kno in my heart i love her and she loves me but she doesnt show it anymore we hardly talk we act like a old senior citizen couple ….i want it to work ,i have no problem with being faithful and being a good husband she not getting the big picture …i have a screwed up sitiution and i need help iam kind of depressed because of this realatonship i love her and i want it to work

  • Virgoman says:

    I live with two friends who is a virgo and a pisces we are all males that live together and we have been friends since childhood. I get along very well with my virgo roommate we think EXACTLY alike. My pisces friend pisses the living shit out of me!! He always leaves dishes in the sink instead of the dishwasher..Every time he goes grocery shopping he just shoves everything in the godamn fridge without even trying to organize and worst of all he doesn’t clean the house as much as me and the other virgo I live with. Every time he cooks he never cleans up after himself. I’m starting to feel like I’m living with a dog. I want to say something but I don’t want to be an asshole about it and I don’t want to create a confrontation. Please Help!

  • The Virgonian says:

    I actually tried to date a pisces a while back and it was a bit of a train wreck. But what you have to say is pretty true. She was a mess, and so I tried to fix. I’m not quite sure what all happened to cause us to date, but yeah. Seriously. What. The. Hell.
    I really enjoyed this article! Very funny!

  • Prettygirl718 says:

    I was currently dating a virgo, we are now in the process of a break, due to the fact I am away at college and he is home. The feeling we once had was cosmic/ great, when we were together. The sex, laughs, everything was perfect, soon it all changed, we spent less and less time together. And he soon stopped
    calling and texn me alltogether very cold, he then blamed this on the distance and his busy scedule, and on the fact that he is trying to accomplish his goals. He claims he cant do long distance and it will be better when I move back home. This my heart could not understand, but slowly my mind allowed my heart to. Im a very beautiful smart girl, and I have men throwing there selves at me daily, Ive had other handsome men as bfs, and even thought it was love. But when I met my virgo not the sexiest the tallest, nothing to many of my girlfriends. But to me omg he melted my heart, it wasnt money or looks, or his body that first attracted me it was his oso calm, cool ,confident swag that grabbed me, but yet sweet and manly everything I ever wanted in a man. I truely believe I found the man I want to marry total a mess, hes order, im out going, hes mellow. Hes the perfect guy for me. So when he graduated and moved back to ny, I couldnt understand why all of his love for me stopped, and I knew for a fact he loved me. He fell back out of nowhere, which made me call and tex him even more, until one day I realized I always started the convo, either through text or orally. I snapped out of it and I refused to hit him up, and slowly he started calling and texn more, but now it stopd all together smh. I love him with all my heart but I refuse to beg a man to love me, and I told him this, he acts as if im crazy and that he hasnt been ignoring me. I tell my virgo that ” I will find another guy who will care, and he says to me “you can get any man you want, I know this, but ypu will never have what we have so I know you will never leave,and we will be married and stay together forever”. Im hurting because I think hes right our chemistry is to strong and so beautiful. But we havent talked in almost two weeks, and when we tex its short. Mabe he needs his space?,idk mabe it wasnt love and he just was witb me for my looks, it just felt so real, like he was my soulmate,:(..but owell acuna matada..i have to much pride and im only 23, I have the rest of my life to find love, but I am really hoping and praying it is him, he seems to me that he could be a wonderful husband and father, and hes so respectful, expecially to women and he treats his mother like gold, I smile thinking about this virgo even tho he bothers the hell out of me, I can take it I guess, but for now im focusing all my energy back into myself, dating finishing up school, and enjoying my life. when he finally realizes im gone, and wants me back he wont get the sweet, so inlove willing to give him everything pisces, I now have my guard up, and it wont be so easy this time.

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  • Sweetsensi says:

    Wow! I’m Pisces girl with my Virgo man of 7 years! Lol and I’m the insane one! But at least my man lives me and we are just at the point where it’s a joke and it’s helps with the arguments. We work perfectly together in a hot twisted sexy way. Bonnie and Clyde <3

  • Sophie says:

    I am a Pisces woman and I’m with a Virgo man,we started off as good friends through a mutual friend, until he told me how he felt about me,he told me everything I wanted to hear,he is my first serious boyfriend now…Everything was good up until a few days ago when I realized he was really insensitive,he doesn’t like showing affection in public,and he tends to be harsh with his words even when he doesn’t realize he is. He has moments when he can be really sweet,but then again they’re very brief moments. It may even be the fact that I’m too sensitive but I cant help it its in my nature. I considered breaking things off,but then I realize how much I do care for him.

