Virgo Man and Scorpio Woman Compatibility

Famous Virgo-Scorpio Couples:

Keanu Reeves and Parker Posey

This is an unlikely combination, pretty much guaranteed to destroy the best in each other after an initial period of obsession.  Scorpio is a very strong sign interested in power based on sexual prowess in the female and this is not particularly geared toward enticing a Virgo man who could generally care less about power or sex and is mainly interested in self-mastery and integrity.  In fact, it might be a test of his integrity to turn away from The Temptress.  The initial basis of attraction between Virgo man and Scorpio woman would be the intensity they both can feel for the object of their desire.  Both signs are discriminating to the nth degree.  Scorpio is looking for a certain type of sexual connection — after all, sex is their religion.  Virgo is looking for a particular fit — according to their inner diagram of “the soul mate”.  Of all the signs, these are the two least likely to date around, to date casually, or to be players.

How to Attract a Virgo Man as a Scorpio Woman:

“Come into my parlor,” said the spider to the fly.  We mean nothing negative about this; it’s just the nature of spiders and flies.  If ever a man in the world needed seducing, it’s a Virgo man.  So, please, Scorpio lady, do your thang.

How to Attract a Scorpio Woman as a Virgo Man:

The Scorpio woman does the choosing, but if you have your eye set on her, your best bet is to show an intense sexual vibration in your aura.  This is one lady who moves quickly to consummation — if she’s interested at all — and all you have to do is be a willing participant.  You probably need to muster up some emotions and say a few of the right things, but she’ll pretty much take control if she’s interested. If she’s not interested she’ll flick you off like a fly on her shoulder and you’ll just have to take “no” for an answer.  By way of encouragement, I will add that your discriminating faculties are usually correct.  If you are interested in her, it’s not for no reason.  Trust your instincts.  (Of course it’s well known that Virgo likes to “reform the whore.”)

Degree of Romance:

Scorpio will be oriented toward sex and emotions, tending to excess in both.  Virgo can supply a fine stream of romantic counter-point, bringing the relationship into balance.  Virgos are among the most romantic signs in the zodiac, and, like Don Quixote and Dulcinea, they handle illusion well, and the illusion is that you are a fairy princess, even if you fall a little short of the mark.

Degree of Passion:

There is a high degree of erotic attraction here which surpasses passion in its intensity.  A Scorpio woman is probably every Virgo man’s secret fantasy.  At least half the time he’s with you, he’ll be thinking “If this is a dream, don’t wake me up.”

Degree of Friendship:

These two can be exceptionally devoted friends.  Virgo can sooth the trouble waters of Scorpio like no other and reduce the enormity of her concern to pragmatic details that can be easily taken care of.  At this, she will marvel.  In turn, the Scorpio woman can provide emotional support and push forward the Virgo man forward in his career.  These two will always have plenty to talk about as friends, too.  They are perhaps at their best in this function.  Many a Scorpio woman has taken a Virgo man under her wings and helped guide him through the morass of political snares because she understands the undercurrents of the group and the not-so-nice motives of some people (people do things that the normal Virgo would blush to imagine).

Degree of Marriage:

This can make a good marriage if the emphasis is on work, raising a family, and accomplishing things.  Virgo does not start out to set the world on fire, but many a Virgo becomes terribly successful by virtue of being so good at what they do.  Many Virgos are “the best in their field,” be it SCUBA diving, library science, or brain surgery.  Many Virgos wind up as consultants later in life because so many people have learned to look up to them.  Together, Virgo and Scorpio accomplish a lot.  If she is a Lady Macbeth-type Scorpio and he’s a Casper Milquetoast-like Virgo, of course it will be disastrous.

Progression of Relationship:

Virgo tends to do things right the first time, including courtship, but Scorpio may not be so easily led.  She may try to rush into sex as a means of getting power.  If only she knew how much better it would be to wait and do things his way.  The Virgo man will probably be forgiving of any mistakes the Scorpio woman makes — and quietly correct them.  As I said before, he will insist on treating her like a lady, even if she isn’t acting like one.  Virgos are the farthest thing from casual and impulsive.  The Virgo male will have his plan of courtship laid out carefully in his own mind, step-by-step, and it is probably a thing of great beauty.  If only she would “let it be.”  If you do just let it be, he will amaze and delight you, having put more thought into what might please you, than you can almost imagine.


This is likely to be a strong point in their relationship.  Most Scorpio woman are masters at sex,  and exude confidence and expertise at love making, whereas Virgo prides himself on going to any extreme to make sure to please and fulfill their partner.  They will explore the ins and outs of sex, sharing many notes and details and points of interest.  And remember both these signs are perfectionists in their own way.  When they focus intensely on the erotic union, they will take years and years to explore all of the nooks and crannies of delight.

When It’s Over:

Scorpio has a reputation for bad endings, like the 3rd act of a Verdi opera.  It’s hard to bring Virgo down to that level.  Scorpio may rant and rave, threaten, stalk, and seek revenge, but it’s hard to carry through when the other party is disinterested.  Vindictiveness is a game for two.  If Virgo decides he must leave, he will do it the way he does everything — precisely and carefully, and with his own brand of honor.  What she keeps throwing down, he will pick back up, polish off and put back where it belongs, until everything is tidy and in order, drawing things to a successful conclusion.

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  1. First of all what makes Scorpio so dangerous. We are both water and earth…No category….we conform to anything very well. And we will surcum instantly. Watch out very dangerous. I am a Scorpio women married to a well rounded Virgo man. What a sexy couple. I can’t explain it. And if I could I wouldn’t even try we are a very powerful match. I’m older he’s younger . What a man. I told him when I met him. People love to hate me or hate to love me….Oh Yes….I will just leave you with that. DO NOT CATEGORIZE SCORPIO….

  2. I’ve dated one virgo maybe 4 or 5 years ago and recently got really close to another Virgo in which I believe he was in love with me as I was with him. The one I dated years ago I fell in love with him but I was really pushy….it was hard for me to love him because of my past…my pain from my past kept me from recognizing real love back then….after ruining the relationship and not realizing what I did….I got in a abusive relationship wit a Sagittarius….while I was with this Sagittarius and going through the abuse my Virgo came for me but still I didn’t recognize love in my face….his words before I got wit Sagittarius was that HE WASNT GONNA WAIT FOR ME FOREVER….which is what happened….after finally leaving the Sagittarius….he was and is still wit his Leo girlfriend/baby momma… hurt me so bad…..and all I could do was except the fact that I messed up…..I still haven’t moved on in my heart….but as long as he happy I’m cool….recently I happen to meet another Virgo and we became close and reminded me of my ex Virgo in some ways….this time I recognized love when I saw it but it was hard for him to settle wit me because of his past….he runs from me and it reminds me of my ex Virgo because before we split he ran from me….instead of telling me where I was going wrong they both run….I love really deeply and running to me cuts me… ex Virgo hurt me so bad when he broke up wit me because I did something he didn’t like to get his attention…..he was the first person I ever connected wit…..I cried for days when we broke up….finally I got tired and fought for him and he took me back but it didn’t feel the same anymore….he made me go through so much….he didn’t treat me the same….and finally WHEN he realizes everything I stop caring which is what led me to the abusive Sagittarius….I found in the beginning with the Sagittarius what I was looking for in ex virgo which was somebody who would stay….my recent Virgo seems to be mad wit me about something but instead of talking about it he runs….then he expects me to do what he wants after he runs…..DONT RUN FROM ME….JUS TALK TO ME….LET ME IN….LET ME LOVE U….I love virgos with a passion but I jus may be done with loving a Virgo and all together….

  3. btw i have never experienced the hot then cold thing with my virgo man. He is always 100% with me. I even have gotten scared, broken up, pulled away etc… and everytime my virgo man tells me he is there for me at home waiting when im ready to talk and work things out, and that even though i need my space or want to break up cuz im mad about something…. he will never give up on me and will not be doing anything other than trying to make money, not out looking for a new girl. Hes very patient with me. Im the one that gives him hot then cold. but it usaually only lasts a day or two.