  • Vallerie says:

    Prettygirl318. Dearest Pisces Woman, I’m am dreadfully sorry about your relationship. I currently really like this virgo male, and I know that we are complete opposites. I thought it was because I was in love with a Virgo man before. Them, being manly, caring at times, strong, full of wisdom, that swag that always gets to me like a body sized magnet, the coolness, and how they seem to walk with such calmingness and control. Although, its not so much that because they’re a train wreck too trying to make everything perfect. Their minds are constantly thinking, they can wear themselves out by just laying there! And when I read your story it tears my heart apart because it it is something else, something stronger. your story seems so similar to mine with my first Love and how it went down the shit whole! I realized how I was always putting everything into the relationship! EVERYTHING! I always called or texted first, and later the conversations got so dull and short/boring, and believe me when i say i don’t get bored easly. I honestley don’t want things to end terribly with this second man, I’m scared to be hurt again. Maybe I should stop living in a fantasy world thinking that I’m the exception not the rule! Because its never going to happen. I have to stop thinking that i’m not going to make it end like all the other shitty one’s on this page and other pages! I have to stop having that 1 % that just sits there and gives me hope for me. Virgo’s are Virgo’s. Perfectionist bastards. And we Pisces are chaos! I sometimes can’t stand myself because i drive myself crazy of how messed up I am. Jupitor, the planet of luck, its in our sign. We just bring the bad luck to ourselves with the decisions we make and how we keep picking at it and picking at it until we get in so deep its impossible to get out! . But I do hope you two find happiness.
    I like to think about it like the story The Notebook, its kinda different but it seems that they faught all the time, 99% of the time but they still loved each other. I believe he loves you and you love him from what you shared. Its always going to be the Pisces who has to put the most into the relationship with a Pisces-Virgo relationship. We’re going to have to learn not to be so sensitive, although its really hard because its our Nature to be overly sensitive!! I’m guessing that love comes with a consequence, struggling to keep both happy. But I believe in true love, when it really is love, anything can happen with effort. Yeah, it sucks too cause we’re also very prideful, but its from this world we live in, its discusting to think what it does to us. But Just think of later on in another life how happy you two will be without pride and the world! Don’t give up! If he wanted to leave you, he could’ve done it a loooong time ago.
    I just hope you and I can find that one person.

  • shelly2fish says:

    This article rings very true for my relationship. ive been with my Virgo man 10 years. Since i was 17 years old. My highschool sweetheart, we were from 2 different worlds. I grew up in the affluent suburbs of Westchester County NY, he was from Flatbush Brooklyn. Soo cool, confident, and strong. My parents and grandparents adored him. He has class and taste that could rival 007. 10 years later were married and we have a beautiful baby boy. My little scorpio clone of him. Our differences have only made us stronger. I can rely on him to take care of the afffairs im not really comfortable doing. Hes my big handsome firm tree, and I’m his adoring wife. This union can work. it just takes a little bit of work but its well worth the rewards. As a pisces i really had to stop being so sensitive, and he had to learn not to be soo critical and judgemental. Ive allowed some of his better traits to rub off on me. I’m more responsible than before, im more organized. Hes a bit more daring and creative than he was before. I even got him to try new foods. ( a big acomplishment in my book) my advise is dont give up on this union. work on it.

  • USMCVirgo88 says:

    My Pisces, well my second one anyway. I fell in love with the sign after my first brush with it. I played my cards wrong the first time, was unfaithful and pretty soon she the betrayal caused her to resist giving herself to me which of course drove me Virgo(private perverts) up a wall. Needless to say the relationship ended, but after licking my wounds I realized that Pisces was the sign for me. Fast-forward 4 years and I met her but here is the twist, she was from my past. I was supposed to lose my virginity to her but got cold feet back in my shy days(all Virgos experience this side of themselves, either they shed it or they stay shy all their lives). As soon as I realized she was a Pisces it was already too late, the fire had been rekindled and I was smitten. I can not tell a lie, I didn’t immediately get what I wanted but if I said she wasn’t receptive to my advances I would be lying. She would gracefully accept my compliments and even entertained my episodes of bellyaching because she wasn’t mine at the time. When it was time though and we became available to each other my days of sadness were over. Secretly every Virgo needs that kickstand(support), she helps me put the pieces back together of this puzzle we call life. Help like that is a rare find so that’s why I can never get aggravated when she needs my help. I enjoy being needed.

  • virgoed says:

    long distance relationships isnt our virgo men strong side but we think about u pisces women everyday!!! i know my texts are short and boring but its hard to interact when ur far far away, i might not show my emotions much but im full of it… im rly sorry to hurt ur feelings and i will always love u all my life even though i have no idea where u r … i hope i will meet again one day!!! just to hug u for 1 more time……

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