  4. I am a scorpio female (11/11) 25y. My bf is a Virgo male (10/20) 27y. We have been dating for 5 months now. The relationship is going great and progressing. With a virgo, you must push if you want progress, but after you push retreat and wait for him to do it. because if you keep pushing he wont do it, but if you tell him once its what will make you happy then sit back and wait, if he loves you- he will surprise you with whatever it is you asked for… as long as you showed patience and stopped bringing it up. loll i guess he wants it to be on his time so it dont look like your controlling him. The first couple of months of the relationship… great, got to know eachother and spent everyday together. 3 rd month was rocky, just because as a scorpio I love lots of emotion, and they arent that emotional, to know if he cares about u, is by seeing if hes doing small gestures for you. Mine cooks for me atleast 2 times a week, he works nites i work morning so every morning i go to my car he has left a morning coffee for me to drink on my way to work (we live 10 mins from eachother). He is my personal alarm, he calls me at 7 am sharp every morning to wake me for work. He brings me lunch about twice a month to work. He takes my car while im working to get my oil changes and car washed and cleaned. The DO stuff for you when they are in love. They arent good with saying it. The reason we had ups and downs during the 3rd month is becuase as a scorpio I wonder if he really loves me since hes not emotional and it started arguments. My best advice, if hes doing things for u he does, he will love you to pieces and you will never hear more than I LOVE YOU. no mushy gooshy long paragraphs like romeo and juliet. BUT there is 1 thing. I would Complain it made me FEEL unloved to not get long notes and stuff… then leave the topic alone. and behold 1 or 2 days later .. i get it. it would last a while then stop (since they’re not used to it). i would wait a week casusally make a complaint then leave it alone… and again I would get it a day or two later for about a week. They arent programmed to be all lovey dovey, but they do want to do that for you. you just have to give them a little push and when they do it and you respond with adoration for it… they will learn to keep doing it for you. They love making you happy and doing things for you if they love you. Month 4 and 5 went great since we got through all the arguments and made it through the 3rd month. its all communication. Always tell HIM (virgo) what u dont like. (i have a virgo moon so im just as critical) then have patience to see him change it for you… they love patience. if you show it after asking for something, more than likely you will get it. Now my virgo man and I are searching for an apt together. we started a company together… and hes wayyy affectionate with words more so than he used to be. its just a little training since they arent used to it, but they can do it , and enjoy doing it… because they like the adoration they recieve back. I will tell you that one day I was in his facebook msgs… just casually looking through because we dont mind eachother seeing our stuff…. even though we rarely look… and I saw a msg to his dad and brother telling them how much he loved me and wanted to marry me one day and sent lots of his favorite pictures of me to them (they are in another country). I never knew he felt that way nor did i know he sent that to them weeks earlier. But it made my heart happy knowing he did even though he never told me…. like i said they dont tell you their feelings … they feel you should know by how they treat you. He does everything for me which I love. But seeing that msg to his family assured me of his intentions for me and made all of my questions regarding his feelings for me disappear and thats why since that 3rd month we have been so great. I now know he dont say it, but he feels it, and as long as hes DOING things to try to please and help make my life easier… thats how I know he still FEELS in love with me.

  5. I’m unlucky enough to have a broken relationship twice with Virgo men. It was literally beautiful relationship but as I’m scropio woman haha I end up destroying everything. I had break up 5 months before and sadly happily it was a mutual decision(but I messed up here too haha at first) but it’s life we should move on I’m sure he is happy with his life without me so why would I bang my head time and again. I still do love him but I’m literally happy for him even though I’m not part of his life and also I’m sure he’ll never forget me that’s the Scropio spirit right?? So everyone this life is for once who knows what will happen tomorrow so forgive everybody and be happy

  6. Coco, is there some sort of male infertility condition happening with your future hubby and its bothering you that you may never be able to share that bond of conceiving a baby together, does he have any children of his own as I see you mention you already have??…..Girl worrying about that is the least bit of your problems, what you are worrying about is not such a big of deal just have faith because God works in mysterious ways and you would be surprised to find you end up getting pregnant with twins when you least expect it, so if thats the case If I were you I wouldn’t at all be worried about that.

    But please lets here from you, we can only assume unless you come back and speak up, if we dont know then we certainly wont be able to advise you accordingly or make any kind of suggestions, but quit worrying about that for now though.

  7. Yeah Coco, lets here whats happening why you wont be able to have his baby, is it for medical reasons, did you have a bad past experience and its making you scared,….lets hear whats happening with you.

    Coco are you still there…..stay with us coco, lets get to the whats bothering you!!

  8. I’m a Scorpio woman in love with a Virgo man for 3 months now. I just enjoy our time together because I don’t know how long it’s gonna last. We do everything together & show each other love & affection. We’ve met each other’s families & spent the holidays together like a real couple. I’m afraid I won’t be able to have his baby and he’ll leave me. I’m also afraid we’ll be together but not with a baby of our own. I know a baby won’t make a man stay so not having a baby won’t make him leave either. I have 4 children so he already has children, my children. Meanwhile we can practice making a baby together. I call him my hubby because I’m his wifey. He says we’re getting married someday when family, friends & even strangers ask us when we’re getting married. I’m just waiting on him to propose & I’m saying yes!

  9. We all have our flaws and some of us are or has been working real hard to make it right, in reality though, some people just love you for who your are and not minding your shortcomings.
    I do not want, nor, do I want you to want, the idea just of each other, that is way too easy, moreover its not real. I want you – faults and all, and I would want you to want me – faults and all.
    Its an amazing feeling to be touched by someone who not only understands your mind, but acknowledges your flaws yet loves your soul.

    Have a great week.
    Merry Xmas & Happy New Year in Advance

  10. What kind of ‘whore’ does these Philosophical Zodiac Astrologers think us Scorpio women are….we are not just about sex, sex and more sex, though having that connection is important for us, buttttt COME oooon now, give is a break, will ya shhheeesh!

    So true however, once you make us have to raise that stinger you’re “dead” , buried, probably alive too and forgotten for your ass, as though you never existed, we will walk past you and act like a total stranger ( that’s kinda what you’ve become to us), If I ever see another Virgo man in this lifetime, I’ll run and hide under a rock and never to come out for air, I’d rather die or come out and kill you is never a totally ruled out option!. They are the most despicable, heartless, lying son of a bitch one will ever come across, did I forget to mention LIE, sickening to the soul, if you do anything else to us, never lie, lying is an abomination to the lord and much so to us as well, if you mean yourself any good, never lie, BECAUSE might not be today, or tomorrow, or the other day, next week or next year BUT we will find out, there is no question about it and if you are fooling yourself and thinking we know nothing, then you’re just as naive misleading yourself to believe that, observant we are and enjoy analyzing our surroundings and people in it before taking actions.

    I had one in my life for a number of years and every single day I would ask myself, would this really be the man I will spend the rest of my life with, it was a truly traumatizing experience for me because I knew he was not what I wanted or should say no longer after what happened.

    Degree of Marriage; OFF-COURSE IT WOULD HAVE BEEN DISASTROUS, for the very same reason I gave back the ring within a week, just did not feel it happening at all, and I wasn’t going to risk finding ‘true’ happiness by restraining myself in misery with someone I had lost ALL Respect and Trust for, just wasn’t gonna happen. ( my dream man was still out there looking for me, I just felt it – and we will revisit how I came to that conclusion at a later date). AND so glad am I that I followed through on my gut instincts because if it doesn’t feel good, then it probably never will.

    But woe and behold early ONE MORNING for sure out of the mucky tainted waters (scorpio/water and virgo/earth = mud), there was a breath of fresh AIR and oh so cool and mesmerizing it felt, I would smell it at a distance but never really could understand where it was coming from or why the scent kept lingering in the air, and so without a doubt I did Trip and ended up Falling on an amazing, though rather uncanny chap, who I can never get enough of in a weird kinda way too, who is this man, who sent him and what did they tell him, I asked myself… he is so down to earth, keeps my laughing so hard, feeds my soul, stimulates my mind with an experience out of this world, already has earned my Respect for a number of reason but one in particular just because……….
    Degree of Marriage here; indeed “Terrific – somehow he has managed to take the sting out of this Scorpio for sure” and I know why I say this.

    He is the only one who has ever managed to do this…. EVER!

    Someday for sure, he and I will just sit and laugh about all this for sure , I have found the man of my dreams, CANT WAIT 😀

    (on a much, much, much heavier note, son of a bitch virgo tried to ruin my life – stay away from them people, they are pretenders of the earth!!!)

  11. ScorpioGal70November 24, 2015 at 2:52 pm

    It seems that lately I attract nothing but Virgo Men. I just got out of a 3 year realtionship with a Virgo and after 8 months of being single I have met another Virgo Man. It is true in my case as a Scorpio woman that after a breakup it is usually a bad break up. I really buy into the term that someone is “dead to me” I just feel so much better hating someone and then at that point I feel like I can move on. This new Virgo man is such a nice person, he is funny and even likes watching Lifetime movies!! I am already on guard for the not so “good stuff” to come everything cant be good all the time. So far so good.

  12. AlmanacquertypantsJune 2, 2015 at 12:49 pm

    I just checked out the Virgo woman Scorpio man article too. It says they can break up with mutual respect in a mature manner without a problem. But according to this a Scorpio temperament combined with the sex: female renders a person chronically hysterical and incapable of rational thought. I just wish I could get a horoscope from people who don’t despise women, but clearly that’s never gonna happen.

  13. I’ve been in many relationships be4 but this is de sweetest .he treats me gud both in bed en anywhere else.the only prblm is too cool.he is insecure in bed, it feels tht i win evrydy.his surportive wen it comes to bussiness.the only thing is am afraid i may loose him , but he alway say am entirely difrent to all the ladies he dated be4 they agreed wth everything he said.he says wth me its it different, am the most inteligent girl he has ever met

  14. The VirgonianOctober 21, 2011 at 5:03 pm

    How to Attract a Virgo Man as a Scorpio Woman: “Come into my parlor,” said the spider to the fly. We mean nothing negative about this; it’s just the nature of spiders and flies. If ever a man in the world needed seducing, it’s a Virgo man. So, please, Scorpio lady, do your thang.

    I’m dating a Scorpio woman at the moment, actually. There’ve been a few times we’ve almost ended up dating in the past, but this is the first time we’re going past the friend stage. It’s been pretty fun so far, I’m looking forward to seeing how it goes

  15. ya tru things that doesn’t kill us makes us stronger 🙂

  16. scorpioprincess in virgoloveOctober 15, 2011 at 11:34 pm

    i have to say this was a very interesting reading about virgoman /scorpiowoman… i really liked it 😉 should be more of them! been in love with a virgo since the first time we met i knew this one would be a hard one.. we had the best sex evvvaaah and ive been with a few before him and some after him too and really cant forget him…… hurts because we are like million miles away and i will probably never see him again.. but i wish i was such a lucky girl could have a man like him by my side all the time… he really looks just perfect and he is so cool.. sexy hooot virgoman…… hope this girl alia get back hers 😉 im just the same type telling what i feel very fast and very many words…. scorpios have just too much feelings to sort out and when it comes out i think its just too much for the virgomen whos trying to keep it so cool to handle;) but it took me like 2 years before i told him about my feelings….. just had to because i want him to know it… and i kind of have that feeling that he hasnt forgot me either… i thought he knew how i felt, but that he didnt want things so emotional, because it was sex we both wanted but who could knew this was gonna be my beeest sexmate ever.. so i kept it cool my self and dissapeared out of the blue and he didnt show me any passion or feelings at all, just in bed and thats just not enough at all for a girl like me…. but i really wish i was tough enough that time to tell it but i wasnt…feels muuch better to say it as it is anyway… in the end i feel more better about it now just knowing that he knows.. what is ment to be will be thats just something i believe,but i guess we wasnt ready for that any of us anyway at that time….. and it probbably was just me feeling it that way…. i have to say it was SEX at first sight hahha and i just believe love is stronger than pride! im a proud AND shy scorpio girl.. so if he is such a cool virgo guy and every virgoman is like that , im sure about that scorpios and virgos can only survive inside bed but not outside of it…… scorpios needs that passion or we will freezzze into ice and acting like nothing happened and move on asap… scorpios are strong enough to do it but believe me it hurts… but what doesnt kill makes us stronger 😉

  17. Anonymous84October 3, 2011 at 4:53 am

    I loved this description, and it really outlines what I’ve experienced during my last 3 months of dating a Virgo man. Especially the part about reforming the whore (haha!). Our schedules are incredibly incompatible, but he prefers I not see anyone else. When I felt like my overwhelmingly intense emotions towards him weren’t being reciprocated, he responded with the sweetest confession of realistic, pragmatic but completely reinforcing feelings. He does guide me back to the reality between us when I get too intense (with feelings for or against him). We slept together on our first date, and I absolutely use that power to keep him engaged. Not to mention our chemistry is HOT! It’s amazing that I’ve latched on to someone so physically unavailable, but with the emotional skills to keep me at it. It’s been fun, and the slowest moving relationship I’ve ever had- because of his need to be sure/sacrifice his time and that I won’t use that term unless I am his priority. But it’s been good and fun and sexy as hell! Well done, horoscope website

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